Hi All,

Need your advice. I'm 39 and my wife is 34. We have been married for 7 years. We delayed kids because of her career and had planned to have kids in a year or 2. I have been trying to support her career by taking care of the house and finances and told her to focus only on her career

We have had family fights in the past in which she feels I supported the family instead of her. No family fight in last 4 years. And I told her that her is my priority in life and nothing else matters.However we fought with each other occasionally once or twice a year due to various factors including work stress. She has had a lot trauma growing up and our fights have made her bring back all these memories.

Now She says that she has suffered a lot in the marriage and has reached a point where she cannot continue and decided to separate and move out 2 months ago.

We get along well and still love each other (at least I do)

She is refusing couples therapy saying she has made up her mind. Being alone makes her better at work.

She has unfollowed me on insta and fb and removed marriage status.

I'm the one trying for us to come back / try couples counseling but with no success.

Do you think I should just move on or still give it a try ? What if she does this again in future with or without kids ?