I've noticed a very disheartening pattern... The differentiator between actually going on the date and getting ghosted seems to largely depend on ethnicity. To put simply, if the girl is white and US-born, they're not going on the date. No matter what I do, no matter what I say, for the most part it's not happening. Problem is, I'm in a city that is white dominant and barely has attractive Asian or hispanic women. That means very low volume for me.

So for the Asian men in this sub who have encountered what I'm dealing with but managed to push through, what was the solution? What was the white woman strategy? Because my profile is already extremely optimized, according to many people in the dating space.

I am happy to send both my profile and texting archive through dm. Just send me a request.