I'll do this in bullet point style. And just to know I've dated more Americans than women from overseas. And I've never used an escort. *Lower standards. Not lower quality men. The fact is believe it or not western woman have high dating standards that are just not attainable for a lot of people. Some of it is not even attainable by the women themselves. There's a video about high school girls talking about their standards for boys their age. Some of them standards were for men who were way older.

  • The oversexualized women are not looked at as rolemodels. So some of the more negative traits of over sexuality don't steep into the culture as much. less BS to handle.

*Better at conversation. Somehow at least I'm dating apps women who speak English as their sacred language have more interest in getting to know you than a woman who is speaking English all their life.

*What you confuse as subservience is actually just wanting to be helpful. An American relation sometimes you see that man has to do something for a woman. Take them out to dinner. Take them to vacation. Make them happy. But in a lot of Asian relationships they want to contribute to everything. My experience no matter what I did the woman wanted to feel like she was contributing.

*Women have been doing the same thing. Every one of my female friends who have traveled have definitely talked about some wild excursion they had with the local. At least three has talked about having intercourse on the beach. But men prefer Asians and Latinas. So it's not really as unheard of as you think.

And then I think a lot of these people have great relationships and if they get married they do come over here and usually have a higher better quality of life, and more opportunities that are usually in good positions. And if something bad does happen is more often that the American man got used more than the other way around