When will you be done with pickup/active dating?

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nintendoborn1 · 2024-05-06T19:54:22+00:00

Well me personally as a young 22 year old who hasn’t ever felt like “this is who I wanna spend my life with” probably when I find her

Wing_Inevitable · 2024-05-06T20:34:46+00:00

The moment I meet a woman that checks off most things on a very short list (like 5 things ) of what I want in a partner .

So probably never .

Sense I know how bad girls are In modern times (I have met like one that checked 3 things) I give the advice that if you find a woman you like , you should stop the “Ho phase” and settle .

harrysquatter69 · 2024-05-06T22:38:57+00:00

When I find someone worth the effort a healthy, long-term romantic relationship takes.

It’s a beautiful thing, but it takes a LOT of effort, especially for the guy early on. Not to mention they also need to turn on the effort themselves after 3-4 dates of winning them over.

So probably not anytime soon but open to it. Until then, party time.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-06T21:04:01+00:00

When my polycule closes, so probably never 😂

DJ_Yason · 2024-05-07T00:56:36+00:00

Am 26. There only been two girls in my life I was willing to stop dating other girls for. Unfortunately, one of them was still “not ready for a relationship” (she was super avoidant attachment style btw) and the other one hasn’t texted me back for 2 days Those 2 are the only girls I can confidently say “They are perfect for me, I need nothing more” Unfortunately they don’t seem to be feeling the same way about me. So until I find someone that I like as much I like them and also likes me this way too

Those 2 girls had the following: - Very hot (one of them literally catwalk model for big brands) - Weird. Like really weird girls with weird interests. I find that hot - were into arts like me - fun to be around like to party and stuff (yeah I don’t mind party girls actually, am not a traditional guy) - had good moral values. They are both good people and make me feel warm

LizzoBathwater · 2024-05-07T01:15:52+00:00

When i feel i’ve made up for the complete absence of affection and adventure of the past 8 years of my life

TripleDigitNomad · 2024-05-06T20:59:19+00:00

30yo here with a very high lay count, I love the thrill of the chase and don't see myself settling anytime soon (unless it's with a 9 who is down to bring other girls into the bedroom with us, but I'm not holding my breath for that).

AllMyPillsRojo · 2024-05-07T00:01:59+00:00

The truth is, this is a vice just like drugs and alcohol. There’s a thrill to it.

Probably when I find a deeper purpose in life I’ll move on lol.

bannedcanceled · 2024-05-07T00:01:44+00:00

Unfortunately you will fall deeply in love with a girls some day and that will be the end

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-05-06T19:55:29+00:00

I will be done when I find a girl that is interested in being an actual wife, not simply the name on the marriage license that has all the leverage. I get women need their own careers and pursuits but if I have kids they ain't going to be raised by everyone else except the parents who are both always working. This is a tall order in the US and many would call it offensive and a pipe dream. So I see no end in sight with active dating.

cassidy-sinatra · 2024-05-06T23:03:52+00:00

Does one ever truly stop once he becomes good at this I say .No me personally I take breaks whether for work or focus on one or two girls only things that could truly stop you is if your sex drive plummets or old age!

Miguell7 · 2024-05-07T03:49:28+00:00

When I find that special girl which is very rare.

burncushlikewood · 2024-05-07T04:16:57+00:00

Quality> quantity, I've already done my thing at my current age (29), but I'll be done when and if I get married lol

ExpensiveGrave · 2024-05-06T21:41:50+00:00

The regulars here won’t ever stop because they’re not interested in a real relationship. They just want casual sex and low commitment.

Is it surprising to know that most people who spend a lot of time being single want to be single?

cemj86 · 2024-05-06T23:44:37+00:00

No one ever stops dating unless they're physically incapable...

Title	When will you be done with pickup/active dating?
Author	PossibleSmooth8867
Upvotes	10
Comments	32
Date	May 6, 2024 7:39 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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