How would you define a "bad" boy?

PiratesFan1429 · 2021-11-26T21:55:42+00:00

You can not care and do your own thing without tats and a Harley

Youthful25 · 2021-11-27T01:12:17+00:00

The main takeaway of being a bad boy is the “abundance mindset”. They talk to 3-5 girls at a time meaning they do whatever they want and don’t care if a girl is turned off because he still has plenty of other girls.

A nice guy on the other hand has an “absolute mindset” and they only date to one girl at a time and when that happens, he becomes more invested to her which comes of as needy and desperate. They’re also afraid to make a move because if she didn’t reciprocate, then he has no other girl left

rudebwoy100 · 2021-11-27T00:51:15+00:00

A bad boy doesn't mean that they're a bad person but more so that they don't treat women like they're sugar, spice and everything nice; they're usually spontaneous, outgoing, extroverted and fun and have tonnes of friends and women love being around them as they're good with women in general and they usually play the field.

ksmith11011 · 2021-11-27T04:21:21+00:00

This is just a power exchange. If he knows he’s got her but she doesn’t know where she stands with him, he’s a bad boy.

If she knows she’s got him, but HE doesn’t know where he stands then he’s a nice guy.

The same guy can change from one to the other and back again in the eyes of a woman just through those factors changing.

Literally that’s the only difference. The bad boy happens to open a motorcycle because it’s attractive and he’s likely to have something like that going for him, but the nice guy could own a bike too and it wouldn’t change anything.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2021-11-26T22:25:41+00:00

Not all women are attracted to "bad boys", but of those that are, I've noticed two distinct things that make it happen:

The women are typically submissive and haven't figured out their kinks yet. The bad boy or asshole helps them get their sub desires fulfilled.
Bad boys don't shame women for liking sex. You can see the typical "nice guy" on here or the real world complain that women are sluts but somehow also don't want to fuck them. Women don't want to fuck guys that are going to make them feel bad for being horny, which is the real reason that nice guys finish last.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2021-11-26T22:12:28+00:00

Common Characteristics: -Aggressive -Aloof -Loner -Rebellious -Mysterious -Treats others badly -Stoic -Standoffish -Often has a traumatic past -Criminal -Emotionally Unavailable

FarComplaint2974 · 2021-11-26T21:54:35+00:00

There's a huge difference between bad boy and Alpha. Just thought I'd mention this.

AllMyHoesWearJoggers · 2021-11-27T06:29:59+00:00

It's a record label by P. Diddy aka Sean Combs.

Equivalent_Ad7389 · 2021-11-27T15:12:17+00:00

A nice guy tries to please women. He often forsakes his own opinions, beliefs, and behavior that puts on a fake act to try and impress. He fake agrees. He's not being his true self. He has a large filter because he doesn't want to offend. He's worried about the girl not liking him. He puts her on a pedestal. He's afraid to set boundaries or put his foot down against bad behavior because he doesn't want to lose her. He can't lead a relationship, he had no standards for himself, insecure. Won't make a move or show his desire for her beauty because he wants to be in the friendzone.

The bad guy is the opposite. He doesn't try to impress. He's being his honest self. He agrees with his own opinions and values. He has no filter and says what he wants, and calls out her bullshit. He enjoys flirting and teasing. He has options. He sets boundaries and shows he's not willing to accept certain bad behavior from a girl. He leads the relationship and holds the power. His masculine self allows her to be completely feminine and submissive. He shows his desire for her through his body language. He's not afraid to make a move early on and show he doesn't want to be friends. He's okay with rejection and tension. This is highly desirable by women.

Most importantly he is willing to walk away from a girl that isn't benefiting his life. She will know this and be increasingly more attracted to him.

TearsofAnger · 2021-11-27T08:46:20+00:00

It's sad watching anyone trying to explain a "bad boy". You want to see a bad boy? Just boost your testosterone naturally. How? Working out, doing things you don't want to but you know are good for you. The confidence will guide you from there.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-11-27T03:10:00+00:00

Ted bundy literally received hundreds of love letters in prison… many women have this fantasy of domesticating a beast… it rarely plays out well for them.

I guess you could exploit that if you wanted to but I wouldn’t

The most bad ass thing to me is being secure in yourself - not needing to win the favour of other people, not jumping on trends or fads, just doing your own thing

Lopsided_Celery267 · 2021-11-27T08:10:56+00:00

Mahatma gandhi

theosamabahama · 2021-11-27T18:09:48+00:00

Women are attracted to bad boys because they are confident, bold and don't give a shit about anyone's approval of him (non-needy). A bad boy is not necessarily a prick, in my opinion, but he can be. A prick bad boy is a jerk to others, he is rude and hurts people's feelings. Bad boys can be summarized as "irreverent": showing a lack of respect for people or things that are generally taken seriously.

A non-prick bad boy is still polite, but he won't make an effort to please others and is not afraid of stating his opinion and do what he wants. He will do the bare minimum to be polite in society, but he doesn't give a shit if people don't like him. He usually wears an irreverent fashion (although it's not necessary), which can vary a lot - metalheads, rappers, bikers, jocks, punks, etc. I have a friend who is exactly like this.

DizzyxSin · 2021-11-27T18:59:04+00:00

Goes after what he wants. Doesnt give a shit about what others think. Likes sex and doesnt apologize for it.

thementalyogi · 2021-11-26T23:39:53+00:00

A bad boy is just as it sounds. Someone bad at being a boy. Aka a man. An actual man. To me, a man doesn't need to please a woman the way a boy does. Boys try to "make mommy happy," a bad boy, or a man, acts without desperation, he knows all things happen as they will. Boys can be mean, especially towards women, or they are too afraid to be anything, so they don't interact with women. Men don't have this fear so they simple are themselves. This can come off as rude or mean, but it doesn't have the underlying fear in the boy's action. It is grounded.

There is this "bad boy" image that is in the media and society that is completely wrong. It supports boys acting as boys, being a dick to be a dick, acting "cool" when you're really being insensitive. The "bad boy" image that's been adopted by boys is just a facade for them to hide behind.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-27T00:07:14+00:00

Roast them, be somewhat mean in a playful way, make fun of her in a light hearted way, tease her, provoke her, and she will be eating from the palm of your hand.

tranquilitysun · 2021-11-27T02:17:37+00:00

Don’t try to be a “bad boy”
Just be yourself.

There is no such thing as Bad boy but there is definitely a thing call nice guy. Dont be anyone of it. Just be “yourself”

Rastaman143 · 2021-11-27T00:05:51+00:00

A bad boy can be a alpha and vice versa. A bad boy can command authority and respect, it’s just the connotation of the bad “boy”. A bad boy can indeed become a bad man. Not all alphas are kind hearted and friendly. Alphas aren’t a one size fits all you can be a alpha man with a cold heart.

miggysaurus-13 · 2021-11-27T02:03:56+00:00

Ironman

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-27T06:46:20+00:00

Good boys go to heaven, bad boys go wherever they want.

driller20 · 2021-11-27T16:56:01+00:00

I think you write it good, bad boy is someone that doesnt care, at an extreme level.

S0GGYS4L4DS · 2021-11-27T04:32:09+00:00

Maybe one can skip beat and does his own thing whenever.

NunyaBidnizz68 · 2021-11-27T09:39:52+00:00

People keep saying a bad boy doesn't care... well... I don't know. I've never seen a lot of "bad boys" who aren't slim and muscular with white teeth and gelled hair. It seems they care a lot about how others see them.

2021-11-27T04:01:49+00:00

That Gothic Bad Boy KingCobraJFS seems to fit the bill nicely.

Any-Contribution2180 · 2021-11-27T12:33:48+00:00

I really hate to sound like an incel here but fuck it...you're only a bad boy if u do bad things and ur good looking, otherwise you're just prick who cant stay out of trouble.

however, if you're a big enough prick, people will talk abt you, and then your life will become a drama. and women love drama, so by default she loves you.

people weirdly dnt want to admit the truth of wht attracts women to those guys, its the excitement of having a guy tht other women want(looks), and the interior chaos tht the relationship is.

OP you shouldn't care wht "bad boys" are doing, focus on yourself and improving the person YOU are.

idkiguessusername · 2021-11-27T14:49:03+00:00

gogglebox “bad boy” meme

Title	How would you define a "bad" boy?
Author	NunyaBidnizz68
Upvotes	115
Comments	79
Date	November 26, 2021 9:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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