I subscribe to a lot of conservative, heavily capitalistic, red pill ideas; but the idea of a submissive housewife gf is a huge fucking lie for the average person.

In todays society, we have normalized some women being entitled pricks who are extremely selfish being labeled as independent, but that’s bullshit. Independence doesn’t give you the right to be a person of poor quality or extremely selfishness, it only describes self sufficiency.

Someone who is entirely submissive to your whims likely has no initiative and depends entirely on you financially and emotionally. Essentially, in a way, dead weight. How can someone support you emotionally, when they themselves are too weak to even rely on themselves? They may be able to provide you sexual satisfaction and very surface level emotional support, but never true reassurance as you know they are unable to take on any of your burdens. For a matter of fact, you take on additional burden of another person.

An independent partner has the capacity to handle all of their own baggage, and any left over energy can be used to help you. A submissive partner is unable to offer you this assurance.

In todays economy, to take on a whole family’s financial burden alone is very difficult, especially for younger people. It’s pretty unrealistic to just “work on yourself” and “hustle hard” your way to a millionaire position. The ppl that are selling you these ideas are becoming rich by selling you these ideas. It’s like selling a book about selling books and basing my argument on the fact that you bought this book so I sold it. There’s no content here, just each person peddling the same vague shit.

You can grind hard to a good engineering or finance degree and work hard to earn up to 100-200k a year. But that ain’t enough to support 2 ppl + house + kids. There is no get rich fast, no room to improve you financial state beyond somewhat above average, because the average man is trapped in a stagnant, oppressive, stale capitalistic system. That’s why most of the RP influencers peddle some high risk high reward shit coin or pink sheets penny stocks day trading bullshit to you. Those things are gambling, no entry barrier and very little science behind them.

Besides, this dominant/submissive dynamic doesn’t last as ppl change. My mother was a relative high earner but submissive, my father was a traditional, dominating and controlling high earning bread winner. For many years me and my mother put up with my fathers increasingly controlling behaviour, believing this “traditional” family dynamic. But eventually my mother broke, and I had enough. After we had a more equal power balance, the family cohesion was much stronger. U cant expect to control someone ur entire life and expect them to be happy their whole life.