What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you?

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Severe-Doughnut4065 · 2025-11-30T22:18:57+00:00

If you aren’t rich this is dumb bro

Nigelthornfruit · 2025-11-30T22:13:10+00:00

Like an Arab prince

great_account · 2025-11-30T23:52:12+00:00

I wouldn't pay for a woman's flight if we hadn't slept together yet.

Desire to have sex isn't pre-meditated. It's something that is decided in the moment. If you pay for a flight expecting sex, you could tend to put pressure on the interaction which is unattractive and could dry her pussy up. Don't spend money on a woman unless you're sure you're ok losing it without anything in return.

This is just good life advice: DON'T SPEND MONEY ON A WOMAN UNLESS YOU'RE SURE YOU'RE OK LOSING IT WITHOUT ANYTHING IN RETURN.

speak_truth__ · 2025-11-30T22:30:33+00:00

You only do this with girls u already know are down who have been with before bro

Newtabs9 · 2025-11-30T22:54:23+00:00

StepGeneral3597 · 2025-12-01T00:01:20+00:00

Genuinely, why would you do this?

Sure-Wish3240 · 2025-11-30T22:25:48+00:00

Greetings. When a lady trust me enough to give me her personal data so that i can book her a flight to visit my town, odds are she has already set her mind into having intimacy with me. This observation applies to vanilla dating, sugar dating and scorting deals. Women are scared of giving personal data and even more scared to fly to another town to meet a man for the First time. If you managed to break these walls If safety, assume she desires you as much as you desire her.

About money : value is in the eyes of the beholder. Price is set by the market. I only fly in women whose value Far exceeds the travel costs.

Endlessly_ · 2025-12-01T07:26:49+00:00

I’ve done it once. Didn’t pay for her full ticket, just the rescheduling fee to move her layover to my city.

We had previously been on one date before and it ended up with her wanting to have sex but being waaay too drunk for me to feel comfortable about it, especially considering I’d known her for less than 24 hours at the time.

We texted the morning after and she seemed confused/disappointed I didn’t spend the night so next time she was nearby I figured I’d shoot my shot again.

jsbach123 · 2025-12-01T11:50:59+00:00

That sounds like prostitution.

COYS26 · 2025-11-30T23:16:04+00:00

You only do this with women whom are deeply attracted to you (whether it’s genuine, status, looks, money ect) and most importantly if you have already slept with before. I did this last summer with a chick I met at some islands from a previous vacation. I was straight forward (after catching up on life & regular convo) that we were gonna have a lot of fun & playfully said she can be my gf for the next 2 weeks at our meetup destination. She was hot & the best part is like within the first hour I linked up with her again we had a crazy 45 min Mac & cheese sounds session 😂 I know it was stupid on my part (despite me verifying she was on birth control) but those 2 weeks were just pure passionate unprotected sex & doing things that only a bf would be allowed to do. Except I did it all in 2 weeks. So yeah only do this if the girl is deeply invested in you. You will be able to lead what activities you can do during the day & night but also give her a chance to pick too. That way she’s fully comfortable around you and not hesitating especially if you guys don’t live in the same country, city ect. Otherwise, you’re gonna resent her and not have a great time on your meetup after blowing your hard earned money.

Trip_seize · 2025-12-01T06:11:16+00:00

I don't always traffic women but when I do...

2025-11-30T23:33:33+00:00

I’ve had women fly me out before that was fun

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-12-01T00:33:50+00:00

The really smooth ones own and pilot their own aircraft and fly out to her and pick her up himself. But you'd have to be pretty wealthy. Guys that rich can easily find a local woman.

ASG77 · 2025-12-01T11:13:35+00:00

Low value behaviour

Samphilbags · 2025-12-01T07:37:55+00:00

Do NOT do it. She has to invest, too. Make her cover her flight & you cover the rest: dates, lodging, etc.

She has to have skin in the game.

basafo · 2025-11-30T22:48:07+00:00

If you have a cool enough plan B, like for example visiting cities or any cool place, why not.

You can also use apps or go out there the left days too. :)

Without a great enough plan B, I wouldn't.

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-12-01T15:33:55+00:00

Isn't this the plot of the Netflix documentary "The Tinder Swindler"

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-12-01T15:53:37+00:00

I've done it once with a woman I hadn't yet slept with but we sexted and had video sex a couple times before. She was basically my sex toy the whole trip.

My point is to make the expectations very clear it's going to go down. Don't just do it for a normal first date.

Solarhistorico · 2025-12-01T16:32:21+00:00

with a prostitute you always discuss things in advance...

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-12-02T03:46:52+00:00

Don’t do it it’s dumb. You’re setting a frame that the woman is the prize and women are dumb and shouldn’t be the prize.

Alarmed_Box1198 · 2025-12-02T03:52:48+00:00

Flying who out? Some broad on the internet? No way buddy.

Title	What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you?
Author	Dry-Set-6761
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Date	November 30, 2025 10:08 PM UTC (7 months ago)
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