I realize this may all start on a rather depressing note, but does this not depress so many of you?

It seems like (especially in the night) that the odds are greatly against men. There is seemingly no shortage of healthy attractive men who have something going on, who are single. Whereas finding girls like this just seems so rare. Definitely, almost never, to be found at night or at bars. But even in the day, I keep meeting girls who have boyfriends, are engaged, or just got out of relationship.

The more I work on physical appearance the worse it seems to get, it's as though I'm thrown in with the large group of dick-headed men who think it's all penis and muscles with a few neg hits and over aggressive acts to conceal insecurities. The more information that gets out from subreddits like this and the seduction community in general, the harder it all seems to get as well. It's like animals who have become aware of the hunters tricks. At times it would seem bad pickup game, that is not creepy, would be one's best bet if truly looking for a decent lady.

Arguably part of this is area, yes, but do any of you deal with the sort of depression that comes with realizing this world seems to be more and more a huge population of lonely males searching day and night to grab that rare find? To luck into it to an extent. I realize many of you might not want to call it luck, but the luck I mean is timing. I simply don't see this as having to do with knowing what to say/what not, how to act and approach as it is more to do with where is it? Hell just to say it outright I would love for it to be as easy as improving one's game but the difficulty seems to mostly rest in finding a great girl who is available.