Many men such as myself who may not be ideal mates for modern women are constantly harped on to do "better". Apparently what we already do is never enough. We are told to earn as much as humanly possible then earn some more, we are told to work hard but effortlessly to earn those big bucks.

We are told to work out, get in the best shape of our lives, we need abs, muscle tone and height obviously wouldn't hurt either.

On top of that you have to always look good. Good threads and style to make the board walk blush. Be bearded and clean. Clean and supreme.

But may I ask.....for what do we do all this? For whose approval are we breaking our backs for? Do women and society actually understand how hard it is to put in at least 8 hours or more a day into a job, then another 2 hours at the gym then another however many hours it takes to "better" a man? What exactly are we bettering ourselves for? The average woman has had sexual partners at least in the double digits if not 3 digits. Most don't even know how to get a turkey dinner ready for Thanksgiving should the occasion call for it. And even more are covered in tattoo's that make graffiti infested walls of ghettos look like venetian art.

For what are we doing all this? And why men? Women hardly get the "do better" talk. Even a morbidly obese woman will be told that she's beautiful and get all the praise in the world for "challenging" beauty standards. Yet men, who are unforgivably average must do better even though it would be impossible for the average man to become more in today's punishing economy.

I am just so sick of all the poisonous positivity bullshit that men constantly get. I've said stuff like this on other subs and have been called a "bitch" a "pussy" and even an "incel" all buzzwords spouted by liberals and alt left lunatics who always side with the gynocracy.