I'm sick of people accusing me of being "entitled" and viewing women as "sex objects" simply because I wanna date and experience what the rest of humanity has.

Scarce12 · 2024-06-11T02:53:33+00:00

tell me to not view women as sex objects

This is quite the Freudian slip by them, have you asked them how they established that dating involves treating other people as objects?

The revelation here is modern women's Madonna-Whore complex, and it's impact on men.

chobolicious88 · 2024-06-11T09:40:22+00:00

Its so funny when women, often modern feminists, say “dont look at women like objects”, and then you can hear them in a group objectifying a man they want to fuck for a one night stand.

Complete delusion

DeadWinterDays9 · 2024-06-11T02:21:11+00:00

I hear that too and it’s bullshit. The typical “all men are bad” trope. If a man has a sex drive, he’s a loser creep that just wants to get his dick wet. Unless of course, you’re in the top 10% of looks 🤣

2024-06-11T01:37:33+00:00

Romantically satisfied people don’t dismiss like that. They’re dissatisfied people grasping at straws for superiority. You talk to a woman/man with options they’ll empathize, not shame.

Insurrectionarychad · 2024-06-11T01:44:29+00:00

Nice username. It feels like some people are just incapable of empathy.

Johntoreno · 2024-06-11T01:45:17+00:00

Everytime I seek support and guidance and open up about my struggles with dating and how I feel lonely, people always fucking say "no one owes you anything" and tell me to not view women as sex objects.

Indeed; a man who has difficulty having sex or a partner or experiences is a man socially and sexually understood as unfit. Some will tell you personality, others will tell you status, and the most knowledgeable will tell you that it is a mixture of looks-status or pure and simple lookism.

Nobody owes you anything, it's true; However, that means that effectively, if you want something, you are told that you must accept your loneliness, your inceldom, your inability Which is harsh, but it's the natural response to: screw you, At least I can fuck, have a partner and reproduce. And it is hard, but the opposite would be eradicating women's freedom.

And regarding the sexual object...; Well, it all depends on who the man considers whom as a sexual object. Platitudes, platitudes and more platitudes about "improve your personality"; all nonsense. And do you know why? You are told to improve your personality because it is understood that if you are not sexually attractive, you can only be, in redpillian words, a mangina, a simp beta provider, a cuck, or an ATM.

Thus, the majority of people are authentic NPCs, spouting repeated arguments ad nauseam: empty arguments, but they hide the intention that I mentioned above.

I dont feel either of those things. im sick of people using those phrases over and over again.

Avoid them, honestly. Avoid them until they give you more convincing arguments to either try the solutions they give you or continue ignoring them.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2024-06-11T03:59:21+00:00

I find the phrase "sex object" to be extraordinarily silly; why would anyone want to have a romantic relationship with an object?

In order for them to make that accusation, they would need to know the contents of your head. And they don't.

You've spoken to women before, surely. If so, then you don't see them as objects. You don't talk to objects. You don't cook for objects. You don't invite objects to parties. This is called "interaction" and you do it with humans. What's the difference between objectifying someone and talking to them? Answer: only they know the difference, you're not qualified.

And when you take sex out of the equation, you see how silly the idea is. When you say "hello" to a woman, are you treating her like a "greeting object"? No. When you hand a piece of paper to a woman, are you treating her like a mailbox or something? No. There isn't any other context in which you'd get an accusation of treating someone like an object, only sex. So when you get down to it, they're accusing you of having "dirty thoughts". That's what they're saying, essentially: sex is dirty and it's wrong. Except for when they have sex, of course. That's fine.

And even if the accusation is remotely true, what actual harm is being done? Do objectification beams shoot-out from your brain and melt people into puddles of lava?

This is a nonsense accusation that is being leveled at you, and you should start laughing at it.

eli_ashe · 2024-06-11T02:48:37+00:00

as you should be.

one thing worth folks really coming to grips with is that you're dealing with a fairly profoundly sex negative feminist wave. a puritanical wave of feminism. it isn't all feminist or feminism or women tho, but the puritans are kinda zealots about it.

Muted-Bath6503 · 2024-06-11T12:04:38+00:00

stop caring about female opinions

DrewYetti · 2024-06-11T17:24:50+00:00

That's just gaslighting on women's part just to make men the bad guys for having needs and desires as well as women projecting their own sense of entitlement onto men. Also while women say they hate being viewed as sex objection but they themselves objectify themselves like sleeping around with Chads and Tyrones that treat them like sex objects as well as selling their bodies for money. Proving that women don't like being sexual objectified unless it benefits them at men's expense.

kkkan2020 · 2024-06-11T15:21:33+00:00

I hate to say this but this issue that a lot of folks are facing today are mistakes our ancestors made long before any of us were born and the little things add up here an there culminating to the avalanche of a sh-t show we are seeing today.

ACLU_EvilPatriarchy · 2024-06-11T04:07:12+00:00

You're in good company.

That's what Western females say about half of the Asian guys and particularly the Pakistani and Indian guys...

Plus they add the word "creep"

fuckthemoddsofreddit · 2024-06-11T21:30:39+00:00

I said this in another thread.

Nobody is entitled to an specific woman, but men in general are entitled to dating opportunities in general.

You cant have a functioning society where so many men cant get a date. thats a broken society.

Wonderful_Working315 · 2024-06-11T02:57:32+00:00

I just bang the chicks a point or two below me in attractiveness. Also, getting older helps. Stay in shape as you get older and automatically top 10%.

You can get away with a lot if you're a point higher in physical attractiveness on the 10 point scale. Stick with those chicks, and you can treat them like sex objects, or really any object. They won't care.

Vaudeville_Clown · 2024-06-11T17:04:28+00:00

Well it's a lie. Contextually women want to be objectified and so does men, but nobody wants to be only objectified.

People are a lot of things, a full person, devoted friend, unique individual, professional whatever etc. etc. and yes, sexual objects too.

So you see, these things don't really exclude one another.

If you hear someone say it, be a bit boss and call the bluff. Explain how they're wrong, the way I just did.

Low_Rich_5436 · 2024-06-11T05:19:25+00:00

Is this something people actually tell others irl? It sounds to me as something only the critically online would say to another human being.

NeitherBearNorTree · 2024-06-11T04:18:06+00:00

Honestly I'm on the verge of becoming an extreme manhater, not because I agree (I'm male), but because I feel like if the feminists are gonna say it, then they should commit. Put your money where your mouth is.

"Men are worse than bears, you're right! Men should be locked up. Beaten. Killed. Dead ass, let's round up all the men right now. Grab a gun."

"Oh, you think that's too far? COWARD, MEN DESERVE TO DIE. Or do you admit all that man-vs-bear stuff was just complete bullshit?"

2024-06-12T05:28:45+00:00

It’s understandable. I’d say most people want a partner to spend their life with. My suggestion to you though is if someone comes at you with that attitude you probably don’t want to date them anyway. It shows a lack of empathy. Be patient, take time to yourself and the right one will come along when you least expect it. Also don’t settle. Dear god too many people settle! Pls don’t. It would not be fair for either of you. Having a relationship where you mutually both feel like you won the lottery with your partner is exactly what you want. And don’t believe in the crap that the man needs to love the woman more for a relationship to work.

HelloFuckYou1 · 2024-06-14T04:50:28+00:00

and thats why, my friend, you become a passport bro. you date and marry a woman in a society that doesn't have these sinthetic problems

Upper-Ad9228 · 2024-08-18T17:01:37+00:00

yeah i feel you, i done nothing but been nice to women but for some reason am the who is pinned as someone who thinks of them as objects.

michaelpaoli · 2024-06-11T22:12:45+00:00

what the rest of humanity has

What makes you think the rest of humanity has? Hint: don't believe media or "social" media.

But regardless, you'll probably get to experience what the rest of humanity has ... lots of frustration and disappointment.

2024-06-11T18:23:06+00:00

I mean if they are saying not to view women as sex objects maybe you are viewing them as sex objects, it’s okay to take criticism

Background-Guess-978 · 2024-06-11T04:19:50+00:00

but if you are receiving the same feedback all around maybe there is some truth to it? Do you feel like you are owed a connection be side “the rest of humanity has”. What do you genuinely feel about sex and dating and women?

Title	I'm sick of people accusing me of being "entitled" and viewing women as "sex objects" simply because I wanna date and experience what the rest of humanity has.
Author	Uncontainable_SCP
Upvotes	319
Comments	74
Date	June 11, 2024 1:25 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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