I've seen some ppl wine about getting a gf but not many of them seem to really put that much work into finding one. I'd imagine if you're really desperate you'd literally go cold approach women in public religiously without shame or doing everything you can to find dates online. Also it seems like those of them without much success seem to have high standards for what they're worth and doesn't try to lower them to get experience. Some of the low smv dudes that i see with women seem to just don't give a shit about what other think and do whatever it takes to get laid. Do you know anyone without success that's an insane try hard?