in my opinion a large part is lackluster communication and no proper use of credible sources but let me explain a little bit... jfyi im no feminist and im male...

  1. there are radicals in both movements igniting conflicts on purpose
  2. exaggerating about or distorting what individual persons have said a 100 years ago or on twitter
  3. no honest open discussion about various issues "example sexuality generally and upbringing of children" and statements without context

mra arguments:

A. feminists alienate statistics, studies and facts "example pay gap or rape culture"

B. feminists judge mras for behaviors they carry out themselves daily "as a group/movement"

C. framing of things like patriarchy or toxic masculinity or mansplaining or equality vs equity

feminist arguments:

D. instead of directing their efforts towards criticisms of and activism against capitalism, nationalism, patriarchy, and other oppressive systems that are the cause of those issues, they simply blame women and feminism for their problems

E. consent is not properly defined and implemented in a legal sense

F. laws are not enforced properly "example pay discrimination or sexual violence"

PS:

would appreciate your thoughts but pls try to avoid anecdotal evidence and use credible sources if you make a point or to prove something... at the end of the day we want to achieve equality and social safety for everybody...