I noticed the seddit is basically to rip on nice guys for their ridiculous behavior and a lot of it is really funny but I’m offering some basic advice to help the nice guys get the girl and the girls who have to deal with the nice guys bullshit .

First of all stop being so sensitive, despite what any girl may have told you or what you think based off tv and movies girls are not physically attracted to guys who are all sensitive, in fact they are often repulsed by it.

Less is more, don’t over text them, the second you start texting girls all the time it annoys the fuck outa them and they lose interest.

Women will almost always lean towards the guy who’s showing less interest and doesn’t kiss their ass. Approval seeking behavior is repulsive to women and they are turned off instantly when you are all missing their ass telling them how much you like them and how you’d treat them like a queen.

Women don’t respond to you complimenting them so stop it. Stop complimenting women so much, she knows she’s pretty and cute as she’s probly heard it from some other nice guy every single day of her life. Instead of direct compliments be different and playful. (You can say one here and there but stop kissing her ass)

Women don’t want to teach you how to be a man they just expect you to know. This is one of your biggest problems is your probably catering to her and trying to please her all the time. You have to be strong,direct,decisive,assertive and congruent with all this.

There is a difference between doing something nice for a girl because she’s being a good girlfriend and you want to do something nice for her and feeling like you need to do something nice to get and or keep her. Doing nice things for a girl will not get you the girl. You can be nice and still have fun and not boring.

Women are all fucked up and flawed too, they aren’t perfect pretty beings. Stop putting them on a pedestal and treat them more like normal people. Stop kissing their assess and doing things to please them. Be the supplicant wiener,pleaser will not get or keep the girl interested.

Most of The guys you view as jerks and assholes are treating girls more like people and treating them how they enjoy being treated so join the club and stop clinging to your beliefs that your holding some moral high ground or whatever.

Women love sex too maybe even more than guys they think and talk about it all the time. They want to be treated like sex objects sometimes contrary to what they or tv and movies may have you believe. They just don’t wanna be treated like sex objects all the time and don’t want it from guys they have no interest in so it’s tricky but they like being desired by men they desire.

Stop interviewing women on dates, these conversations are boring as fuck for women! Stop asking how many brothers and sisters they grew up with, how many aunts and uncles where they grew up! Like your gonna ask some questions but you don’t really have to. You just wanna have fun and connect with her, worry about learning about each other overtime. If you get all that info and don’t establish that spark it’s a total waste of both your time. General rule of thumb is tease her 1 outa every 3 things she says or answers she gives. Be fun playful and spontaneous.

Stop freaking out when she doesn’t text you back. the number one thing that turns girls off is weak and need behavior. Stop acting like a pussy and act as if your a guy with a ton of options by not contacting her. She should be the one chasing you more if you want to keep her long term. You can’t chase her for her affection and attention.A girl won’t dump you if she’s chasing after you. If she knows she has you when everybody she wants you she’ll move on to something more challenging cuz your not exciting at all.

Stop blaming women for your lack of understanding of them. Everything you think you know is wrong and your approach to women is not going to get or keep them unless they find you super hot on paper and or are literally looking for a nice guy to provide for them and achieve their relationship goals with. This isn’t the position you wanna be in as they never desired you to begin with so once all their relationship goals are achieved and all the exciting stuff of buying a house getting married having a kid is over they get bored and file for divorce or friendzone you inside your marriage.

Don’t blame women for your issues, ultimately despite whatever women say they want men to be the leader of the relationship. They want to feel warm safe and protected by you and it’s 100% your fault why you don’t get or keep women.

It’s not your looks or personality it’s your behaviors. Every time you act weak and needy asking her where you stand or demanding she responds to you right away makes you look so weak and insecure it’s unreal. Begging for a girls attention will not get you the girl ever! Hanging around long enough hoping she realizes your the guy for her will not get you the girl. Life isn’t a romcom and while women enjoy watching it they are repulsed by that behavior in real life. Don’t ask your girl friends for any kind of dating advice as they give terrible dating advice they go with the romcom style advice or try not to hurt your feelings and this cycle keeps nice guys thinking their morally superior and their way of thinking is the correct view of the world.

When a woman rejects you stop being so butt hurt as that’s the exact reason they rejected you in the first place. If a girl goes on a date she views the guys as a potential sexual partner or she wouldn’t even waste her time and would make an excuse not to go out with you. If she’s out with you on a date you already have her interested and just have to not fuck it up by being boring and acting like a needy pussy.

A relationship doesn’t begin until you have sex (unless your hyper religious) Don’t be ashamed of your desire or apologize for wanting to sleep with her. I sleep with most girls on the first date some make me wait till the 3rd but that trying until they are comfortable enough and sexualizing our experience is what keeps them excited and has them view it as a man to woman relationship not a plutonic one. You just gotta sexually escalate from the first date until they are actually comfortable enough to have sex.

Tv and movies are all bullshit and 100% wrong as to how relationships start and last so be aware that they would have rejected every single nice guy in them movies and stop replicating any of those behaviors.

Stop over texting them and lose the word sorry from your vocabulary. Don’t use self deprecating humor. Don’t ever apologize unless you actually hurt her and are actually sorry for legit hurting her. Stop apologizing for not texting her back right away when your at work and don’t explain yourself to either unless she directly asks about it. Don’t use the word sorry even sarcastically as is turns women off.

You also can’t be pissed when girls don’t text you back right away or wait hours even. They don’t owe you an apology or explanation on this even if their your girlfriend. This kind of behavior says I’m super insecure.

Act indifferent with her in the beginning even if your really like her. Don’t tell girls you like them, show them that you like them.dont talk about your feelings with her and let her come to you. If you push for a relationship women feel trapped and like they are gonna lose their freedom and they’ll usually ghost you.

The reason girls act bitchy when you approach is they get approached by boring nice guys all the time and if they stopped and talked with every single one they would literally do nothing but have small talk with guys they aren’t interested. They are also defensive and you made them that way by freaking out at them when they’ve rejected you in the past.

Stop hitting on girls and other small talk, grow some balls, get some game and be fun playful and interesting.

Don’t let women push you around or treat you like a doormat. Women will never ever sleep with a man they don’t have respect for and they won’t be in a relationship with you if they don’t have respect for you so stand up for yourself and be the leader, strong and Decisive like she wants.

I wrote this cuz honestly if these guys would change their weak pussy ass behaviors a lot more women would be in good healthy relationships with a guy they desire and treats them well along with the nice guys actually getting the girl.