Would a 10/10 girl lose interest if she sees you give attention to way less attractive girls

yazzooClay · 2025-04-17T00:26:14+00:00

she is probably a 10/10 to you but isn't irl

everydayguy_ · 2025-04-17T00:35:33+00:00

Learn to detach from women and their opinions of you. Whether they’re a smoking 10/10 hottest woman you’ve ever seen or a regular every day woman.

Who care what the 10/10 thinks ? Is that how you want to spend your life? A slave to the fickle and fleeting opinions and validation of women?

Just focus on yourself and being as attractive as you can be, if 10/10 likes it or they don’t like it who fucking cares man. Don’t cater to anybody. Be your most authentic self and develop upon that to be a better man. Do you think a King in the 1200’s would care what woman would think of him and his behaviours ?

Mammoth_Obligation62 · 2025-04-17T02:38:39+00:00

Bro please give it a rest…You are only infatuated with this girl because you think she physically looks good. You don’t even take into account if she’s actually a good person or not. I see you’re going to have to learn the hard way. Everything that looks good, is not always good for you.

ratfooshi · 2025-04-17T00:32:12+00:00

Deep down, your value was actually increased.

Think about it. Why would she be mad if you weren't someone she was interested in?

Your value came from those girls engaging, but not to her at that moment.

Just how people with great power tend to have bigger egos, beautiful women tend to have more insecurities.

They're always wondering if their charm is waning, and you going with the flow with that group drove a big ass nail in her coffin. ⚰️ Lol.

She needed focus superglued to her. But it can be exhausting. It's all up to you.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-04-17T00:05:36+00:00

Just ask her out. If she said yes then she’s definitely interested.

All this noise from your 2 posts made it look like you are observing her as if you’re observing some peculiar behaviors of a creature in the wild. Talk to her, ask her out. Quit guessing and assuming.

BornVictory5160 · 2025-04-16T23:42:03+00:00

Most attractive girls have low self esteem believe it or not🤣insecure.

No-Boysenberry-6685 · 2025-04-16T23:50:19+00:00

In theory, your value shouldn't degrade so long as the girls in question are not below 6/10. You already said they are 7/10 so it's fine.

zooploopgator · 2025-04-17T04:39:28+00:00

Dude… she’s lost interest because it’s hurts your feelings to see the guy you like flirting with other women. Are you for real?

ultratraditionalist · 2025-04-17T05:57:51+00:00

Second post you're making about this girl. Reeks of oneitis and desperation. Detatch, fuck other women, travel, read, work out, literally do anything else but think and post about her.

Plastic_Friendship55 · 2025-04-17T09:14:56+00:00

Sounds more like a 4/10 was interested and a group of 3s were flirting and you got insecure.

Good women don’t play games like that

KumaFGC · 2025-04-17T01:52:27+00:00

I think it depends in the girl. I would sometimes avoid doing it in front of someone I would like to talk to

LiquidLenin · 2025-04-17T08:00:11+00:00

Just BE you. You’ll drive yourself crazy worrying about this kind of thing. Be assertive and unapologetic if you genuinely love your life. If you dont’t, be assertive in your ambitions to change that

becomesharp · 2025-04-17T02:05:47+00:00

No, women don't micromanage social value like that

Ok_Potential359 · 2025-04-16T23:56:23+00:00

Sometimes I see a steak but decide to eat a hot pocket.

Kitchen-Historian371 · 2025-04-17T04:03:36+00:00

Not if you treat them all the same

Sendthatin · 2025-04-17T06:28:47+00:00

Live your truth the real gold is inside

Junior-Impression541 · 2025-04-17T09:08:47+00:00

No just Mog

mmmfritz · 2025-04-17T09:47:55+00:00

Not sure if this relates but I’ve had it multiple times where i am in the middle of talking to girl/friend then low an behold another girl starts talking to me at the same time. It’s quite difficult juggling conversation but sometimes I will say hi but finish off the conversation to the first person, as it’s the right thing to do, but then the other girl I might be really keen on she kinda gets put off. It’s my fault for being to hesitant or not seeing signs, taking to long, if someone else wants to approach me. Kinda need to just be impolite in that instance and spend your attention (currency in their eyes) on them. Fear and ego will make you lose plenty of interactions you could have had and didn’t even recognise.

JackSquirts · 2025-04-17T12:39:57+00:00

If she sees you making out with them, maybe. Flirting, not usually.

InterestingGate7002 · 2025-04-17T15:28:54+00:00

In general I've never heard of women seeing a guy as lower value because he's interacting with less attractive women. If anything that's seen as a plus by women. Really attractive women are insecure about men only being interested in them for their looks. Not saying that it doesn't happen, just seems a bit counterintuitive.

There are other very likely possibilities here. Maybe she lost interest because seeing you flirt with other women gave her fuckboy vibes, maybe she wasn't that interested to begin with, maybe she lost attraction after seeing you from a different angle.

Don't overthink it. Only she knows the exact answer to that question, and you'll drive yourself mad trying to guess. Just don't let it get to you too much and move on.

CharmingRejector · 2025-04-17T15:30:18+00:00

No. The opposite is true. If girls go after you, are entertained by you, and so on, something kicks in which is called pre-selection. Look it up.

If you start making out with another girl in front of her, then don't expect her to be happy lol. Ahem, learned that the hard way...

lemonbeheading · 2025-04-17T20:53:17+00:00

I’ll answer this as a 6/10. When I see a guy I’m talking to flirt with women who are like 3/10s it genuinely makes me not want to talk to him anymore. I figure he views me as the same level of attractiveness as the 3/10s or that he is too thirsty. Now when I see a guy flirt with 8/10 I either feel that he sees me as attractive as them or I feel that I don’t have a chance.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-04-19T03:15:04+00:00

No they’re usually super insecure. But seeing you flirt with other girls in front of her if she’s likes you could make her mad. Depends on the scenario

Title	Would a 10/10 girl lose interest if she sees you give attention to way less attractive girls
Author	BearDouble1566
Upvotes	37
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Date	April 16, 2025 11:33 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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