I'm always jogging on the boardwalk or going out for a walk during the summer and I'm blown away by how many beautiful women are walking by themselves or with a friend.

I've given up on bars; they're just packed with dudes and drunk girls and I just can't take the scene anymore in general. I want to be able to talk to these girls I see on the boardwalk and get to know them.

How the hell do I lift my balls up and approach them? How can I get over this stupid anxiety so I can actually meet some of these gorgeous women instead of having another wasted summer just staring at them?

I'm convinced my game is on point; the major problem is just lifting the balls and doing it. I envision it in my head with so much confidence but when it's time to make a move I don't do it.

The sad part is I'm good-looking and in great shape, but that isn't worth a dime if you don't make a move.