Stop autistically analysing every interaction with mathematical precision.

BurnItDownSR · 2026-06-15T15:36:24+00:00

Nah. As long as someone isn't hesitating to actually talk to women frequently and consistently, it's totally fine to get the opinions of others and try to understand social situations better.

It's only a problem when analysis causes inaction.

Also, action without feedback, reflection, and further education will still let you lose a ton of time.

We all know that if a socially awkward guy or a desperate guy does and says things he feels in the moment, he will get rejected.

And that's good if he takes that, tries to understand it better, learns from that, and keeps refining his interactions over time.

It's bad if he keeps doing whatever he feels like willy nilly for no other reason other than because he feels like it.

There are a lot of guys here whose instincts are telling them right now to beg a girl to come hang out with them.

becomesharp · 2026-06-16T05:44:33+00:00

This is exactly what naturals believe because it works for naturals.

But it doesn't work for synthetics / non-naturals.

Imagine telling a guy who is brand new to basketball, "Stop trying to improve at shooting free throws, or practicing dribbling, or working on your jump shot. That's all nonsense. Just believe in yourself and be confident, and the ball will go in"

Klutzy-Painting885 · 2026-06-15T15:12:25+00:00

Sometimes they were just never going to like you

basafo · 2026-06-15T15:19:59+00:00

I agree with this post to a degree of 62.5%.

Apathetic-Onion · 2026-06-16T00:32:07+00:00

Autism isn't a switch I can turn down. I need to analyse social situations in order to artificially learn how to swim in that unfamiliar water. I will try to get as much help as possible until I reach a good position.

Basically nothing of what I could've said would've made them like me, but sometime in the future I will find someone who will like me and I won't need to rack my brains thinking what to say because it'll happen organically and I'll also make moves.

No-Buy-3105 · 2026-06-15T15:49:26+00:00

Isn’t that what pickup is all about?

Gur_Party · 2026-06-16T10:15:52+00:00

I’m a 23M with autism (Level 1) and my mind works exactly like this. That’s why I was so good at Math in school. I think everything had a formula even getting girls. Life humbled me quick. I don’t even speak to girls I like cause of my overthinking and autism. It sucks. So much isolation over many years has lead me to stay in my mind. And now I maladaptive daydream all day everyday. On what I want to say and how I want the scenario to go. Cause in my head, everything goes my way and there’s no rejection.

onemanslifemission · 2026-06-16T12:19:18+00:00

Does this mean he's pulling more girls 🤔🤔🤔

South-Excitement1720 · 2026-06-16T12:27:58+00:00

Theres a balance to be had.

Yeah going in on blind luck, works perfectly for naturals.

For others yeah, they may be clueless and need a basic "structure" or have a few glaring issues that are obvious to everyone except them.

However.... as per OP, there is no need to over analyse or read too much theory.

Hell just take a basic structure, and practice, practice, practice. Leave the theory alone at that point, you have the structure.

Pristineonk · 2026-06-15T17:21:28+00:00

yeah, it's all been very overcomplicated.

Really, everything works on the girls who are attracted to you (within reason) and no magic techniques (which come out at sentences) will of course make her attracted lol

If a you approach a girl and she is very cold and very clearly not interested, saying 'better' words would 100% not have resulted in sex with that girl lol

vardarac · 2026-06-15T15:22:37+00:00

Just do and say the things you feel in the moment.

Yeah but my instincts are bad. If I'm overreading because I'm autistic, I'm probably also saying some nonsensical offhand remark because I'm autistic, or anxious, or both.

Title	Stop autistically analysing every interaction with mathematical precision.
Author	wilhelmtherealm
Upvotes	64
Comments	35
Date	June 15, 2026 3:03 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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