A couple of you asked for a field report, so here is how it went. (forgot to mention in the summary that we were also casually drinking the whole time, not to the point we got wasted but had just enough to feel a nice buzz). I left out a lot of details to make things quick.

While at my place, we had a casual conversation at which point I asked him to close his eyes and wait till I come back. I sneaked into the kitchen and grabbed a small cheese cake, lit up the candle and went back into the room. I told him to open his eyes at which point I sat on his lap holding the cheesecake so he could blow out the candle. He was genuinely happy and surprised (a couple of days ago was his birthday).

I had just grabbed two small spoons for us instead of being more formal and grabbing plates.There was music already playing on my laptop, so we just started talking and joking around while digging into the delicious strawberry cheesecake. I spoon fed his first bite and tried to make lots of light flirtatious body contact. Lightly grabbing his back and thighs while we sat and laughed. There were many IOIs coming from both directions, but I was still not sure if it was just a part of his personality and natural charm or if he was showing direct interest in me.

A good song came on so I took advantage of the moment and told him it was one of my favorite songs and it put me in a the perfect mood, and gave him a look that said it all but with a refined girly, innocent sort of grace to it.

I was putting my intentions forward without being too blunt and forceful. I was blushing hard, so out of shyness I kept on looking away, but didn't give up! I looked back up at him in to his eyes then his lips. Then, I licked my lips very subtly and smiled at him. It went perfectly, he leaned over and kissed me and before I knew it, I was on his lap making out, and taking his shirt off. The rest is history.

Thanks for giving me the confidence and needed advice. While flirting looking at a persons eyes then lips actually works as a great indicator you want a kiss. I was so happy this worked without me actually having to go all out and say I want a kiss from him. It gets the point across while still being innocent enough to move past in case of rejection.

THANKS again guys :)