What if I told you that there's a way to get rid of your anxiety and neediness, boost your confidence tremendously, and make you many magnitudes more attractive to women than you currently are? Yeah, there's a method like that and you can do it pretty much instantly. Just change your goals in seduction and some of your values when it comes to meeting women. It's so simple when you realize it, and yet for most guys it's impossible to figure out on their own.

Most guys, PUA or not, try to get sex and good reactions from women using some kind of tactics—sometime this tactics can be carefully hidden behind trying to "be yourself", "be abundant", "don't be needy", etc. More often, though, those are more obvious things like using pickup lines or acting nice. On its core, you are doing things with one thing in mind—manipulating women into liking you. Because you believe that you NEED to do something, to add some type of value to make them interested. Because you don't believe that a woman can and should be interested in who you are without you doing anything for her to deserve her interst. And this is what makes guys needy and unattractive more than anything else. The good news—you can change all of this.

Instead of pursuing sex with each attractive girl using any method available, you should change your goal to finding women who like you for who you are. Instead of trying to impress women and making them like you, you should just follow your thoughts and desires, expressing yourself naturally and amuse yourself. Why do you need a woman who can't accept you for who you are? Why do you need a woman who's with you only because you pretend to be someone else? The same thing goes for friendship.

When you follow my advice and people react negatively to your natural self-expression, you don't have any reason to care about it. That's the whole point—not everyone will like you, and that's okay. You're just expressing yourself, who cares if others accept it or not? Instead of trying to "fake" yourself to fit into what others like, in your opinion, you're just staying you. When you say something, you say it because you WANT, not because you think that this will make others like you. And if they give you shit for doing this? This just means that they aren't the type of a person you want to have around. You're just incompaible with them, and that's completely okay. Let me repeat it again—if a girl doesn't like you as you are, then why would you need her? You don't, that's just a basic standard any man who values himself should have.

What others think about you is the reflection of WHO they are, first and foremost, not who you are. There are going to be those who like you and those who don't, even though you're the same person, doing the same thing. Do you get it? The variable here is the other people, not you. So why should you even care?

Instead of trying to attract people, just screen them. Give them the choice to either accept you for who you are, or get out of your life. Stop trying to please everyone, because it will only turn away those who would, otherwise, totally love your true self. Being sincere and honest in your self-expression is such a rare quality that just doing this will put you above the vast majority of guys. People—both men and women—will gravitate towards you. And for that, you just need to make this small change in your attitude towards yourself and women.

When you stop pretending and start enjoying your time with people, you realize that you're way more attractive than you've ever thought. So just do it, Champ—be your fun, unashamed and amused self.