This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.

Professional-Reply26 · 2022-04-11T18:11:24+00:00

You should not react to it at all. Nothing. Don’t say anything.

MudFlaky · 2022-04-11T18:16:34+00:00

Lol don't take it serious. She is just posting it for content. It's just to get likes and make herself feel cool.

TikTok =\= reality

csmile2019 · 2022-04-11T22:19:23+00:00

TikTok girls… smh. I learned this one the hard way OP😂 my girl explained “the perfect date” on TikTok to her several thousand followers and it matched our first date exactly. Here I am a year and a half later having blocked her bc she’s thirsty as hell for one, two she calls me insane for thinking she wanted anything to do with me (after she used me for a Valentine’s date so she could post a picture of two plates at an overrated expensive restaurant), and three (the big one) SHE’S addicted to TIKTOK, INSTAGRAM, and SNAPCHAT! She also ALWAYS takes advantage of her followers similar to OF, she’ll post a link to Venmo or cashapp and be like “help me buy groceries, it’s my birthday, I need gas, spoil me, blah blah blah.” Nothing pisses me off more than spending $thousands on a girl that, after two years, can’t stay off her phone for a couple hours and just hangout because (due to the device in her hand) she doesn’t need a man. I’d ghost her and don’t get attached. They have too much attention and too many simps willing to give them attention 24/7. Find a girl that is genuine and doesn’t need social media to give them extra attention, it’s nothing but drama, money, and a thirst trap for compliments for girls. Technology is killing the ideal man, stay strong King. My advice.🤷🏻‍♂️

Accomplished-Lab5914 · 2022-04-11T18:29:54+00:00

A girl saying she won't ghost is a red flag. They all ghost 👻 Anyway, like you didn't see anything.

Wehavepr0belm0 · 2022-04-11T22:52:07+00:00

LimitlessHarmony · 2022-04-11T19:04:27+00:00

How do you know she's talking about you?

The_Gonzaa · 2022-04-11T21:27:44+00:00

Ahhh. This brings painful memories. I got my ex into twitch for the exclusive reason to make money on her looks game as she enjoys and give her some confidence. she did really well but i pretty much created a sausage fest everyone hitting on her and in the end she got very big headed and then i caught her texting guys off line which then led to me ending it because relationship was doomed. Worst thing i ever did spoilt a good relationship by getting her into that shit. Id never date a social media girl just because it creates a weird thing where they want to spend time more with their audience which becomes like an office relationship with people they talk to online they get feelings for its so odd this social media stuff when they get into the "follower" game

Nullroute127 · 2022-04-11T19:45:34+00:00

Unless there was something more specific she may not be talking about you at all, it may not even be a real person she's referring to.

People that say those kinds of things are on a validation train. The comments are all probably, "Don't break your heart for no man" from women and simps saying, "I would treat you like a queen baby."

Regardless of if the video is sincere or not.... tread lightly. I wouldn't even text this girl anything you don't want public. If she feels like you slighted her in the least she will unleash her following on you.

RedditTipiak · 2022-04-11T22:15:46+00:00

Run away. She's asking for validation and advice from strangers. These are two red flags.

MrDownhillRacer · 2022-04-11T21:58:18+00:00

These are the kinds of problems that can be solved by turning 18.

2022-04-11T18:27:25+00:00

Probably pretty unstable girl that thinks that she can get many guys, because she is so popular. I don't know what you are expecting from her, maybe seek some clarification?

2022-04-11T21:03:57+00:00

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brytek · 2022-04-11T21:19:43+00:00

There's plenty of fish in the sea, but if she's willing to cut the line on a potentially great catch before even reeling it in, she'll likely always sail home hungry and empty-handed.

ralf_ · 2022-04-11T22:40:59+00:00

Does she really have a few million subscribers?

MrCZ_17 · 2022-04-11T19:26:21+00:00

She is literally posting her insecurities on tiktok. She is clearly hurt and tries to "ghost you" because she had a bad experience before. In this case I would recommend communication I mean ask her directly and see what's her response.

Does she have an insecurity about you? What's the reason?etc

Also let me tell you that many girls feel the same, they have the urge to talk to some guy but in MANY cases they don't aswer or follow up for some hard reasons to women like 1 what her friends will say about them 2 social pressure (dont be a whore) etc

And if she says it is not about you it would be kinda disappointing but you have the right to know

Classy-Glassy · 2022-04-11T21:38:37+00:00

She got that many followers? She must be hot. Congrats bro.

SocialReject101 · 2022-04-11T23:23:06+00:00

Ghost her first. Cunt (sorry, not sorry) is playing attention games and posting private moments to millions of followers. Get rid of that low life

2022-04-12T00:01:56+00:00

Don't

pepepoopoo567890 · 2022-04-12T00:08:34+00:00

Be unreactive. In fact she shouldn't even know you know about it.

2022-04-12T01:20:06+00:00

Tik tok is cancer. Ghost her, you can do better

banana_taco_pan · 2022-04-12T01:46:36+00:00

As a chick, she sounds flaky and likes drama. This is the modern day posting about your relationship on facebook shiz. Being cryptic. Idk she's probably not feeling it.

bittersiren · 2022-04-12T01:55:28+00:00

I’ve always taken things said or done on social media with a grain of salt. Especially those with a large following, a lot of them live completely different lives than what is perceived on social media.

omanisherin · 2022-04-12T02:12:31+00:00

Watch what she does, not what she says.

AT_Bane · 2022-04-11T19:32:21+00:00

I thought your face was literally there. She basically just made a tweet. Chill

2022-04-11T21:16:48+00:00

Just ignore it. People post things for entertainment purposes on the app and it isn’t always about them. It probably is what does best for her followers…

BigShuggy · 2022-04-11T21:47:03+00:00

You already have reacted to it. What you should do about it on the other hand? Keep watching the tiktok and use that information to the best of your ability. Also don’t say anything dumb in case it gets posted. She has a million followers so the odds are stacked against you but this tiktok business is only a positive for you.

yo_saturnalia · 2022-04-11T22:51:54+00:00

Reply on her tik tok that you love her

testosterhomie · 2022-04-12T00:29:54+00:00

Don’t say anything bro. She likes you. Take it as a compliment. She’s just scared. Be there for her, be yourself, but just be consistent.

2022-04-11T18:26:49+00:00

I would just pretend I didn’t see it and keep proceeding. If anything, it shows you she has insecurities just like you despite having such a large social media following.

ConsiderationNo9804 · 2022-04-11T20:04:06+00:00

Plz forgive my ignorance, but the hell is ghost mode. Is this a new trend for the dating seen?

gmos905 · 2022-04-11T21:07:50+00:00

Sounds like good news to me.

RepulsiveCat1681 · 2022-04-11T22:52:46+00:00

that’s weird. idk how id feel about that. i reckon you shouldn’t just ignore it. it’s not something that is gonna get easier as you date her etc. gonna have to bring it up at some point, up to u when. mb just set boundaries of what you want up about you. eg no name, pics etc. i wouldn’t stress if she’s nice. seems like a pre understandable argument to make imo

BenNewcomb1 · 2022-04-11T23:45:33+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it and if you are going to do something about it then I would pull away from her a little bit and make her think you might ghost her. She clearly likes you, as she admitted. If she does ghost you 100% do not chase her, let her come back in her time.

jeg26 · 2022-04-11T23:48:02+00:00

You shouldn’t

drgreen987 · 2022-04-12T00:11:05+00:00

how fo u know its about u? Those are just trending topics to gain followers and start a controversy. People do it all the time, nothing about you mate

2022-04-12T00:31:06+00:00

Eh it’s chill. Just keep doing you. She didn’t shit talk you and really only brought up her own problems

theAliasOfAlias · 2022-04-12T00:37:47+00:00

BRO. This never happened. Just get busy in your own things. Now's the time for her to chase.

Jkwhjr · 2022-04-12T00:47:10+00:00

Hey, if it makes you feel better, she might be talking about a different guy

ChrisVicar · 2022-04-12T00:57:15+00:00

This must feel really good. But take it as a very good omen. That's all.

You can't really take what they say too seriously. And, she's an tiktok creator fishing for content and followers with her goings on. That's a reason to be wary.

Cast a wide net. Don't be smitten with oneitis.

DeJuanBallard · 2022-04-12T01:47:13+00:00

You should stop talking to tik tok girls.

quadfintryfin · 2022-04-12T02:54:15+00:00

Can get ghosted if you do the ghosting

Jimmyw34g · 2022-04-12T02:56:52+00:00

Bro it’s probably not even about you don’t you know what girls are like? 🥴

garciaman · 2022-04-12T03:01:44+00:00

Hey at least you know where she stands , which in turn is good for you IMO. Let it happen, cap’n.

The_Gonzaa · 2022-04-12T16:33:13+00:00

Id say arrogant thought i was "the shit" Also I overestimated her loyalty. But its not her fault I made the conditions where she could act out lessons were learnt.

Title	This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.
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Date	April 11, 2022 6:08 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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