Dear women, choose the wealthier one.

leosandlattes · 2024-02-03T15:47:31+00:00

A rich man is not coming to save the vast majority of women. It is impossible, simply by numbers. Therefore find a man who reciprocates the value you add to his life, even if he is not the wealthiest. Look for the man who can do life on his own but chooses to live it with you, just as you chose him. Be realistic about what you can attract as a woman. But choose wisely and learn how to market yourself to the demographic of men you want to date in.

Unusual-Chocolate-71 · 2024-02-03T15:50:04+00:00

absolutely reeks of r/FemaleDatingStrategy

GhettoJamesBond · 2024-02-03T16:15:34+00:00

Why don't you just go all the way and become a prostitute? Why have one wealthy man when you can have several and still be single? Because they don't add value to your life besides the money right.

Razieloo · 2024-02-03T15:44:42+00:00

Least money obsessed 21st century woman be like:

Many_Dig_2782 · 2024-02-03T16:07:04+00:00

no need to tell women to be goldiggers, if they want to they will

Stringfellow69 · 2024-02-03T16:09:45+00:00

Her list of value added she beings is astonishing deep...

darksoul1622 · 2024-02-03T16:03:54+00:00

If you are a hot ( and I mean crazy hot) upper or middle class woman with good education and intelligence then by all means go for the rich one, if not then don't waste your time on a pipe dream that is unlikely to come true

Ps: this is why I like to date feminists they come with their own money and oftentimes aren't golddiggers

centaurus_a11 · 2024-02-03T16:18:04+00:00

So, love, companionship, a sense of belonging, a sense of security, etc., are all irrelevant to you? And sure, if you think that men don't add value to your life, then why don't you pick somebody and add value to their life? What is so wrong in being the one who uplifts others rather searching for someone who will uplift you even above the high horse you're already riding?

Aishamoon · 2024-02-03T16:18:22+00:00

Or else become a rich woman and be financially independent. This is the 21st century, stop relying financially on men.

SupposedlySapiens · 2024-02-03T16:30:19+00:00

The part that makes you sound like a gold digger is your plan to “outsource” the housework. I want to be a provider and take care of a woman, but she has to still contribute somehow. I don’t believe either partner should simply get a free ride with no responsibilities at all.

8m3gm60 · 2024-02-03T16:33:17+00:00

Hey, if she can find captain save-a-hoe, more power to her.

high risk of being left when diagnosed with a long term illness are just a few to name

No, this was just another hysterical myth that flew around the feminist coops. The people saying that nonsense didn't understand the science.

but you will become resentful when you realise that most of the things you are doing are to benefit your kids and your partner

Your partner will be facing the same thing. Don't take the job of marriage if you don't want the work.

Pick a man who is wealthy, so that you can outsource housework, hire a chef every now and again, and if possible reduce your hours at work or not work at all.

Right. Captain save-a-hoe is going to sweep you off your feet. Why wouldn't a man like that prefer to marry someone with a work ethic?

Safinated · 2024-02-03T16:47:12+00:00

I’m not a prostitute

Horned-Beast · 2024-02-03T15:45:20+00:00

There is zero benefits to men being married. Marriages as a legal contract need to be dissolved and removed permanently from our society.

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kalashhhhhhhh · 2024-02-03T16:13:24+00:00

Choose the one your heart tells you to choose and try to become wealthy yourself. Why would a man be wealthy and not you?

januaryphilosopher · 2024-02-03T16:45:24+00:00

You're completely ignoring the main reason people get into relationships: because they love each other. If you want money it's way less of a headache to just get a job.

Secret_Sorbet_9674 · 2024-02-03T16:48:06+00:00

there is a reason married men live longer. Men who are in healthy relationships, will take less risks, can possibly have children, they will have healthier lifestyles, they will have companionship, they will be wealthier and more motivated, they will have a sex life, and they will ultimately have better mental health than single men

I don't know how strong this argument is. I'm sure (for example) that owning houses in Chelsea is probably statistically correlated with some or even all of the same positive outcomes you've mentioned above: but rather than owning property in Chelsea providing homeowners with all the above benefits (although I suppose Chelsea does have a low violent crime rate which probably does contribute to longer lifespans for its residents), it's more likely that the sort of people who are in a position to buy houses in Chelsea are the sort of people who are also healthier, wealthier, and have sex in the first place.

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TechnicalMiddle8205 · 2024-02-03T17:02:14+00:00

There is very little benefit to us a women being in a relationship with a man

As a man, Id say the same about women who think this way. What do I get from a woman who only wants to be with me for my money? She will not like me, or love me, the only thing Id get is money loss. And considering that I am childfree, I dont even need one woman for having a baby.

But I still want a relationship as Id like to share my life with someone and give/receive love. So if I find a benefit in that, I guess that some women out there will be interested in that too, and if no one woman is, then that would mean that all of them are materialistic golddiggers, so Ill prefer to be alone.

Title	Dear women, choose the wealthier one.
Author	Legal_Strawberry2
Upvotes	0
Comments	60
Date	February 3, 2024 3:32 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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