Toxic wingman?

CrazyRepulsive8244 · 2024-05-10T01:17:57+00:00

That's not a wingman lol

ROBYoutube · 2024-05-10T01:04:48+00:00

Have you got your notebook ready? Here goes: you stop hanging out with this person, and find actual friends. The type that big you up to women.

Smooth_Ad5341 · 2024-05-10T01:24:59+00:00

He’s competing by bringing you down. Not a friend or a wingman

Person6550 · 2024-05-10T01:14:32+00:00

I had a "friend" once, he was terrible with girls. But I tried to include him in gatherings. So he could fit in and have fun too. One day I invited my gal friends out to see a movie. But he goes and calls them all earlier and changes the plans, and doesn't invite me. Of course they are like what the hell, where is (me). He was always jealous of me and women. Any chance he got he'd try to knock me out of it. Stupid of him since I was his only ticket to get close to any.

Some friends just suck dude, and need to go. You can bring it up, maybe it's just his way and he doesn't realize it how bad he's doing it. He's being cocky to front, and it's knocking you down. Tell him if it happens again, he's gone.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-10T02:45:11+00:00

Fuck that guy.

protossObserverWhere · 2024-05-10T05:27:30+00:00

I cut off someone I’ve known for over 10 years because I was tired of him putting me down to make himself feel better. I feel so much better and you will too.

vanbrah123 · 2024-05-10T13:44:55+00:00

I had a friend like this for years and I put up with it in the name of “friendship”

The best decision I made was to cut him off completely and my success with women also sky rocketed after that.

ConstantlyPooped · 2024-05-10T07:11:17+00:00

You really just have to talk to him about it, don't make it serious or you'll never be going out with him again.

I've been inviting a friend to go out with me, for the past few years. I met him in HS so I want him to get girls but whenever I talk to one that has a friend, he makes things extremely awkward. I've gotten more girls going out myself then with him, when he gets drunk he dances crazy and scares people away haha. I keep bringing him so he can eventually kind of get used to it and get a girl. You just have to start being more social or just even evolve a bit if you think you have certain flaws, so there isn't a reason for him to neg you - which I would never do to my friend, and neither should he be doing it with you.

Dandys3107 · 2024-05-10T07:31:39+00:00

Purpose of a wingman is to enrich your game and your value in eyes of women. This guy does the opposite.

tiredchambo · 2024-05-10T14:54:06+00:00

I would smash his head in, and never let him repeat the same mistake. This dude has no respect

tajbinjohn · 2024-05-10T15:51:37+00:00

Talk to him about it and see how well he receives the feedback but most likely he simply can't be around women with you.

A lot of guys suck so bad where they NEED to put someone down like an 8th grader to win. You're not the one

Happyseducer · 2024-05-10T21:23:15+00:00

Eliminate him from your life. This is the worst situation when you are treating them like a friend but they are clowning you. It is like being in a fight getting punched in the face while you are trying to put bandages on your opponents knuckles so they feel better lol.

Eliminate him from your life, anytime you are in set use it as an opportunity to practice amogging and clowning. He is your enemy, treat him properly.

stockmaniac · 2024-05-11T01:02:00+00:00

Yea that guy was my cousin. I went out with him for years having multiple conversations about this with him expecting him to change his behavior. But if he don't respect you, he don't respect you. The truth comes out especially when alcohol is involved.

He would try to cock block every opportunity he would get. Like hop in the middle of the conversation when I am already talking to a girl. Or approach them after I already secured a number. Always trying to get the girls I was trying to get

I do solo game now and atleast I know if I get rejected it's my fault and not because I was sabotaged.

Title	Toxic wingman?
Author	sumimigaquatchi
Upvotes	18
Comments	30
Date	May 10, 2024 1:01 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1cod6s2/toxic_wingman/
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