How to set up your dating profile if you're just looking for hookups?

activetaway · 2025-02-28T17:52:10+00:00

You gotta be hot for that or at least fit. Shirtless pics are fine then, think about it though. The market is already competitive, but that pales comparison to looking for purely hookups online.

Women looking for hookups on tinder are going to be on board with shirtless pics, but your competition is tremendous because they're primarily looking for the hottest guys.

I will say, if you're not the best looking but you really want to push things, I recommend going to the gym consistently. And for the time being you'll want a professional photo shoot, you'll need pictures that scratch an itch.

Poses that hit a subconscious nerve, like leaning on a door frame, while extremely well dressed, either formal, nerdy, bad boy, something. Like I said a professional shoot, that's the key if you're lacking elsewhere.

Far-Sir1362 · 2025-02-28T17:49:47+00:00

Yeah you're right, if you're only looking for hookups then use shirtless pics.

You have to actually look attractive in them though. If you look like a fat middle aged guy, you won't get matches.

GamerInvestor101 · 2025-02-28T20:30:26+00:00

I put in my bio. "18 holes in one day and I still find time to golf." Worked for me while I had the dating apps.

5thquad · 2025-03-01T04:07:05+00:00

Women say a lot of things they hear other women saying. Most women who say not looking for hookups, are open to hookups with the right person.

Pantherist · 2025-03-01T02:55:57+00:00

Simple. Tell them you're looking for something long-term. Match with them, see how it goes.

Hey, who knows, you might even change your mind! It's not a lie if you're not sure.

But if you come right out the gate saying you don't want a long-term relationship, (indicating that you ARE 100% sure of that) then almost ALL women will say no to you.

Because even the women looking for something shorter/less committed will not admit it since doing so forces them to admit that they ARE 100% sure they want casual sex, which no woman will ever want to admit to if they wish to maintain plausible deniability later, which they'll want to.

BuyHighValueWomanNow · 2025-02-28T20:03:31+00:00

The few matches I do get on dating apps are always with women that are looking for something long-term which is not what I'm looking for.

"Long term" in a dating profile translates to "I want to see how good the dick is".

You aren't going to meet women trying to be transactional unless you are looking for escorts. Unless they are approaching you with offers of hook ups.

Historical-Case9201 · 2025-02-28T18:02:01+00:00

Look like Boyfriend material and be funny

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-02-28T18:22:43+00:00

Basically can’t

liftingnstuff · 2025-02-28T23:43:42+00:00

Have at least one photo showing off a good physique. Design your profile around adventure, fun, and spontaneity. Travel photos, maybe skip the photo with a nephew or niece.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-03T06:37:33+00:00

If you paint an over the top party vibe, others should get the picture.

PleaseDontBeTakenPlz · 2025-02-28T18:39:40+00:00

Look hot. Be hot. Do hot guy things. Say “im here for hookups” in profile. You may only get 1/100 matches but those will be the ones dtf immediately

Re: models by mark Manson and his friend saying to every girl in 1 night “im gonna pee in your butt”. He apparently probably said it to 25-50 girls, but it only takes 1 girl to be receptive.

NoBoys_JustMen_x · 2025-03-01T01:12:29+00:00

Honestly… Most women on apps are looking for something serious, but if you’re after casual fun, just be upfront about it, with no tricks needed. And yes confidence is key, but how you look and present yourself matters too. If you’ve got a great body, show just enough to get her interested. we like to see a little preview before we commit 😉

Title	How to set up your dating profile if you're just looking for hookups?
Author	icxcnika1
Upvotes	32
Comments	27
Date	February 28, 2025 5:40 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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