Lot of modern women know deep down that they're not ready for marriage, but they go through with it anyway. For wedding, the attention, the illusion of having it all, then when reality kicks in, when man stop catering to her emotional roller coasters or doesn't play the part she scripted in her head, suddenly he's villain, but nobody forces her to say: "I do," nobody lie to her, she did that on her own and let's not ignore this. The same women who claim their husband wasn't emotionally supportive are often the same ones who never made space for man's emotions in the first place. Support has to go both ways, but when it's always about her feelings, her moods, her needs. What room does that leave for man to be himself ? Marriage is a commitment, not therapy session, if you needed healing you should gone to counselor, not the altar.