Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?

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ympostor · 2024-11-10T17:44:11+00:00

I'm in my 40s, I've banged twenty-somethings. I don't think you should assume he was a creepo, he had his chances just like you, you were late to the party.

porkgonzola · 2024-11-10T16:46:24+00:00

Maybe she's just into older dudes. Not that uncommon these days. Either that or she's an escort.

MasterRaheem · 2024-11-10T21:54:03+00:00

You sound jealous calling him an old creep just because he picked her up 😂

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-11-11T04:58:44+00:00

Lol the worst ppl are guys like you. Trying to swoop in on another guy that actually got some. Grow some balls, approach a girl that doesn’t have a guy. If you really wanna grow some balls approach a group of girls and start talking to the one you find attractive.

Get a life dawg

comacove · 2024-11-10T20:12:59+00:00

she dont wanna be saved, man

ShawnSimoes · 2024-11-10T23:44:41+00:00

lol dude you sound like way more of a creep than him

youngyut · 2024-11-10T18:01:33+00:00

No, he was just first. Let it be and find another one. It’s a club, there are many others. That’s why the saying is “hesitation kills”.

Kidcouger · 2024-11-10T22:41:04+00:00

Could have also been her Boyfriend, You wouldn't know

BlackXwhite96 · 2024-11-11T02:53:15+00:00

I’ve had a girl stolen away from me , at a club before but it was actually on a cruise, she was hot as hell. She started dancing with this dude who was like 39 years old, she was 19 . He took her to her suite , and smashed all 3 days for the entire cruise . I actually ended becoming cool with him , because I saw him every night at the casino and we started talking , very smooth charismatic guy , No surprise there . She’d always be with him . She was literally so fucking hot!! Game really goes along way , he was a short dude , but he just had so much charisma man, I couldn’t even be mad lol

epimpstyle · 2024-11-10T20:54:42+00:00

Don't even think about copying the funny YT videos of a guy stealing someone else's girlfriend. They have a quick rescue if things escalate: "It's a prank, bro, it's a social experiment, there is the camera", but you don't have that option. You just create a conflict that can end badly.

Felix1178 · 2024-11-11T09:09:44+00:00

Yes as another guy said on the top comment section, why you assume that the was a creepo? he was a successful player lol!

KoleSekor · 2024-11-10T18:25:38+00:00

Totally depends on how long it's happening. I wouldn't do it while they're actively dancing. That's lame.

devonthed00d · 2024-11-11T03:21:30+00:00

Bro chill. That’s just her dad

buckphifty150150 · 2024-11-11T04:05:19+00:00

Because he got there first you need to “save her” lol

Bigboyfresh · 2024-11-11T05:20:02+00:00

I did in my college days, met the girl at a club previously. She showed up the following week with date and they were grinding on the floor. I had bottle service, when to go chat, ended up taking her back to my place that night. Her date was pretty annoyed but it’s a cold world we live in.

PixelSteel · 2024-11-11T05:48:10+00:00

She sounds like such a hoe man, honestly bullets dodged

A1Horizon · 2024-11-11T10:21:06+00:00

Maybe, idk. I don’t pay much attention to what people are doing before I interact with them. Might be a bad habit but I get tunnel vision on my own shit too much

Thebiggestbigsquid · 2024-11-10T17:29:21+00:00

Who knows bro, dating is just one big wtf lol could literally be multiple things

Sabalan17 · 2024-11-10T18:16:27+00:00

Depends, if the guy couldn't make the close you could go in.

theasianplayboy · 2024-11-10T20:05:43+00:00

LaloTwinsDa2nd · 2024-11-10T21:32:39+00:00

Yes once

Weirdest thing I’ve ever had happen

A girl was heavily grinding on a guy made eye contact with me and pushed him away before practically jumping on me.

She let me finger her on the dance floor and that was my first one night stand.

Low-Bread9747 · 2024-11-10T17:10:00+00:00

With girl is different at us we normally do target>hit girls normally things like "he is hitting on me, he is in aceptable range, (we have a similar cost in the love market) Im going to LET HIM HIT UNTIL HE RAACH WALL AND SMASH, OH DIDN'T SMASH... WITH WALL... so we is going to smash my butt

I hope u a understand

Title	Have you ever picked up a girl that was grinding on another guy?
Author	entitledwank
Upvotes	31
Comments	31
Date	November 10, 2024 4:32 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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