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[–]CompetitionFair7686 44 points45 points46 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
Cold approaching isn’t creepy. People are creepy. It’s the person who does it, not the act itself. Provided you do it right it’s fine, if you do it wrong then it can be creepy.
[–]burncushlikewood 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
This^ I've said it before it's not approaching that's creepy, it's how you do it. You think women don't like to be approached? You're wrong, everyone loves attention, but it has to be done right
[–]Mundane_Natural5131 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
You just have to be not ugly
[–]palguy22 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You just have to look presentable and well groomed.
I'm literally 5"5 and Ive successfully approached women taller than me, don't get stuck in your head.
[–]pleasant__sheep 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I don't know why ppl are downvoting tbh
[–]Mundane_Natural5131 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Its by ugly people who had their hopes up high that it is all 100% obout confidence🤣🤣
[–]pleasant__sheep 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Girls want to be approached by the guys she wishes she had the balls to approach. She will react differently to who is approaching. Not because of game but presentation.
[–]Mundane_Natural5131 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Thats what i was saying you have to be handsome to her she will be so happy you approached but these 290 pound 5,5 sweaty guys overhere downvoting because i said you have to be not ugly they think as long as your smooth youll succeed keep dreaming 😂😂
[–]pleasant__sheep 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Like they would want to be approached by an overweight ugly chick. lol
[–]Mundane_Natural5131 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Im glad you see the truth 💯 the better you look the higher your success % on cold approach and both sides are happy you made the approach its a win win for everyone when your hitting the gym and working on your physique and working on your approach too nobody wants to be approached by a out of shape person i wouldn’t want fiona approaching me no matter how smooth
[–]Consol-Coder 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Success lies in the hands of those who want it.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Disagree. Anyone can be creepy, 1-10.
[–]CrowdCoinCEO 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True, I've seen very attractive guys be annoying and creepy, but being truly ugly is pretty much a no deal situation I hate to say.
[–]SharpAd3703 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder my friend. It's all perception and there's always a way to adjust perception.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Truth.
[–]Stujitsu2 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its never been common. Probably only 20% of dudes here do it. And thats against the rest of the population of which all the members of this forum comprise a very small percentage.Thats why it works. Just trying it, even if youre nervous sets you apart from most men.
[–]nordik1 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
20% is highly highly generous
[–]burakbenxd 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Really shows a level of confidence. I like to do it, but I need better gaming spots
[–]andre_silva321 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes. You will love it.
[–]appmanga 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, it is.
[–]theflamingspil 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
NO. I wish guys would do this more because I hate online dating and I have an extreme fear of rejection. It makes my dating life so dull.
[–]ohropax 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So instead of doing it yourself you're coming here asking if cold approach is creepy while being cucked by a bunch of 30 something guys that are soon to be bouncing their balls off of your friends chin.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣 Absolutely brutal
[–]potatoeswithfries 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cold approaching was never common. It was, however, "the done thing" to at least some extent a few decades ago, from what I know. But nowadays people normally meet each other through online dating.
With that said, I don't see why women wouldn't be "still receptive to guys approaching them while grocery shopping". People are still people and evolution doesn't work that fast, you know? :)
In fact, I think the online dating market is oversaturated, and the time for men to return to the art of cold approach is now.
[–]KellyCarver1015 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Human Trafficking
[–]SeanBatemanJr 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my opinion daytime approaches will always be effective, because the mix of their relative rarity (I think with everybody going online they are even more rare than 10-15 years ago) and mix of positive qualities it shows (honesty, courage, social intelligence — if it’s done the right way).
[–]Zealousideal6669 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They are pretty much receptive to it if you know how you do it, I mean most of the time at least. You can still get rejected by doing everything perfectly, its a part of the game but most of the times if you do it well, its pretty easy to get numbers
[+]palguy22 -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
So your friend is going out with two men 10 years older than her to drink alcohol with them?
Why are you friends with this girl? that's cucked yo
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[+]palguy22 -12 points-11 points-10 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Get rid of these toxic influences, it will weaken your zeal as a man. A whore like this should not be your friend.
People downvote me on this subreddit when I speak these sort of sentiments but they are merely misguided in their shallow mindless pursuit of pussy like thirsty weak men who don't know any better.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Find God.
[–]palguy22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Im a believer
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not the good kind, that’s for sure.
[–]TwinMagus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're seething too hard, bro.
[–]celestial-kitty2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im not looking for a relationship or to date. 100% of cold approaches are barriers to my day of minding my own business in my own bag.
[–]etherealromance 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not uncommon cuz I do it everyday
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