Most young men lack confidence because they overvalue woman and undervalue themselves, because if you inflate the worth of something external and minimize your own internal value, you naturally become insecure. Just like some men who worship woman on onlyfans because their pretty, mean while he's ignoring the fact he's disciplined, smart, and driven.

Confidence isn't built by looks or money, it's built by knowledge of self-worth. External thing can be taken, lost, or faked. True confidence comes internal truths no one can touch... you need to realize that you are the prize. Valuing a woman more than yourself, especially based on looks, income, education, is backwards. Even a beautiful woman still wants a man who leads and understands himself, Like a key without a lock.

Men fear woman with perceived "higher" value because they don't see their own, so many men who value curves and ass more then their purpose. Physical features like ass, face, or clothes distract you from the truth. True confidence comes from truly knowing your individuality, intelligence, and importance. A man can build self worth from Journaling, reading, and using affirmations.

A man should be able to approach Beyonce or Oprah if he sees her worthy of his time. Nothing she owns or achieves changes the facts that she's not more valuable than you are. Even status doesn't erase feminity or human need. Non of that replaces your role. A woman is still governed by emotions, flaws, and bodily functions. Attraction blind men into believing she doesn't take a shit just like you! No matter how beautiful or successful she is, she has problems just like you.

Lastly, rejection is part of the game, even if a woman rejects you that is not failure. You need to focus on who wants you, you're trying to break into locked doors while open ones beg you to enter. A man get's to "yes" by passing through many "no's". Also, each time you get rejected it levels up your communication and confidence, It builds emotional endurance and resilience. It's just mathematical percentages, talk to 10, 1 may say yes. Approach her with boldness now, she's a human just like you brother. Woman really appreciate confident men.