[40-F] why those who talk to me only want sex? I have already passed that stage… we are not objects!!11oneone

Fairwareprovidence · 2022-01-07T16:31:50+00:00

I don't support women with my money. I have already passed that stage.

RedBlow22 · 2022-01-07T16:47:11+00:00

I don't want a hookup, but my pic is a bikini shot, accentuating my large breasts and generous cleavage. Pluzeeze!

NBA_MSG · 2022-01-07T16:46:31+00:00

Yes, showing cleavage is an effective way to weed out hookups.

2022-01-07T17:58:21+00:00

"we're not objects" proceeds to present as one.

🤡

user84893093748959 · 2022-01-07T16:59:50+00:00

Imagine being this 40-year-old woman and not fully understanding that Tinder is a hookup app.

Seriously, does she really think hot guys (she'd only match with Chad hot guys) want to hang out with her? Would does she want? Notice she doesn't say what she wants, other than entertain me ("having something of interest").

I'd really like to understand what someone like her wants to do - in this "new" stage of her life.

Thinguy123 · 2022-01-07T17:38:36+00:00

"Why those who talk to me only want sex", Don't you know how to read?"

You know how "Manchild" get's thrown as an insult towards men, on a daily basis

Ladies and gentlemen, here we find a specimen of the "woman-child"

Why? Simple really, allow me to explain

Naive

Children are idealistic, naive, and gullible, it's part of our nature and development.

a naive man will wise up after too many red pills, could be 1, could be 100, but it will happen, as you have contact with the outside reality, the youthful idealism completely disappears replaced by jaded cynicism

A woman has the "gift" of remaining (mostly) unaware of the world and it's harsh realities, while a man eats the entire stock of the shit pie factory on a daily basis, women on the other hand are completely blindsided after experiencing an atom sized slice of said pie, go full "i never imagined it would be this hard/unfair/etc" and most have the option of turning tail and never do it again.

Well, this woman keeps believing she's 22, taking pictures that a 22 year old would take, believing that spewing any non-sensical rambling would guarantee male attention, i mean it worked in the past, why doesn't it work now? What changed? There's a word for that Naive

She never bothered to develop maturity or a personality, because it wasnt needed, the male attention was overwhelming despite of her input, so why change it?

She got attention despite her red flags, not because of them, but this is a concept too difficult to understand, she straight up admits being a slut, that wasn't a dealbreaker for men before (because chad only wanted to pump and dump, and a slut is suited perfectly for the task) now that she wants something else, she can only afford pump and dumps.

If you dont punish but instead reward bad behavior is a surefire way to have a child end up a trainwreck, that goes for both genders, but heres the thing, giving a child unlimited candy, and giving a woman a sea of male attention, what at first seems a reward, without responsibility it will become the root of a lot problems, a child binging on candy, not understanding why something that tastes good (candy, male attention) could be bad for you.

notice how every cartoon in the history of mankind has an episode where the main character gets sick from eating too much of something he likes and learns the lesson at the end?

But women somehow don't put 2 and 2 together regarding Chad and Candy

That's called Responsibility, a concept that must be instilled to children

And honestly i could write an entire PhD Thesis on the topic, but i'm gonna cut it right there.

And dwell more into the womanchild mentality

Women complain about men playing videogames and acting like a "manchild", when in reality, they are 100x times worse, because their childlike behavior it's never called out.

A man acts like a teenager during COD MW2 era lobbies, and they get shamed into oblivion, yet women go around life with the mentality of a child, doing a shitload more damage to people and society and they applauded by media and society.

Playing xbox = Bad

A single mother 3 children from thug chad, being a drag to society and raising potential criminals perpetuating the cycle of societal decay = Yass queen slaay

KoloGupta · 2022-01-07T17:24:28+00:00

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arnieschwarz · 2022-01-07T16:44:18+00:00

To be honest: I have no fucking clue. At least, I can rule out your modest profile picture. You could go to church in that attire, after all!

2022-01-07T18:14:21+00:00

“We are not objects” presents self as object

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-01-07T17:50:58+00:00

At least she's shaved. I've been seeing more and more women who don't shave their underarms.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2022-01-07T18:35:10+00:00

People aren't objects but women pushing for casual sex and free love have reduced sex from a passionate symbol of devotion to nothing more than a 99 cent candy bar.

Lady, you are 40 years old. Your fertility is gone. Your looks are fading. You have reduced yourself to nothing but a hookup. You were pretty at one time and easily could have locked up a good man who would have gladly supported you for decades. But now? You offer nothing but divorce risk when you get bored five years later and you take away 50% of his treasure.

Snoid_ · 2022-01-07T17:13:34+00:00

"Why do those who talk to me only want sex?"

Maybe because that's all YOU'VE wanted for the past quarter century? Possibly?

reignoferror00 · 2022-01-07T18:34:55+00:00

Okay, I'll commit to a second hookup in advance. Guess we're good then.

If you want something more than a hookup maybe mention something about yourself, or something beyond the few things you supposedly don't want. I know, crazy idea.

TriumphAnt462X0 · 2022-01-07T16:59:46+00:00

Sooo, if I have something of interest, the hook up is on the table? Am I reading that right? It's all so confusing. ;)

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2022-01-07T19:39:31+00:00

Why do men only see me as a sex object? Now here, look at this photo I posted which is 37% cleavage and 54% skin, you cad!

Someone call an eye doctor for me, I think I sprained my eyes from rolling them so hard.

lorum_ipsum_dolor · 2022-01-07T19:22:52+00:00

This woman is like an applicant who applies for a job advertising an hourly pay of $15 and gets to the interview only to demand 100k a year.

She thinks she'll convince you of her "wonderfulness" by some act of magic and get what she's convinced she deserves.

HologramEventHorizon · 2022-01-07T21:53:38+00:00

Good to know . . . "rollo" = "hookup"

inetkid13 · 2022-01-07T22:38:04+00:00

I'm getting mixed signals here

NoNameAvailableSee · 2022-01-07T23:38:12+00:00

She wants questions and answers? Ok. Them tittes real?

NBA_MSG · 2022-01-08T00:30:00+00:00

"Why do those who talk to me only want sex?"

Honey, that's all your profile is offering

Flashy_Glove6208 · 2022-01-08T02:18:03+00:00

40 and on a hookup up app. 22 years on a CC.

STDs Pandora's box. Nearly certain she's got herpies. Who knows what else.

Get you Hazmat suit ready for a hookup if you dare.

houseoftolstoy · 2022-01-08T03:09:11+00:00

Ah, the classic "why do men only want me for sex" while using a bikini photo. It does not get old.

Even if we discount the fact that she is using Tinder (a hookup app known for looks being the most prominent filter), how you present yourself will strongly influence how others interact with you. Advertising your body is a sure way to get those who want quick and cheap sex. Not only that, it will also repell anyone who wants a serious relationship, as they will (correctly) figure that a woman who presents herself as such is not a good prospect for a long term relationship.

Old_snowboarder · 2022-01-07T20:45:13+00:00

If it wasn't for sex honey we wouldn't even look at you. It might come as a surprise that your job, PhD or whatever counts for fuck all.

omegajelly200 · 2022-01-08T00:17:37+00:00

Presents herself as a sex object

I AM NOT A SEX OBJECT

Jasiff · 2022-01-08T05:21:28+00:00

Objects are not women, man!

PS2Errol · 2022-01-07T18:24:12+00:00

They are objects if men think they are. The individual men can think whatever they like and interact on that basis.

kidruhil · 2022-01-07T19:29:44+00:00

I was just having a conversation in a different sub about how women outside the west are no longer traditional wifey material and therefore no better LTR prospects than western women. Case in point.

KoloGupta · 2022-01-08T05:01:02+00:00

She has nothing going for her. Even her face is done. This is what the sunglasses are for. The excess skin display is to draw your eyes away from the anti-boner that is her face to the partial-boner that is her body.

Have you ever noticed that extremely attractive women at the peak of their prime aren't the ones always out with everything on display? Truly beautiful young women can throw on a simple outfit and look great without makeup or primp.

As women's looks start to decline, the use of makeup, the display of skin and body parts, and visits to the gym increase.

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2022-01-08T08:12:08+00:00

"We are not objects" .......... says the old bird with a big titty photo for her dating profile. lol

TheGeeksama · 2022-01-08T10:52:28+00:00

Hey boyz please respect me as a being And here is my photo of my body which depicts you to use me like a meat . Irony and hypocrisy

V_M · 2022-01-08T16:18:42+00:00

She's into activismo and she's espiritualidad so there's two red flags right there.

Its pix for Chad, text for betas, interest tags to "hide" the red flags.

2022-01-09T16:35:06+00:00

I have already passed that stage

Every once in a while, they’ll admit it. Hooking up, sleeping around, one night stands, it’s all just a phase of life to them, one that most men would love to be able to participate in. This is why they simply do not care about you at all. You’re disposable. A bigger dick is just a swipe away. If she gets bored, she can text any of the saps she has on the back burner to come over to give her attention, free food, sex, or whatever else, and she knows she’ll get a response.

Don’t fall into this trap.

PirateDocBrown · 2022-01-08T02:09:04+00:00

Hm, she's not asking for money or resources.
No kids mentioned.
Fairly trim and fit, for 40.

I'd meet her, and to be honest, if she wasn't some sort of loon or druggie, I'd date her.
I'm 57, so she might think I'm too old.

Now, I'm not in any sort of marriage market, but she doesn't need to know that.

SayokoMika · 2022-01-08T06:17:18+00:00

Braucifarian · 2022-01-08T06:18:57+00:00

So she used to bed Chads who were only into hookups and offered nothing of interest to her. Now she is beyond that phase and the newer (older) version of her is now demanding she is done with hookups from guys who offer nothing of interest.

It's clearly her who is responsible for this turn of events with her new selection criteria and not Chads at all.

I-am-the-lul · 2022-01-08T22:09:35+00:00

If anything, she has long since passed that stage of being a marriage object if she isn't already.

2022-01-09T07:25:22+00:00

"I DO NOT WANT SEX!!!" while aiming the camera at her tits for MAXIMUM SEX POINTS

five_eight · 2022-01-07T21:32:04+00:00

Couple years ago a military branch came out with an order that uniform photos submitted (for promotion, big school, special assignment) must be taken with the service member standing. Laying down hides a lot of rolls. (I didn't get the promotion).

RobStonman · 2022-01-09T05:30:03+00:00

Once while I was walking back to my car past two girls one of them asked "can I ask you a question?" I responded "you just did". As I kept walking I was still in ear shot and I could hear her say "never heard that before". I knew what they wanted. So I brushed them off. Cut them off before they can even start. That sounds harsh but to hell with bitches.

logan4179 · 2022-01-11T01:05:39+00:00

I feel like when women put something on their profiles or in a forum post along the lines of "why do all men just want sex with me?", it's actually bragging. It's to advertise that "look, I'm so hot that all these men find having sex with me to be irresistible" under the guise of complaining. Maybe there's also some truth in the stated disappointment of a perceived lack of commitment, but I think the emphasis on "sex with ME" instead of focusing on it being a general problem that affects women more generally indicates a self-focused brag is the real point.

Fast_Box_8509 · 2022-01-13T19:50:06+00:00

"I've already passed that stage," says the post wall shrew.

Well, most high value men haven't. So settle for scraps or get used to being lonely. 🤣

Tweapodok33 · 2022-01-19T13:53:53+00:00

It’s always amusing how they don’t want that “anymore.” They’re all mad that you’re looking for sex, as if they didn’t do the exact same thing and still would be if they hadn’t aged.

I’ve said it before: if they could stay 21 forever, they’d never stop with the Chads and Tyrones.

She didn’t mature; she just got old.

Agreeable-Resist-957 · 2022-02-18T11:13:55+00:00

You can get at me if you really want a good man

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-08T20:30:01+00:00

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Title	[40-F] why those who talk to me only want sex? I have already passed that stage… we are not objects!!11oneone
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Date	January 7, 2022 4:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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