How to organize a threesome?

DemocraticAssPaper · 2015-12-21T14:31:24+00:00

Ask them separately if they want to get with another girl, if both say yes, boom - in. If one says yes, forget the no and take yes to pick up a girl - She's officially your wingman. If neither say yes, well, you still get the pussy. Win-win-win

ImJustSo · 2015-12-21T06:47:17+00:00

In my experience, the worst way is to suggest it outright.

The best way is to let them know you're going to introduce them to each other. Girls either love each other or hate each other, so if they feel like they're being pushed together without liking one another, it's a total shit show. But once they're around one another having a good time, having a few drinks, then it's just about escalation of any other scenario with a woman. There just happens to be two of them. A lot of times, they'll just start kissing each other if they are into each other and you've turned them on by talking/touching/escalating and building tension. Sexual topics help, girls kissing girl topics, etc.

squeakyaletheia · 2015-12-21T14:40:26+00:00

Okay, from a girl's perspective who was never with a girl before my threesome, I will give you our scenario.

He and I had been fuckery for about 4ish years. We both been doing our own thing as well, talkin to, dating, kcufin and cuffin others. He brought up the threesome idea casually and in a way that meant I could have said no and we could have continued to be in this situationship. I was like yeah, I would do it.

Several months later? He brought it back up and said he had a girl who was interested in meeting me. She text me, initiated conversation and going to dinner. She was pretty for the most part so I was like sheeit lehgo. We went to dinner the next day and the threesome was nice. I wrote up the story a while back, lemme go find it and I can link it.

So, important points:

Talk to both girls in a way they would be comfortable with but bring up the threesome idea.
Gauge their feels for it; maybe one is down for the cause and the other is not. Potentially you and threesome girl could find another woman together, but now you are juggling 3 "chicago women"
Allow them to make contact without you, and let them set up preface for what they would be comfortable with.
KEEP IN MIND THAT IF THEY BOTH THINK THEY ARE ONE AND ONLY THEN YOU ARE CRAZY LETTING THEM MEET.
The three of you go for drinks/dinner or whatever just to feel comfortable. Shit is straight flowin afterwards or it is awkward and a bust. Good luck!

edit: my threesome NSFW

https://www.reddit.com/r/GoneMild/comments/3649id/z/crarmnz

Bobby_Dudesworth · 2015-12-21T09:01:43+00:00

Cocaine

Andres3mg · 2015-12-21T07:18:36+00:00

Damn please do a follow up if you try, also please try haha

rnisly · 2015-12-21T10:36:51+00:00

Decide which of your lady friends would be most receptive to the idea. Do not just ask to have a 3some. Find a way to casually bring it up. Ideally, you will be at a bar (because alcohol). Appropriately find a way to ask her if she's ever kissed a girl. How she reacts to that simple question, tells you if she's even open to the idea. You don't want to piss off a good fuckbuddy and make her think you're a player or have her be like "gross I couldnt have sex with a chick" either. She could open the door right away, but you'll probably have to keep working the situation. "I think Selena Gomez is so gorgeous. Who do you think is the hottest lady?" or "if you were stuck on a deserted island with Ruby Rose how long would it take for you to hook up?" or "Would you rather have to fuck Donald Trump every night or be eaten out by a gorgeous lady every night for a year?" are ideas of how to actually conversate about the idea of her fucking a supermodel. Than suggest adding yourself. "If I could have a 3some with you and Ruby Rose, id be the happiest man in the world. If she's receptive you can ask her if there's anyone she'd have a x-some with. She will either already have someone in mind or will want a stranger. Either one is a win, but have the lady you talked to speak with the other member of your 3some. Bathroom gossip time is perfect.

hostergaard · 2015-12-21T09:30:40+00:00

If you have already had sex with both it makes it easier. You might want to send feelers out on whatever they would fuck a girl, joke around a bit with it, figure out if they want to experiment. Bring them together at some party and escalate and make tension, hinting at it. If you can bring the topic on it and get them both to admit that they would try it with another girl in front of each other you are golden. Get them to dance together, dare them to kiss and whatnot. Just do what you usually do and also play wingman to both of them. Get them alone in a room, escalate. You know the drill.

pua69420 · 2015-12-21T11:46:19+00:00

Heres what you do

First just go out with the girls and have a good time. Lay game on them like you normally would. Don't worry if they are competing for your attention, that's a good thing. Toward the end of the night make an excuse to isolate the three of you in order to allow things to get more sensual. Then suggest to the girls that you do this thing called a "group massage" where two of you massage the third and you rotate spots. When the time feels right, go for the kiss on the girl helping you give a massage. If you read the room right, the girls will likely also be super into it.

PowerSeductionWar · 2015-12-21T15:03:05+00:00

One gold nugget from Neil Strauss' new book: The least comfortable girl makes the rules.

Tamazin_ · 2015-12-21T07:54:40+00:00

Unfortenatly "Back to chicago for christmas" is way too short of a time to do it smoothly. I would go about it with hinting about three-/foursome now and then while you hook up, perhaps a few weeks after doing that just offhandedly ask her what she thinks about it or if she'd fancy it or similar. then wait more weeks or even months to take it further.

But then again, the "I have another FWB that i also see besides you (or have hooked up with in the past) that is up for a threesome, you interested?" question is really really hard to do well.

Unless it's the type of girl thats more open minded and have had sex with girls (or three-/foursomes) in the past etc., but then you would know and wouldn't ask about it here i guess.

donit · 2015-12-21T18:10:14+00:00

The problem is you can't really do it that way. Each girl is used to having 100% of your attention, so for each of them, what you're suggesting is a relationship/emotional demotion.

Think about how a demotion would feel at work. What would that do to your morale? People don't like to go backward- their minds just don't work that way, and so they won't be able to accept it. If you try to ram it through, they'll just be miserable.

The only way you're going to be able to set up a successful situation like that is by starting the relationship out that way with the next two girls. So then- that way, it wont be something either of them feels like she is losing. You're offering a win-win-win situation. Most of the successful situations like this are ones where they had just met and so the girls were able to start out thinking that way.

Tursi960 · 2015-12-21T14:23:02+00:00

One of the easiest way is to make clear from the begging you just don't want a simple sexual relationship, after you established high value and got her attracted to you. Mostly she will know what you mean, and if not try to make it also clear

letsgetrandy · 2015-12-21T19:12:24+00:00

There's been some good advice in this thread.

Definitely, as others have said... don't ask for it outright. But don't be so afraid of the topic that they can't tell what you're up to.

You need to be escalating with both women at the same time... and both women need to be comfortable with each other. You also need both women to believe that this doesn't change how you feel about either of them, and that neither sees the other as a threat to her dealings with you.

I think I'd pick the one who you think is more likely to be cool about it, and invite her to meet you at a bar where you'll be "having some drinks with a friend"... having already arranged so with the other one.

Definitely be the first one there, and start being fun/flirty with the first one immediately as she arrives. When the second one arrives continue being attentive to the first, but begin being fun/flirty with the second. Subtly, casually, show that you are fun and attentive to all women in your life.

Comment each of them to the other. "Girl A, did you know Girl B is great at thing?" And then, "Girl B, have I told you how sweet Girl A is?" Etc.

You can start to bring up sexual topics casually, and then continue the cross-complimenting. "Girl A, what makes a person a good kisser? I think Girl B is a good kisser." And if it's going well, raise the stakes... "Girl B, do you like giving head? Girl A gives great head. Actually, both of you are really good at that!"

If you get to this point and neither of them has gotten pissed off at you or overtly said "we're not having a threesome", then the fact is, they're down for the threesome, and you should suggest the three of you go back to your place. I usually say something like "I just restocked my liquor shelf. Why don't we save some money and all continue this at my place? It's just around the corner."

If you've played your cards right, they will start flirting with each other, and will do most of the work for you. If that's not happening, you could try getting them to play truth or dare or something and ease into it, but eventually ask questions like "have you ever had a threesome" and do dares like "I dare you two to kiss."

Good luck!

jeffkhan · 2015-12-21T22:34:11+00:00

The problem in your situation is that you have two girls who don't know about each other. Do you even know their sexuality? Are they both bisexual/bi-curious? Is a threesome a fantasy of theirs? Are they open to that kind of thing? Find that out first. If they are, it should be easy.

Ideally, you want to have a girl working with you to seduce the third girl. But since you don't, you're going to need to be the one taking the lead when it comes to escalation and make sure they both are included.

fitnessguy1111 · 2015-12-21T15:04:04+00:00

this is so fucking creepy man

adamsmith93 · 2015-12-21T17:20:36+00:00

this is actually one thing I remember from the book "the game". in it, he learns that one of the best ways to initiate a threesome is first and foremost make sure both girls are comfortable, with you and with each other. there should typically be one who is closer to you, maybe that you've already been with. take her, and you and her both start massaging the one girl, just for fun. maybe throw in a few pecks on the neck or something. then switch to the next girl. then you. hopefully you can lead to something from that as their sexual mood should be heightened, good luck !

InFa-MoUs · 2015-12-21T17:26:03+00:00

Caught this post at 69, and the top comment was 68 which I made 69 basically what I'm saying is best way to organize a threesome involves some 69

Title	How to organize a threesome?
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