How can I fall in love with someone while still having feelings for a woman I was with for 20 years. Im seeing someone and she is amazing. All the things she does are things I begged of my wife without even asking. She doesnt know the details of my previous marriage. I want to give my all to this new woman in my life. But the love I have for my ex wife is not the love someone would have for a lover its the fact she is the mother of my kids. We only talk about our kids nothing more nothing less.