Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages?

WholeMilkElitist · 2024-04-22T15:11:01+00:00

If her not responding to you means you think you need to block her, then by definition, you are too needy.

You may have a chance if you don't block her, you 100% don't have a chance if you do.

DaygameCode · 2024-04-22T16:54:28+00:00

It’s the woman who should feel impatient about you not texting her, not you being the one being impatient that she doesn’t text you. It’s clear you are more invested in her than she is, and as such you lose frame. With women you have to not give a fuck if you never hear back, you need to forget they exists no matter how good the date was.

You need to have more options, meet more women, be busy with your own life. You should not dedicate your life to check your messages to see if she is online or if she has read or replied yet. You should send a text and forget you sent it. As if it was just some casual thought that you had in your mind and said out loud, not really expecting a response from her.

Wanting her full attention over texts is needy, and unrealistic. You should drop this idea that instant messaging exists, and treat texts like letters. You write a letter send it and you are not sitting everyday waiting for a letter back because you know it will take days or even weeks so you just get busy with your life.

Have the same attitude with texts. I know social media has made people impatient, and expect instant gratification. But, that stuff is for weak males. You are a real man and as such you must not care at all about texting. You should act as if you had forgotten completely that you even had the text messaging app installed.

KsmHD · 2024-04-22T15:29:00+00:00

Respect Yourself! Delete the number and move on.

Ok-Shock8867 · 2024-04-22T15:38:20+00:00

Zero reason to block. This just proves to her and everyone else how much power she holds over your emotional state. One of the most unattractive traits in a man.

Ignore. Move on. She's probably not interested.

shittybillz · 2024-04-22T17:21:21+00:00

Blocking her is a reaction. What you want is no reaction. She shouldnt affect you. If you need to mute her, do that.

BarryBold8 · 2024-04-22T15:37:00+00:00

I don’t understand this, some of the best Women in my life I talk to sporadically.

We need to understand daily communication isn’t necessary unless you’re trying to date this person

Boosteddreamer · 2024-04-22T15:26:05+00:00

Why would you block her, if she doesn’t respond to your messages anyways what does blocking her do? Also if you moved to another country who cares, just move on.

Scared-Masterpiece98 · 2024-04-22T17:33:19+00:00

no just unfollow and move on game other girls

Blitted_Master · 2024-04-22T17:39:15+00:00

Recreational use only category for her shit behavior. Fuck her, then block her.

mafiargenta · 2024-04-22T15:38:17+00:00

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Objective-Piano7112 · 2024-04-22T16:47:04+00:00

People in this sub needs to seriously look into scarcity mindset. I see the same posts over and over. BTW you're in a different country now?? Pay attention to females in your own country lol

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-04-22T16:14:29+00:00

hellodarknexx · 2024-04-22T18:16:40+00:00

2 ways u could go about doing this.

Block her and start talking to other girls or focusing on your own life and absolutely winning
Don't block her, and don't pay any attention to her. Work on yourself and find someone else and actually build a genuine connection with someone else.

Basically, the solution is to just be better and be real. Always stay stoic and don't let your emotions control the way you react to a girl.

If you become better or enjoy your life, she will definitely notice.

PrinceDestin · 2024-04-22T18:25:18+00:00

Who cares you gotta charge it to the game

vigilanting · 2024-04-22T18:35:45+00:00

Most people don't care for ldr. Mute is enough.

ReportBig2296 · 2024-04-22T19:08:28+00:00

OP, honestly speaking, disregard all the advice and comments here. At the end of the day, do what you think will work for you. If you think that blocking her will resolve your negative emotions towards her, then do it. This will help you move onto the next attractive girl. You don’t have to “mute” her, “ignore” her or ponder over whether you’re being “needy” and constantly be in the state of “what if”. Her lack of interaction with you despite being online is a CLEAR indication that she’s not interested and that she currently has options that are far better than you (in her perspective).

Additional_Don · 2024-04-22T19:10:16+00:00

No bro, let her see you living your best life without her, while other women are enjoying her company. She'll probably start thinking about moving to your country again lol.

But here's your answer, she's no longer interested, and most probably she's with someone now.

Because women can't move on without having another male backup.

Just like sex is important for us, attention is important for them too.

Shadow__Account · 2024-04-22T19:48:21+00:00

Just take the hint. You are a very low priority to her. It hurts the ego but it is what it is and it’s a sign not to invest too much anymore into it.

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-04-22T19:49:12+00:00

Ask yourself if a confident man that has many female options would be writing to a subreddit with this question.

Forget asking if you should block her, etc. Bigger question you should ask yourself is how you got to feeling disrespected by her not replying to you.

Today could be the first day in to a positive direction where you don't allow little things like this bother you.

Icy_Ostrich_9223 · 2024-04-22T16:30:15+00:00

She doesn’t owe you anything, and you don’t owe her anything. Ask yourself why you’re so invested so much in the first place. Why do you need to receive a message from her? And why do you desire validation so much from a girl you’ve only gone out with twice? Focus on your own life, as this suggests there are some real voids that need to be filled.

jaboni1200 · 2024-04-22T16:48:09+00:00

Sounds like she already blocked u!

rattling_nomad · 2024-04-22T17:03:56+00:00

If it makes you feel like you have control, do it. That's why others use that method too. But if she feels like reaching out in the future, she won't be able to.

cemj86 · 2024-04-22T17:32:57+00:00

Block for what? Sounds weak and needy if you ask me. Just go on about your life and other women. If you had more than just the one you wouldn't be worried about, waiting up, monitoring if she is online.

She's probably taking a break from you, getting clapped up by a real one or just sleeping.

"Felt amazing" Pains you to see someone ignore me 😭"

Get a grip.

Blocking her will make a guy like you obsess even more.

Title	Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages?
Author	Muted_Horse_5446
Upvotes	18
Comments	38
Date	April 22, 2024 3:04 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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