Got muted from Healthygamer for saying women need men

Quinlov · 2025-02-03T19:42:40+00:00

Irrespective of the validity of your argument I will say that that subreddit is very overzealously moderated

BradenAnderson · 2025-02-03T19:16:40+00:00

Not surprising honestly,

To a lot of people, implying that men are valuable human beings in their own right with their own worldly contributions counts as misogyny

Absentrando · 2025-02-04T00:14:43+00:00

Welcome to Reddit my guy. The places that aren’t incredibly biased against men are far and few between

MelissaMiranti · 2025-02-03T20:27:26+00:00

Women need men the same way men need women, and we all need the other gender identities that lie outside those bounds: we're not human if we cut away parts of ourselves.

Local-Willingness784 · 2025-02-03T20:47:59+00:00

im pretty sure you could have just put, lots of women, or most women do, that sub has a huge issue when it comes to gender stuff because lots of people used it to say their stuff about the opposite gender (and yes it was mostly men saying all women are x y and z and women saying no we don't you incel etc you know the pattern).

having said that Dr.K has lots of good insight in a lot of subjects but on dating he didn't knew a lot of stuff when he was in the game and now that he is married and significantly older he knows even less, some of his advice is still applicable but his community is not the most reddit place because is full of dudes with real dating issues, if it was up to mental health related audience all man should just put themselves out there and joing hobbies and be good people and treat women like humans and and and.

follow his YouTube stuff; the "community" is not worth it.

MedBayMan2 · 2025-02-03T21:55:55+00:00

Women need men, men need women. That’s how a healthy society functions.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2025-02-04T03:56:52+00:00

That's stupid!

Bovoduch · 2025-02-03T19:40:06+00:00

I mean, it does sound a bit generalized. Or even that you had good intentions but were not able to immediately word it in a way that didn't sound dismissive or generalizing in a negative way. For example, did you establish a solid reason why you were saying what you said? Did you explain why it isn't meant to be a negative thing for 2-groups to need one another? More often than not, when people say what you say, it *is* meant in a negative way, hence why they were likely to jump on to the "this is a bad comment" train immediately. Additionally, it can sound dismissive of groups when you don't explain what you mean by "need." For example, without explanation, it may sound like you are being exclusionary of LGBT relationships and such.

I actually do like healthygamer to an extent. I am in psych research and have some criticisms of him, but I often agree with him when it comes to pointing out the social-issues X mental-health interaction, particularly when it comes to men's issues. Perfect? Not at all, but not a bad face for the issue.

Sydnaktik · 2025-02-04T09:16:40+00:00

Or they want to stay clear of blackpill ideology because it worsens people's mental health and can re-trigger a bad mind space for people recovering from blackpill ideology.

You should show use the exact comment if you want us to judge whether their response was reasonable.

Former_Range_1730 · 2025-02-03T20:28:27+00:00

That's what non hetero feminists do. They hate on the idea that women need men, and praise the idea that women need women.

duncan-the-wonderdog · 2025-02-03T19:24:50+00:00

>I said that women lie and they do in fact need men, as in for intimacy

So, lesbians and women in same-sex relationships aren't women?

NinjyCoon · 2025-02-06T22:59:53+00:00

If it's skewed towards women I don't think that's Dr. K's fault. He can't personally monitor everything since he's such a busy guy. From what I understand though, the community is meant to be a safe space for everyone and so they like to keep controversial topics out of there. I think it's definitely something that is needed and I can appreciate it for what it is but I do wish there was a separate place for people who want to have harder conversations in a respectful manner.

Sir_Sneezealot · 2025-02-10T23:35:14+00:00

Male incels are more destructive than female ones (atleast currently at this point in time). This is changing but femcels don't go out and actively commit hal@te crime or r&pe or m$rder. Which is one of the reasons why femcels are not moderated as much because just like in comedy it is a punch up for when they say something nasty. Hope this helps. Don't shoot the messenger.

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yungsimba1917 · 2025-02-04T13:44:21+00:00

You generalized a group of people, you got muted for generalizing people. It sounds like it tracks.

Sewblon · 2025-02-03T23:16:00+00:00

I have yet to be moderated on Healthy Gamer. But I only posted there twice and commented once or twice.

Your_Nipples · 2025-02-03T20:01:02+00:00

That's a bold and whack statement.

I know a lot of women who genuinely don't give a flying fuck about men romantically speaking.

I think you lack the awareness to understand what's going on backstage.

Best thing to say is nothing at all. I have anecdotal evidence, you have your personal opinion, we both talk out of our ass.

I see nothing wrong with what happened to you.

2025-02-04T16:58:05+00:00

You're almost there. Once you notice that a lot of the behavior of that moderator, and issues in society, are a result of toxic Femininity you'll be well on your way.

DaddysPrincesss26 · 2025-02-04T07:38:59+00:00

Excuse you? You are most likely part of the Problem, not the solution if you voted for Trump, since Women’s Rights are being taken away. WE DO NOT NEED MEN. PERIOD.

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