Has learning latin dance forms like Bachata help you get a lay?

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2024-09-24T21:57:22+00:00

It gets easier to start conversations with girls and break the touch barrier, but if you have no game, you'll still fumble the ball.

Kind-Standard-536 · 2024-09-24T22:02:27+00:00

You should totally do it without the expectation of gaining anything except some awesome dance moves

FreeTheMarket · 2024-09-24T23:12:54+00:00

Honestly, I went into it just to have another hobby, but met so many beautiful women that I had good chemistry with.

A lot of people find their long term partners in social dance…then they stop coming haha

GarugasRevenge · 2024-09-24T22:29:38+00:00

Usually the woman are nice there, learn some moves, get a dance partner, and go to a dance club. It's possible but you gotta be friends first.

Necessary-Jaguar4775 · 2024-09-24T22:48:08+00:00

Not directly but it has increased my confidence, being comfortable around women and dance skills massively. I think it has also made me more dominant because to be good, you have to be competent lead so now I can naturally take that role with women more.

I can also reliably apply the dance skills in a club setting, which helps gets girls and it jas made approaching women so much easier in everyday life.

LizzoBathwater · 2024-09-25T00:41:08+00:00

No lol, first the classes in my area are middle-aged 40+ ladies. Good if you like cougars i guess. Second nowhere plays bachata except bachata events. You can’t dance it at a random bar or club. No girls know it anyway.

Where it has helped is bringing it up on dates, girls always want me to teach them it after. And once you’re dancing at one of each other’s place, well the rest is smooth sailing from there.

redspikedog · 2024-09-25T02:02:12+00:00

My experience and tips:

Shortage of men in Latin dance classes. EVERY TIME.

2.If you groom well, you will do well with the easy competition you have.

3.Dress well.

Make eye contact and smile. Compliment the girl, cause guess what? You have no idea how easy it will be to date all the girls.
You will be rotating partners. Those girls that do like you, you will know because they will look at you and get somewhat jealous that you had to rotate to another female. But when you see her, smile back. But only smile back when you are rotated to an ugly one. Forget the ugly one.
Always be the first to choose the girl you want the most. However, make sure that you have plan b girl and plan c girl in case she's not into you.

7.Take Latin dance class seriously. On my first class, I got too caught up with the girls that I slouched on practicing. When it came to making big moves, I was lost. Girls want a partner that knows how to do the dance steps and moves. The more you f up, the more they get frustrated and will go for the ugly guy that has been practicing and all the girls will see that and all will gravitate towards him. Like I said, shortage of men, but also shortage of good dancing men.

Get their numbers to practice. But remember this, flirt with them. Start small and respectful when flirting. Practice, make eye contact. get closer when dancing, smile.
Practice somewhere like at a park or something. But meet somwhere. Eventually, start to meet at your house or her house. Make sure you have something to play music.
After practicing, sit and chill with her. You can already lay your arms around her lower back. Why? because latin dancing breaks the "touch Barrier". You're both comfortable to touch each other naturally.
to sit and chill with her, grab her hands and bring her to the couch and then wrap your arm around her. and when you do wrap your arm around her, gently pull her towards your body. you can also touch her thigh. Look at her in the eyes and lips..
From here, its your call, bro. Are you gonna just stare you fool? or are you going to kiss her and escalate?
Remember. If you just get stuck here, it will become insanity and boring for her because shes not sure if youre playing with her or testing her. Youlle get friendzoned. One chance, don't fuck up.

asanskrita · 2024-09-25T00:05:15+00:00

Indirectly, if you are a man - it can teach you to lead a physical interaction. Directly - it’s definitely a hookup scene in some places. My autistic 20 year old ass didn’t hook up with anyone when I was a halfway decent ballroom dancer. I don’t do partnered dance any more but some adjacent scenes definitely have a lot of people who are open minded about sex.

Conjoined_Triangles · 2024-09-24T22:51:27+00:00

It doesn't hurt to learn it. The indirect ways it helps you is if you're in a club that happens to play it, a girl you're sealing the deal on happens to like it, it's likely a bonus with hispanic girls. It's also a very sensual dance you can escalate much more quickly. It's another tool in your game but getting the prize is all up to your own efforts.

Such_Orchid_7759 · 2024-09-24T22:43:06+00:00

If you have success with salsa/bachata in such a loud environment - there are more efficient ways like online dating that will be just as efficient. Never met a guy who does well meeting gals at loud dances like that and can’t do well with online.

RedbillInvestor · 2024-09-25T01:26:06+00:00

If you go alone you will work with a cute instructor girl and practice maintaining your chill with prolonged touch and eye contact. I got a lot out of it

Worried-One2399 · 2024-09-25T11:23:26+00:00

My game is on lock… and sealed. However, THIS is the last stepping stone for me @ least. I WANT TO LEARN TO DANCE all the dances 🫣

Bachata, salsa, ball room, country dancing… etc etc.. I NEED to learn how ASAP 🙉🤦🏼‍♂️ lol

dasanman69 · 2024-09-24T22:53:04+00:00

Women will ask you to dance.

imsexc · 2024-09-25T01:42:48+00:00

A man that can dance attracts women, show value, thus help you to open. But you need to be able to close. I'd say learning dance that requires no partner is more valuable. Go for Ballet. seriously.

xcoreflyup · 2024-09-25T03:21:54+00:00

I just start doing this.

After 6 years with my ex, i do this because i need a new hobby badly. Meeting women there is almost a side benefit.

ThunderInYourHeart7 · 2024-09-25T02:03:02+00:00

I’m trying to find a dance place in SoCal.

No-Version5647 · 2024-09-25T02:45:49+00:00

I have, and multiple times as well, completely worth learning.
I have this small dance routine which starts slow but in 4 moves she has her back on my front, thats also when I make the move.

Lit-Up · 2024-09-25T06:59:22+00:00

Lots of beautiful women in bachata, they dance it for an ego boost. They're being hit on all the time. If you want the ones in their 20s you ideally need to be under 30. If you don't like the music it will eventually grate on you. Also once you have been on the scene for over a year your potential really expires as you're seeing the same women every week. If you rely on conversation for game, forget it, because you will normally be in a noisy club.

Sea-Respect-4678 · 2024-09-25T16:53:05+00:00

Learning to dance was the single most useful thing I learned that helped me with women. It teaches you how to lead a physical interaction, improvise, connect. It forces you to learn how to approach all kinds of women. If you can dance well, it always impresses a lady.

mister_k1 · 2024-09-25T17:27:34+00:00

been doing salsa for over a year and a half, the answer is NO! the girls there are either in a rs or are to unattractive and stuck up to do anything with, but you're welcome to try!

Title	Has learning latin dance forms like Bachata help you get a lay?
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Date	September 24, 2024 9:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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