Remember guys it's a male privilege to always feel "safe"

Rick_Hentai_ · 2019-11-13T19:03:18+00:00

It's basically saying that her paranoia is our fault which is complete bullshit

EvilLothar · 2019-11-13T19:08:01+00:00

These women are so delusional they don't figure that an Uber driver that is going to kidnap her doesn't know how to work a vacuum...

5th_Law_of_Robotics · 2019-11-13T19:17:22+00:00

Sounds like untreated mental illness.

huxepenner · 2019-11-13T19:25:03+00:00

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RIPOldAccountF · 2019-11-13T19:43:55+00:00

I never used uber but wouldnt they know you were there because when you order your uber it shows what car is matched with you that picks you up?

huxepenner · 2019-11-13T21:40:38+00:00

This is the state women are in after taking a Women's Studies course or if they become a feminist and spend all their time reading feminist books and on online feminist forums. They develop paranoia and possible delusions that everytime they go out there will be a man lurking to rape or kidnap them, to the extent that it becomes mental illness.

The woman who posted that sounds like she should be on medication.

mherm79 · 2019-11-13T19:08:42+00:00

Simple: don't voluntarily get into a car with a complete stranger at the wheel!

tragedyfish · 2019-11-13T21:40:01+00:00

When someone uses Uber, their phone's location and the driver's location are tracked. This is part of the terms of service that must be agreed to when installing the app. If the driver fails to deliver the passenger, stays in the same location for an extended time, or takes a convoluted route, Uber knows. Additionally, most drivers have a camera in the car. For the safety of the driver and the passenger. The stupidest time that one could choose to assualt, kidnap, etc., someone would be when they are employed as an Uber driver.

trseeker · 2019-11-13T22:31:02+00:00

As always they believe that their insanity is the fault of men.

Mens_rights_matter2 · 2019-11-13T20:46:29+00:00

Shit like this actually pisses me off. Men are 89% more likely to be the victim of a violent crime. It seems like women are 89% more likely to worry about shit that doesn't affect them at all/s. When is the last time you have heard of a grown ass woman you know getting kidnapped?

antilopes · 2019-11-13T21:58:23+00:00

Except... men literally get killed far more frequently than women

ChocolatePanzer · 2019-11-13T21:42:49+00:00

That woman is a lunatic.

AbysmalDescent · 2019-11-13T21:11:48+00:00

I don't understand how someone can even make the argument that men never go missing or that men never have anything to fear, especially against the reality that men face far more physical violence or threats of violence than women do.

I don't understand how someone could actually make this argument that her personal insanity, or delusional fear, is somehow men's fault or responsibility.

Also, in this day and age of digital tracking, I don't really think dropping a strand of hair is going to accomplish much that her phone or uber hiring practices wouldn't have already solved. If she was to be kidnapped, what would that one strand of hair even accomplish? At best, the police find the car and confirm that she was, indeed, kidnaped in that car(which they already knew); at worse, wouldn't the kidnapper in her insane scenario just disposes of the car or destroy the evidence in some way or another(because DNA is everywhere, not just hair).

Nothing about this makes any sense.

OrionTheWolf · 2019-11-13T21:13:33+00:00

So has the meaning of privileged become not being paranoid?

yeehawdolphins · 2019-11-14T03:08:01+00:00

Why in the fuck would you take a god damned uber then? God these women are fucking nuts

Lion_amongst_gods · 2019-11-14T05:11:07+00:00

So you're saying... Women are culturally appropriating people with schizophrenia and somehow I'm supposed to feel bad?

shadowguyver · 2019-11-14T02:25:55+00:00

As a Uber driver I am subjected to random checks using my camera to make sure it is me that is using the app, background checks often and have to have my real first name and picture on the profile. Passengers however do not have to use real names or post a picture, nor is it always the person whose account is being used that is the passenger.

I am more at risk. A passenger was talking about how scary it is to be a passenger I told her about how I was sexually assaulted by a female passenger and she laughed asking "what did she do, pull out her penis?" She was still laughing while attempting an apology. She received a low rating.

2019-11-13T21:19:44+00:00

I do feel privileged that I'm not a paranoid psychotic.

username001776 · 2019-11-13T20:23:37+00:00

Bruh this is so cringey

MalusMalorum · 2019-11-13T23:54:03+00:00

...it is really interesting how when you actually look at people you know, you hardly ever find those general attitudes about always having to take those mostly rather pointless "security measures".

...and strangely, at the same time, we get those stories about solo female travelers in countries that are actually warranting a certain level of basic safety precautions which said travelers ignore...

Almost like those whole laundry lists of things women apparently always do are maybe not a woman thing but rather a crazy feminist thing?

RagingHardBull · 2019-11-14T01:23:18+00:00

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jack_trag3dy · 2019-11-13T19:55:04+00:00

I do this tho so the point is null

MrMango331 · 2019-11-13T21:23:21+00:00

privelaged lul

Jamescovey · 2019-11-13T21:38:47+00:00

What about the cell phone data? Isn’t that sufficient?

alclarkey · 2019-11-14T01:49:03+00:00

Pro-tip: You don't have to think about those things 24/7 either.

undercoverjeans · 2019-11-14T09:01:36+00:00

fatal car accidents happen more frequently soooo

Chilael · 2019-11-14T11:38:28+00:00

But the teacher who leaves the door open when solo-teaching a female student is probaly misogynist/selfish/pathetic to think they are in danger, because just men do bad things, of course.

Metraxis · 2019-11-14T15:07:39+00:00

The world is not safe.

The world cannot be made safe.

You have to live in it anyway.

Real privilege is not having to face these facts.

Mythandros · 2019-11-13T22:22:20+00:00

Hey, her mental problems are not something I am jealous of.

Canisluous1558 · 2019-11-14T01:10:45+00:00

Women seem to be idiots.

Mackowatosc · 2019-11-14T00:22:44+00:00

Just buy a gun

2019-11-14T01:07:21+00:00

Don't use an uber then.

McFeely_Smackup · 2019-11-14T04:37:29+00:00

so these women claim they are terrified of getting kidnapped...but they get into the Uber anyway.

that's either the behavior of a sick mind, or someone highly exaggerating their actual concern.

the only clear takeaway is some women are pathologically paranoid about extremely unlikely risks, risks that men are actually at more danger of but pay less concern to.

2019-11-14T07:39:43+00:00

if she's so worried about not being safe why doesn't she find herself a man? that's what the male/female dynamic is for in nature. Humans often forget they are animals.

gbBaku · 2019-11-14T08:57:16+00:00

For a clown, she is not funny.

At least I assume she is a clown because of all that paint on her face.

TrannysNeedPimozide · 2019-11-14T18:30:54+00:00

The app is linked to both your cellphone and credit card. Your phone has GPS. Females are intellectually inferior.

DubsPackage · 2019-11-14T22:28:21+00:00

Well

I grant that some women feel very unsafe and I'm sorry for that.

I don't agree that I'm privileged for it, I mean I've felt unsafe at various points in my life too.

Here's hoping that everybody gets to feel safer in life.

Svenskbtch · 2019-11-15T10:35:49+00:00

Perhaps a parallel to this paranoid version of an understandable reaction is men recording sexual encounters (or asking partners to sign contracts or other things along those lines). Is that the fault of women as a group? I hope few would claim that (though I know some might).

In fact, I would prefer it not only that women became a bit less paranoid, but also that men became a bit more cautious about exposing themselves to danger, be it violence or false accusations or job loss.

didnotreddit12 · 2019-11-19T20:15:40+00:00

Should've not hotboxed in the bloody Uber.

boringcarpets · 2019-11-14T09:10:28+00:00

Into an uber, not a minicab, but an uber. For those who have two braincells to rub together the difference is a minicab is just a car that can be hailed, anyone can drive them, no tracking, might not even be legit. an uber is tracked by app, user, driver, destination, pick up, card details, times etc etc. These women are thick as pig shit. If you're that worried about getting into the car.... don't get in the fucking car, jesus where is the common sense or agency?

WolfeBane84 · 2019-11-14T10:20:03+00:00

Too afraid to get into cars, too afraid to walk places.

Sounds like you should just be someone who stays at home....

You know what I mean.

Mackowatosc · 2019-11-14T11:35:10+00:00

Yep, that is a psychiatric case.

p3ngwin · 2019-11-14T12:02:27+00:00

so fear of kidnapping is her paranoia, and we need to pander to her illness ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YMvMb90hem8

2019-11-14T03:37:07+00:00

I had some hope for this page. but there goes that

SuitableBird1 · 2019-11-13T20:37:34+00:00

this is so true tho women are more prone to sexual assault and violence than men are..yall should learn a thing or two and fucking grow up

Remember guys it's a male privilege to always feel "safe"

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Title	Remember guys it's a male privilege to always feel "safe"
Author	Ruchie74
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Date	November 13, 2019 6:50 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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