What’s your best openers in person and on text

Jay-Ames · 2024-12-29T11:29:12+00:00

"Hi, my name is James. What is your name?"

That's the best one I know.

Feel free to copy it but please use your own name instead of James. That name is taken.

StrikingImportance39 · 2024-12-29T12:12:59+00:00

Best openers are situational openers. But if u want generic ones, I usually start with “hi” then wait for couple of seconds, so that they would focus on me, and deliver a question. I don’t do statements, because they less engaging. Direct questions are better. Also. Don’t show any intent. Nor I say any direct compliment. Like u are cute, nice hair etc. Used to do but u often get burned. Indirect openers are way better.

For groups: “Hi guys, are u local?”

In places where repeat visit possible, such as library, parks, shops, social group. “Hi. I have never seen u before, do u come here often?”

On the street when she is standing. Sitting. Not moving. “Hi. Are u waiting for someone?”

On the street when she was walking and u stopped her. “Hi. Are u from _insert any country_”

If u moved yourself to open her, like physically approached the next sentence should be the reason for your approach.

It depends how I opened, but the idea of the reason is that something sparked your interest so u had to come and say hi. It should sound little bit like a compliment but very indirect.

“U seem intriguing, though will come and say hi” or “U have this Spanish vibe” or “U had this jazzy aura around u” “U had this confident French walk” then I add “Had to check if I was right”

It sets the tone of the interaction. And the whole conversation is just her qualifying to you, that your initial assumption about her was right she is indeed is intriguing, or is confident.

david-lee-roth- · 2024-12-29T19:48:37+00:00

“Hi. I have a shit ton of money and want to spend it on a woman. You down?”

Malimalata · 2024-12-29T22:47:00+00:00

It Genuinely doesnt matter what you say if she is feeling you she will respond positively to pretty much anything that doesnt sound deranged if she isn't sure but open to getting to know you better it will be a friendly response and if she isn't feeling you she will ignore you or respond very coldly

Mall_Remarkable · 2024-12-29T11:04:09+00:00

This is something I wish love to know as welll

Intelligent-Roll-763 · 2024-12-29T20:19:30+00:00

Hi

It's not so much about being impressive with your opener but rather get her to be relaxed and comfortable talking to you.

So look for openers that do that . Something simple that's not weird and that doesn't activate any bad knee jerk reactions.

Electrical-Farm8527 · 2024-12-30T02:48:45+00:00

An observation. My favorite line I used was, “ damn girl you got a phanny pack on? I love phanny packs.” Then, a conversation starts cause the girl wonders why. It could work for numerous other things. “Your wearing Jordan’s in the club? What are you a hooper?” “What are you reading? Have you read x book?” Also, make sure your body language is open so you look more inviting

CALthe1st · 2024-12-30T04:06:57+00:00

I’ve been running with statements, but sorta like signalling that she’s gotta qualify herself -on apps. Irl it’s always a situational but say it’s tinder I’ll use this more often than not (and I found it here) “Please be as interesting as you look” Switch interesting out for intelligent, unique, fun, whatever you want

somethinlikeshieva · 2024-12-30T04:24:14+00:00

Openers is the hardest part for me, I can pretty much move from there

Ryan_the_Scion · 2024-12-30T07:37:05+00:00

When out drinking:

"Hi, how's your evening going?"

MrMetraGnome · 2024-12-29T22:46:20+00:00

Make and break eye contact for a while. Walk up and say:

"Sorry for starring, but you know when you see a work of art that looks better the more you look at it? So, what's this one called?"

Put your phone camera on front-facing and say:

"I'm looking for my GF. She's gorgeous, maybe you've seen her." Then hand her the phone.

Chunkstyle3030 · 2024-12-29T11:17:48+00:00

The best opener is being attractive. In fact, it’s pretty much the only opener that works these days. Sorry.

epimpstyle · 2024-12-29T14:37:16+00:00

In person: Hi, how's it going?

In text: Hi

How you go on from here is a different story.

Title	What’s your best openers in person and on text
Author	Common-Commercial510
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Date	December 29, 2024 10:17 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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