It's something that I'm missing from my game and life. I've spent the past three years learning to how to be that positive, fun, nonreactive guy that I've built a wall in me that won't let people into my other sides. I've never shown someone my pain, my anger, my sadness, my love.

Pickup is more than just getting chicks; it's learning how to connect with people. I feel like I've come to a point in my life where I'm a great conversationalist but I'm not connecting further than the superficial level. It's great to be able to talk to people but I want to be able to be emotional with people and especially with women because that's what separates the fake relationships from the deep relationships.

What do I have to do to pull out my emotional side? How can I make myself more emotionally vulnerable?