I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean

vegetables-10000 · 2024-11-30T20:23:19+00:00

Indian men are dealing with this same BS too.

As black men, I can relate to people using your race to show how toxic your gender is. And justifying this hate under the disguise of Feminism and "protecting women"

flaumo · 2024-11-30T19:17:13+00:00

Sorry to hear that, it certainly is prejudice.

Do the crazies really call for North Korea to invade? Do you have a link or quote for that?

falcon-feathers · 2024-11-30T19:41:00+00:00

Unfortunately the US loves categorizing things often for the purpose of hate. It sucks and I will you in that everyone should be judged on there own behaviour and the world being a complex place that defies simple characterizations.

Lanavis13 · 2024-11-30T22:09:45+00:00

The misandry to racism pipeline seem to always end up happening. Not surprised since people who can fall into sexism (or other bigoted thinking) follow the same logic that people use to justify their racism.

Fallen-Shadow-1214 · 2024-11-30T23:28:00+00:00

Yeah… I saw this coming from a mile away.

The blatant Koreaphobia is insane, I’m surprised I’m just seeing this now.

flapado · 2024-11-30T22:17:50+00:00

A lot of this shit is what I like to call western chauvinism I hate it as well as a white man who's lived in America most of my life a few Edge cases or any amount of the cases don't justify hating or labeling an entire group this is the problem with group think when people get into groups they turn there brains of and follow the herd sometimes this is useful but most of the time it's what allows the worst atrocities the human race has committed onto each other and it's sickning seeing it on both sides even as a leftist Socialist I dislike what most of the online lefts thought process about things is and its willingness to generalize about alot of things I think we as humans could do alot better trying to see the people in other people's even if it makes us uncomfortable I think it's important to reach over the divide and try sometimes in futility to make a connection with people we have differences with I would like to believe I see people for what they are and try to be respectful with them and I may joke and be ironic as well as hyperbolic for comedic effect but I do genuinely want to see the best in people caus I think every one of us deserves a chance to be understood any ways enough of my ramblings the modern left and the past left and any group in the world has had these issues and we will probably continue to do it as long as we're human. And don't try to change.

edit spelling i not good at i try fix it

DesoLina · 2024-12-01T00:22:18+00:00

You’ve got a mask off moment from modern performative leftism. Make your conclusions and act accordingly

bunker_man · 2024-12-01T05:19:51+00:00

In the west it's more or less considered okay to go open season on any group whose existence makes upper middle class white women uncomfortable. Koreans, Indians, autistic people, etc.

Stellakinetic · 2024-11-30T21:08:41+00:00

I’ve noticed over the last few years that the left definitely seems to have a problem with making excessive and generalized negative judgements about groups of people. I think that’s called prejudice….

It kind of amazes me how much… prejudice… is shown by many people on the left to people who are even on their side. I feel like a lot of the left has become so laser-focused on witch hunts and “rooting out detractors” that they’re slowly destroying themselves.

Now, I’ve always identified more with policies of the left, but anything can be taken too far. How are you supposed to keep allies when you see everyone as the enemy?

2024-12-01T04:04:02+00:00

You have to remember the fact that a hundred years ago colonisers would treat other races as "bestial" those ideas never actually went away it's just the words that describe changed.

I used to hang out with a group of white chicks when I was in university and you should hear about the sick fantasies they have about black dudes, shit was sick and racist as fuck.

This is not going to change .

And never forget those who have privilege never understand what it means to be on the receiving end of things .

Local-Willingness784 · 2024-12-01T02:28:33+00:00

you really dont need to be part of a leftist "community" if you can even call them that way, even for this one, I think as long as you form your own ideas and don't harm anyone you shouldn't give a fuck about those weirdos, because politics is about social change, not forming social clubs.

and sorry if the comment came on too peachy or something, I didn't meant to scold you, but I just think you expect way to much of online leftist, I know I did too, but those people arent your friends, they are barely relevant really.

ManWithTwoShadows · 2024-12-01T04:24:21+00:00

That kind of racism is insidious because it's disguised as empathy for victims. Anyone who calls it out can be labeled as an enemy of the victims.

flaumo · 2024-11-30T20:10:16+00:00

American leftists think korean women are all being raped and abused sexually just because the sexualization of women is different than the United States and they are unable to understand how cultures may be different.

Try to not take it personally.

Fallen-Shadow-1214 · 2024-11-30T23:49:37+00:00

Yeah man, I relate to everything you’re saying. You came to the right place. You can dm if u wanna talk.

Johntoreno · 2024-11-30T19:36:54+00:00

Other leftists constantly act like South Korea is any more anti woman than literally any other western nation

Looks like the election results have driven the progressives into the deep end. First it was the hate against Indian men for their pro-Israel stance, then Latin American men for not voting blue and now Korean Men are all being branded as incels for their anti-feminism, by the "social justice warriors" that claim to fight racism.

NGL, its very satisfying to see these sanctimonious loudmouths being outed as covert misandrist racists in the recent years. It confirms what i've always believed, patriarchy is an excellent backdoor for racists to unapologetically demonise non-white cultures&people under the excuse of liberating non-white women.

Upset-Macaron3235 · 2024-12-01T09:04:54+00:00

I'm curious what the response is of korean feminists to the fact that ALL men in SK are forced to 18 months of military service. Do they fight to abolish it or get women conscripted too? It's a literal policy that affects all men in real life just because of their gender

Maffioze · 2024-12-01T08:32:02+00:00

Fearmongering about a group of people with a certain identity is always going to result in negative consequences for the people in such groups, regardless of their gender, ethnicity, nationality, etc. The end result of this is always the same kind of hatred and contempt.

AigisxLabrys · 2024-12-01T15:58:15+00:00

How far will this racism go? It’s bewildering that misandry loops back into racism.

snakes_are_superior · 2024-12-24T14:39:29+00:00

Dude it sucks as a leftist Indian because both sides hate me. I’m glad u made this post cus I largely resonated with it. Indian men are lowk mostly sexist assholes from my experience and that’s why all of my brown friends are ones I’ve confirmed to not be as such. And the left understands this and hates Indians for it because the ones that actually live in India are often very conservative and justify the heinous things Indians have done to women. And in the US, where I live, a lot of us are lowk hideous and so e red pill andrew Tate shit appeals to many of the less desirable Indian dudes which leads to hella conservative Indians all around which aliens us from the rest of the

DaddysPrincesss26 · 2024-12-01T16:49:59+00:00

I’m so Sorry

shifu_shifu · 2024-11-30T19:37:40+00:00

As a leftie westerner that has actually lived in Seoul: These people are deranged. I love the korean people and their culture. Some guys are pretty misogynistic, ngl. I went clubbing in Hongdae, it was honestly well behaved apart from some pushy guys.

Are there some parts of korean society that are not compatible with womens freedoms? Sure as there are in any culture.For example the way some of the staff at my University has behaved towards the women on campus would never fly here. The guy(50+, married) said to friend of mine from latin america: "If I was not married to my wife I would have married a latina" He then proceeded to invite her to a dinner, just the both of them in an upscale restaurant. She didn't go but I went with my girlfriend after checking it out. It was super nice, quite expensive on the 30+th floor of a skyscaper overlooking the han river. Shit like this would get you fired in my country.

After I asked around with my korean classmates and people from the student union apparently there are a number of professors like that... "그냥 무시해".

2025-03-30T00:01:43+00:00

It's very ironic because in the intersectional lens, it criticizes this, and my perspective is that most people leftist and liberal or progressive have an incredibly reductionist, reactionary position, that isn't really feminist in the slightest - people don't really have critical theory influenced perspectives - and especially on this subject, they reject intersectionality, and even critical race theory, and do this very racist and sexist positioning framework. I think vaush is very incorrect and wildly uncriticized, invulnerable from real leftist thought because of how insular progressivism is.

PieCorrect1465 · 2024-11-30T19:24:24+00:00

Your first mistake was emotionally investing in the nonsense said on discord and most parts of the internet.

2024-12-01T19:55:59+00:00

Koreans and Indians are definitely like that, right?

BernieLogDickSanders · 2024-12-02T19:00:35+00:00

You literally listed three populations that have severe problems with their young men growing up to be mysoginists towards women based on a general lack of self esteem being self medicated by sexism as a byproduct of cultural dogma.

Muslims in specific countries tend to be the worst about this because violence against women for breaking social/religious norms is approved of. In India its more prevalent and certain regions and castes... In South Korea it is heavily the chronically online crowd in the anti-social circles of South Korea.

austin101123 · 2024-12-01T01:27:48+00:00

How could you be a socialist if you're Korean? Did you learn nothing from your own history???

Title	I'm tired of being treated like I'm a sexist, rapist, etc just because I'm Korean
Author	Aspie_Supremacist
Upvotes	308
Comments	99
Date	November 30, 2024 9:10 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/1h38sky/im_tired_of_being_treated_like_im_a_sexist_rapist/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/im-tired-of-being-treated-like-im-a-sexist-rapist.1537267 https://theredarchive.com/post/1537267

Comments