How do you feel comfortable being intimate and getting naked with men when you are over 30? Or when you are post-wall?

vegancigarette · 2024-11-12T19:25:27+00:00

Lol, is this post bait? Not everyone becomes unattractive after age 30, and healthy married couples don’t stop being intimate after that age either.

Hot_Blacksmith_3404 · 2024-11-12T19:39:30+00:00

You need to touch grass. Go out in public and look around at all of the over-30 couples who are still in love, still dating each other, still attracted to each other, many of them getting married and having babies well into their 30s. Look at your over 30 friends and acquaintances. Do you genuinely believe they are all completely unattractive?

Look at the rise of std rates in nursing homes, old people are still getting after it😂

This is one of those situations where the internet has rotted your brain.

Edit: I remembered this post and wanted to share, some of the comments are really helpful to me when I’ve had aging anxiety in the past: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/s/z4ej2Yd1kO

StunningSort3082 · 2024-11-12T19:31:18+00:00

Men decide if they want to fuck you while you’re fully clothed. Once the clothes come off, they’re already all in.

DipsyDoodle101 · 2024-11-12T19:51:40+00:00

If your husband doesn’t want to sleep with you after 30, then you don’t have a husband. You have a sleezy jerk that you need to get rid of.

Jenneapolis · 2024-11-12T19:25:17+00:00

How old are you? It sounds like you need to get offline. Men love women period. Naked women, even more. I feel more comfortable at 41 than I did at 21 because I know myself, my body, and my needs more.

pieorstrudel5 · 2024-11-12T19:31:20+00:00

Man oh man, when I turned 30 I started growing scales under my clothes. But my dermatologist gave me an ointment.

All jokes aside....

Have you seen women in their 30s and 40s lately? Millennials look younger than ever. Sometimes we look younger than Gen Z - who is obsessed with looking like a working woman from the 1990s.

Thanks to skincare, sunscreen, and not smoking. In addition to women finally getting into weight lifting. And sometimes botox.... Aging gracefully is easier than ever.

I am 40. Look about 32ish. No Botox. Just a life time of being focused on skincare, diet, and exercise - I look and feel great. I routinely get hit on by men in their 20s. And in some ways I love being 40 because I am completely confident in my self and sexuality

No matter the gender - we all want our sexual partners to take care of their bodies. For attraction and longevity. I don't want a fat and haggard man as much as a man doesn't want a fat or haggard woman.

Deliaallmylife · 2024-11-12T21:50:59+00:00

In my experience, yes and with very little change resulting from age.

Before you go listening to what men on the internet say, remember that you don't know the following about them:

age - younger men are going to be less interested in older women. older men will be interested in older and younger women
marital status - do you really want to know how a single guy thinks he will feel about his non existent wife? he's guessing and so you can't take his opinion seriously.
level of attractiveness in the dating market - do you care if an incel thinks that 30 year olds are gross?
value system - a man who doesn't share your values isn't compatible with you anyway. you don't need to care what non-christian non-marriage minded men think.

You are trusting a bunch of unknown men to shape your opinion. You don't know who they are or why they are saying the things they do. I don't mean to poo-poo RP theory here but there is a lot more nuance than what you will see online, particularly on the men's side of things.

My grandfather's eyes are shining at my grandmother in the pictures from their 50th anniversary where they renewed their vows. Whatever his opinion on 20somethings - it was clear that he still loved and cherished her. It absolutely happens and you need to be wary of trusting people you don't know to dictate your self worth.

Icy_Adhesiveness349 · 2024-11-12T19:41:38+00:00

Take care of yourself by eating healthy, working out, skin care, etc. and you will look great after 30. I recently saw a woman who is 61 and body looks 25! Her instagram is @/glow_anna_glow if you don’t believe me lol. But there’s so many ways to ensure smooth aging these days. Just take care of yourself!

butterflyboots · 2024-11-12T21:16:23+00:00

Honestly, I can’t with this sub anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️

DipsyDoodle101 · 2024-11-12T19:52:09+00:00

Also, what is post wall?

honeysherbert · 2024-11-13T02:07:02+00:00

Hey, while there is plenty of truth to TRP, men aren't all a bunch of NPC's with pre-programmed preferences and values. Men are human people. While we shouldn't ignore that age and beauty are important, they're not scanning you like the terminator, registering "above 25" and yeeting out of there.

I was literally so dumb and insane when I was 23. Don't let TRP make you dumb and insane and instead use this sub to your advantage at such a young age.

You probably see attractive women around all the time without realising they're like 35. Marriage to a good man will definitely make your skin glow, but aside from that it's really simple, prioritise your health and fitness and try to wear sunscreen and you'll still be attractive to men way beyond turning 30.

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Diamonds_in_the_dirt · 2024-11-12T19:42:23+00:00

I swear to God this sub is just a bunch of rage-bait troll posts

Little_Oil_4877 · 2024-11-12T19:42:41+00:00

The wall is non existent. Get offline and go talk to actual adult men.

DipsyDoodle101 · 2024-11-12T23:28:05+00:00

Life is a journey. You aren’t the same today that you were in high school. Just as you won’t be the same in ten years. Would you be attracted to the same guys as you were in high school? probably not. You might look back at the guy every girl wanted to date and see a pimply twig. A guy that seems old to you know, would be someone you are attracted to in ten years. It’s the same for men. Just relax and let yourself be you. That’s more attractive to the right man for you. I remember my brother commenting on the girl that all the guys liked in high school, looking back now, that she looked like a horse face with a mushroom haircut. Current perception will not be the same down the road. I used to be attracted to the tough guy with an attitude, but now, a nice comfy guy with a kind spirit does it for me.

Street_Mountain5954 · 2026-01-07T09:15:15+00:00

Dude i am about to be 33 and I look at women who are 50 and I'm like damn she looks goodddddd like mesmerized

Am I wrong for not thinking I should start looking for burial plots.

You literally know so little about life before I'd say 21....

throwawaytalks25 · 2024-11-14T14:34:37+00:00

Based on your post history, it may be wise to seek counseling, take a break from the internet, or something because your mindset is flawed and you seem quite hyperfixated.

I'm 39. I don't look my age, but I also don't look like I'm in my 20s...my body is just fine! My husband is super turned on by me, and I would have no issues getting male attention if that is what I wanted. Thinking that women suddenly turn into shriveled up, saggy, wrinkled prunes at 30 isn't remotely reality or healthy.

I have more confidence now than when I was younger, and I have the skill to justify the confidence. I have absolutely no issue being naked with my husband.

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Title	How do you feel comfortable being intimate and getting naked with men when you are over 30? Or when you are post-wall?
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