MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest.

AcrobaticRhubarb2147 · 2023-07-08T22:07:14+00:00

I think their could be a healthy version of mgtow that isn’t women bashing and women obsessed. Nothing wrong with taking time off from dating or permanently deciding to be single and celibate (catholic priests, nuns, monks, etc.). To each their own. But often mgtow is a bitter and full of rage existence. They don’t go quietly and practice stoicism or some other peaceful or productive endeavor. A lot of them make it known constantly that they hate women, so really they are toxic incel culture 2.0. If they want to go their own way, please….but stop spewing hatred and stoking the gender war nonsense

vcreativ · 2023-07-08T21:21:12+00:00

It's cynicism. Really quite ugly.

I think there's a time to be alone in order to grow and heal from whatever might've happened during childhood, or even figuring out what might've happened there that wasn't so good.

Then do the work to develop a secure attachment style.

Then go and find a date you actually want to spend time with... you're basically 30 now, lol.

I wonder if MGTOW couldn't be a result of "fake it til you make it" to a certain degree. That is, pretending that you're ready for a situation without having appropriately secured your character for people to be... well, kinda shit sometimes.

On top of that, the more emotionally insecure and non-developed you are + an insecure bonding mechanic, the more you'll attract people that may well wreak havoc on your life. Dating really is a catch 22 in that situation.

Incidentally, it also pays to view some of these online movements through the lens of "which political entity might have an interest in strengthening them". Separating men and women guarantees a weaker society.

Pomeranian111 · 2023-07-09T00:05:38+00:00

They talk about Women way too much. If they went stealth mode and gave up on having relationships with Women that would be a different story.

EridanusVoid · 2023-07-09T01:38:42+00:00

If MGTOW wanted to actually be taken seriously, it would be about men simply politely declining interactions with women and just talking amongst themselves about self improvement. But oh no, of course it has to be an online hatecore woman bashing ocean of piss, like every other fringe group on the internet.

LaReina227 · 2023-07-09T09:36:34+00:00

Yep. The Ms of MGTOW never actually GTOW. It's like the wounded twat that makes their way to you to tell you they're not talking to you. If MGTOW was about Sigma self mastery, nobody outside of it would know the term.

SuperbWaffle · 2023-07-09T02:09:37+00:00

Hi, Learning terminology still: what is the difference between MGTOW, manosphere, and redpill, if any?

ROBYoutube · 2023-07-09T00:37:13+00:00

A few days ago I posted the story of how I invented MGTOW while crying age 12 and it actually worked out really well for me*.

*Note when I say that I mean actually going my own way. Not screaming about women all day.

CLyD3_H3ffalump · 2023-07-09T08:29:50+00:00

If you whine while claiming to be MGTOW, you're larping. MGTOW is just the simplified way of saying, "I'm not ready for commitment; because currently such an arrangement is on the whole a terrible mistake for one of the partners going into it....for over half the instances"

KindlyPizza · 2023-07-09T03:27:37+00:00

Man...MGTOW and WGTOW could have been the healthiest movement for everyone, especially for people who genuinely are looking for peace of mind living their lives.

Unnecessary-Training · 2023-07-09T21:27:23+00:00

If MGTOWs were actually GTOWing, it wouldn't be a problem at all. Men have full rights to lead a life of celibacy. The problem is that MGTOWs are not actually GTOW, but simply as obsessed with women as before. They are very similar to the child free community in that manner.

Waratah888 · 2023-07-09T08:26:14+00:00

True MGTOW don't complain

Realistic-Ad7769 · 2023-07-10T08:38:11+00:00

MGTOW is not a "movement" it's self-identifying incells just announcing that they are settling.

Red pill is the overarching ideology.

ChesterJWiggum · 2023-07-10T11:07:41+00:00

I was in ltr relationships from age 16 until age 30. Longest was 5 years.

I am now 36 and have been completely Mgtow since. I work full time, working towards my early retirement. I have a dog, no friends and I will not enter any form of relationship again.

If I could drop off the grid tomorrow I would. I don't really talk about my life. You won't hear me on the internet blasting about how Mgtow is the best path.

I don't see how MGTOW is a trap. To me modern marriages and relationships are a trap. I see most relationships fail. I see most marriages either end up in divorce or unhappy/cheating/fighting/sexless etc etc.

I chose my life and I won't look back. I would bet there are alot of men like me out there.

carritotaquito · 2023-07-09T05:33:29+00:00

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Title	MGTOW is one of the biggest traps, if we are honest.
Author	NilsTheDrawingMan
Upvotes	25
Comments	29
Date	July 8, 2023 8:37 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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