For example, locking up the thermostat in an office, forcing the women to wear layers of cardigans and sweaters because it’s set at 59 degrees and the males can’t accept that their alcohol withdrawals and giant midsections are to blame.

Years ago an LV ex yelled at me to keep the thermostat down. He’d corner me and scream, sometimes punching the wall if I even went near it. To the point where I’d be wearing layers of clothing, crying because the house was literally windy with freezing air and I had chicken skin 24/7.

Why do they get to be super hot, yet us being cold is literally a crime worthy of punishment and shame. If he makes jokes about you being cold; if he checks the thermostat immediately after you so much we glance at it; if he sneers at you for moving the car AC vents in other directions because it’s 60 degrees out and he’s blasting icy cold wind right in your face- sis, throw the entire male in the trash 🚮