Got invited to a sleep over this weekend, where it will be just me and three girls. Any tips on getting a threesome going, or at least a sexy truth or dare?

reezyreddits · 2013-08-30T14:03:33+00:00

You're going to a sleepover with just you and three girls; no offense, but do you think they think you're just "one of the girls" who won't try to make a move on them and they just genuinely enjoy your company as a friend?

TheBigRedEye · 2013-08-30T12:59:04+00:00

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treefrog24 · 2013-08-30T14:06:53+00:00

Sounds to me like you have been seriously friend zoned. If the two girls that invited you are very good friends. Maybe bang the third girl in the bathroom or something. The problem here is 3 girls with no wing to keep anyone else occupied. Unless you could bang all 3 girls. What is the third going to be doing? Doesn't seem likely. My bet is they feel comfortable around you like one of the gals. Don't let them paint your nails.

ZiRALiX · 2013-08-30T15:14:05+00:00

sounds platonic as fuck

itsmevichet · 2013-08-30T14:11:32+00:00

Why go for just two? Why not all three?

Take it from a guy who has been there.

Anyway, be fun, all weekend. Focus slightly more attention on one of them (whoever gives best signals), but not to a point where you ignore the others. Make drinks. Get them to laugh. Play drinking games. Transition to strip games. Give massages.

And then, abracadabra, escalate.

Also, "Never have I ever." This is an awesome game. You find out some intimate shit about people, they discover intriguing things about you, and you can make the rules go from drink->strip.

Most of all, you can mention something sexual on your turn "never have I ever had sex with more than 2 people in the room." It might sound like bullshit, but having someone find that out and then thinking to themselves "yeah, me neither" in that situation, especially if the atmosphere is fun, will generally get them on board to cross things off the bucket list.

Craysh · 2013-08-30T16:11:10+00:00

A lot of people seem to think that you've been friendzoned by the two. And while that may be the truth of it, if anything it sounds like the two are trying to get you together with the third.

If when you get together, the two keep extolling on the thirds good qualities to you, they're trying to hook you two up and it would probably turn them off if you tried to get with them.

If not, other posts here give you a good idea on how to proceed.

scratchii · 2013-08-30T12:55:02+00:00

Play Truth or Dare, bring alcohol, gogogo

Question is, do you have sexual tension with these friends or are they just friends. But yeah, fuck it, you only live once!

ben0wn4g3 · 2013-08-30T13:38:18+00:00

How old are oyu?

zomgitsduke · 2013-08-30T16:37:41+00:00

When you walk in, greet everyone with "ready for that foursome?" And start to take off your shirt. Obviously a joke, but it will get ideas going.

chicagorocks3 · 2013-08-30T14:12:33+00:00

Invoke positive thoughts.

Ask things like "what was the best experience you have ever had with each other?" When I ask this question I always get giggles out of both girls. If they exchange glances with the giggle then I joke that they have probably kissed before which usually ends up with more giggles. This is usually answered with a "maybeeee" response. Then I call them out saying that I don't believe them and that they should show me. Somewhere after that I kiss one and then the other and you play the rest as it goes.

When you call them out it has to be a fun call out. Everything is fun and non judgemental until they start to kiss.

Has worked 2/3 times for me.

kireiray · 2013-08-30T16:11:58+00:00

I believe in you. Do it.

awfuckhereiam · 2013-08-30T17:21:47+00:00

Here's how it happened for me. Get the Alcohol flowing. Play Any game. Looser gets naked. Lose on purpose. Be a funny naked shameless fuck. Play more games, loser has to take body shots or lick everyone's belly button, etc. Eventually get mad about something, start ripping everyone's socks off. Sock war. Wrestling. Tieing each other up. Clothes all over the place, then yadda yadda. Morning is super awkward. Never talk to anyone there again.

lawrencethomas3 · 2013-08-30T14:06:56+00:00

Age is a pretty big consideration here.

nielsdezeeuw · 2013-08-30T15:13:42+00:00

So maybe you're friendzoned, maybe you're not. As long as they don't think you're gay, you're fine(ish). Just bring up the idea of truth or dare, then just up the tension a bit and see what happens.

To answer your second question. It doesn't matter if it's the first night or not, imo. They're your friends, so if it's going to be awkward afterwards, it going to be just that anyway. If not the second night, it'll happen the next time you see them.

TehKazlehoff · 2013-08-30T16:08:45+00:00

Op unless you are completely fucking friendzoned.... 3 girls invited you over for a party for the 4 of you.

Be yourself, be a bit flirty, and DONT FUCK UP.

Like i said unless you are completely and absolutely friend zoned, i'd say you probably allready have this shit in the bag.

FLUMPYflumperton · 2013-08-30T16:23:29+00:00

Strip twister.

eof · 2013-08-30T16:33:33+00:00

play a game of never have i ever

zomgitsduke · 2013-08-30T16:35:01+00:00

Wine. Lots of wine.

ComeFromTheWater · 2013-08-30T17:02:00+00:00

Use these chicks as wing women. If they enthusiastically help you out, you may have been friend zoned. If one seems to get quiet or starts acting weird, she likes you. If you did get FZ'd, you'll have 3 women there to provide social proof. That's money in the bank. At the very least I think you'll be able to get some numbers out of it.

Overall, sounds like a win-win. Just don't be outcome dependent or you're gonna have a bad time.

Meatmissle · 2013-08-30T17:14:41+00:00

Dude - I REALLY think you're overlooking and over thinking this. If you guys are gonna be drunk and shit and bar hopping with you and three other chicks, SOMETHING is bound to happen. Probably not a threesome, whatever, because lets face it. Most chicks AREN'T down for threesomes.

I wouldn't make the first move of the night either, because if you fail, then it could lead to awkwardness for the rest of the weekend/night, etc etc. I would play things by ear. If you notice some sort of, hint at something sexual, without being overtly obvious.

Good luck, friend!

cocaine_enema · 2013-08-30T15:38:17+00:00

Your math is bad

Ohuma · 2013-08-30T14:50:11+00:00

What has been your relationship with them so far? Do they think you're gay, just a friend, or have you hooked up with any of these broads. Play drinking game with mixed drinks which involves removing an article of clothing...do this after they have had a couple drinks, though. After that, they won't care if you're gay or straight

AlwaysInTheMiddle · 2013-08-30T15:54:30+00:00

Essentially, this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S00NafTXZHI

kungfutitties · 2013-08-30T17:02:34+00:00

Bring a fun bag. Fun bag includes but is not limited to the following items:

-A bottle of ciroc berry

-Sexy dice (or dare dice) *for drinking games

-Deck of cards (for kings cup or any other card games you like)

-Condoms

-Novelty blow up doll (a funny one not a sexy one)

-Six pack of canned beer

-A good movie that isn't too serious

-The new daft punk album "Random Access Memories" (for drunken mini dance party)

Also, wear a tank and some basketball shorts for Jammies so that you can look sexier to the girls (tanks make you look manlier) and basketball shorts are easy to slip on and off ;)

megustaelgato · 2013-08-30T17:27:31+00:00

Op what's your age? And their ages? Also don't bring a wing man in. I believe that if they had this planned already they know whats up. Hopefully you don't black out drinking lmaoo!!

rcthephotoman · 2013-08-30T17:47:45+00:00

I feel like you should just have a good time, im sure Something will happen with one of them after a few drinks. I wouldnt push for a threesome at all. You will get them creeped out.

2013-08-30T17:51:36+00:00

If they're inviting you over to a sleep over, chances are they don't view you in a sexual light. Who knows though; you may be able to make something out of it.

emit_ · 2013-08-30T18:05:10+00:00

obviously they showing interest, play it cool and calm, you're already 50% in. Don't mess up and stay attractive, open everyone

puaCurveBall · 2013-08-30T19:05:58+00:00

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hg698f · 2013-08-30T19:14:18+00:00

Why not a foursome? There are three girls after all.

Attract, build rapport/trust, escalate, and then live your dream. If you dont know those four steps pretty well this might be a learning weekend for you, but may you be so lucky as to have a weekend where you learn how to score a foursome.

You have already attracted them, as evidenced by the invite... congrats man.

Building rapport is tricky because of the need to equally include everyone and not do things that makes one or all of them insecure or less than open.

For a foursome specific escalation, group massages are pretty cool. Anything that u want to do that gets them all touching you and eachother is the name of the game.

Have a good idea of what u want to do because that many people needs a little more organization to avoid someone feeling awkward and bringing the vibe down because they dont feel included.

That is all very vague advice and I dont expect it to rock your world but just know that whatever you want to do with them is good because of the fact that you want to do it. You are their friend and if they are cool ladies and good friends then they will want to do it because you want to do it. Ps bathe and smell nice for them.

tedcorp · 2013-08-30T20:05:35+00:00

After having been in several threesomes I learned that it has to come up naturally. I've gone hunting with bisexual exes and we always went home lonely.

That said, I have planned some too...but everyone is on board. My favourite had to do with a voicemail I came home to one day:

Oh hey Ted. Miss you. We should fuck this Friday after the BDSM show. Oh...and I'll bring Rachel with me.

Have you considered that they might not want to fuck each other...let alone you? Have they expressed serious tendencies towards experimenting? Are any of them bisexual?

2013-08-31T15:31:29+00:00

You mean a foursome? Otherwise there's going to be one person awkwardly watching their friends get destroyed

Nintendew · 2013-08-30T15:45:30+00:00

[FR] Today OP was a faggot.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2013-08-30T15:25:28+00:00

There is no such thing as friend-zoned, seriously, the only people who use the phrase are frustrated people.

The exact same situation happened to me, got invited to a girl sleepover I thought would be platonic and ended up having a threesome.

My advice: just go to have fun, let it escalate comfortably with everyone, dont force anything or have too many expectations. I went to a party of 6 women and only ended up having sex with two of them. It was great

Relax! Let them make fun of you, they will joke and giggle about you. Just take it all in and have fun!

MrPanduh · 2013-08-30T14:22:46+00:00

you lucky sonuvabitch...

Got invited to a sleep over this weekend, where it will be just me and three girls. Any tips on getting a threesome going, or at least a sexy truth or dare?

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