PSA: don't let her get stupid drunk

redpillschool · 2014-08-20T14:18:42+00:00

Take all the irresponsibility and annoyingness of a woman and multiply it by one hundred when she gets drunk. Avoid that scenario at all costs. I've had women publicly try to start fights that they left me to try to finish, I've had women get pushy about sex (and then angry/violent when I didn't comply), and I've had women try to make a public scene when they didn't get their way (even when we weren't in public, she would go outside and start yelling to get attention).

Fzed600 · 2014-08-20T09:52:51+00:00

As its been stated, treat women like children.

sonicdrumm80 · 2014-08-20T09:54:02+00:00

So essentially you're saying that despite everything Feminists have said, women are just legal aged children. Sounds about right, few have any sort of responsible attitude, its just easier to blame on someone else.

prodigyx · 2014-08-20T15:55:31+00:00

Some girls suck at drinking. You need to be able to recognize early this and limit the alcohol consumption. They are children.

Also you can just put her on her side so she doesn't choke on her own puke. I have dealt with a lot of very very drunk people. That whole choking on your own vomit thing is mostly a myth. A person would have to be borderline alcohol poisoning or have a long history of alcohol abuse for that to even be a possibility.

Honestly you made a big deal about a situation that could have been much worse. She got drunk, was a little violent, and passed out. I've had my nose broken by a blackout chick headbutting me. I've had drunk girls take off all their clothes, beg to be tied up, and then try to leave and drive home(naked) when I refused. I had one blackout girl who when I went to the bathroom, I overheard her call her boyfriend, tell him that she was going to fuck me. I've had girls try to jump out of a moving car when I told them we aren't going to another bar. One drunk college girl fell out of the top bunk right after we finished. She landed flat on the hardwood floor face first. I thought she was dead. I saw a pool of blood form under her head and I thought: this is it. I am done. There is a naked dead girl covered in my semen laying on the floor. I'm going to jail. Turns out she was okay, a broken nose and a concussion. I refuse to bang in lofted beds now.

trudatness · 2014-08-20T14:20:02+00:00

Crazy how all the agency of that situation falls on the man - and even though he is doing everything correct, he's still sweating out a harmful outcome.

Welcome to the contemporary world we live in.

colombia40 · 2014-08-20T16:12:49+00:00

My thinking is if she hits you, yells at you, emasculates you while drunk she wants to do all that shit when she is sober.

I3luee · 2014-08-20T10:16:32+00:00

I think that you care. I personally wouldn't care. I would've fucked her and had fun. (both of you wanted it)

Hang around 1H more after the sex in which you give her water and a lot of glucose (glucose which is basically anything sugar-based is a drunkenness killer). Leave graciously: "I'm tired" / "I have business to attend to in the morning"

Second day comes, wait until 10-12 (depending on the hour she went to sleep), text her "hey, was a nice night kinda tiring and too much booze but I thought it was fun. I have some stuff to solve in town during the next few days but it would be fun to meet up again sometime after".

If she'd decide to accuse you of anything then I'd be "lol. Really? You actually believe what you're saying? Get ahold of yourself :))." If she'd push on and be serious, I'd just dismiss whatever she says: "Ok, believe and do what you want."

I personally never was accused of such a thing but trust me I wouldn't even step inside a courthouse without a medical examination that proves that she has internal tears inside her vagina proving that it was rape; aka sex without consent; aka FORCEFULLY fucking someone.

To be mentioned that I'm from Europe and here fake rape allegations are punished. Women don't get bored and randomly accuse men of rape here.

projectself · 2014-08-20T14:11:27+00:00

why do you give a shit if her parents are out of town or not? this reads like you are in high school but you say you have been fighting MMA for 5 years?

why are you making her problems your problems? More importantly, why are you assuming the worst possible case scenario in your head and reacting from fear based on it? she drank vodka, I better keep watch so she doesn't choke on vomit.. better record her so blahh blahh..

Moral of the story: if you're a man, don't be alone with a girl who can do something stupid

strong disagree.

moral of the story, don't let a girls problems be your problems.

furyoffive · 2014-08-20T14:46:08+00:00

how are you fucked if her parents find her with you? Are you brother and sister? How old are you both?

HalfPastTuna · 2014-08-20T12:20:58+00:00

I think you need to calm down. Drunk bitches gonna act a fool

A_Cake_Called_Irony · 2014-08-20T17:18:03+00:00

My first question here is, are you of legal drinking age? This is the blaring question in my mind, as you seem to be really worried about the parents coming home or it being surmised that she's hungover the following morning.

Bottom line here, is you are not responsible for her decisions. Thinking you are is an incorrect line of thinking, and has ended you up in the situation you are currently in, whether you're legal drinking age or not.

but my mistake was letting her drink herself stupid without intervening.

Your mistake was not leaving when you realized this was happening. Yes, there are plenty of cases of drunk girls claiming "rape" when they black out, it's a feminist hot button topic. You had already made the decision you weren't going to sleep with her for that reason. The proper course of action when you realized she was going to bottom out drinking would have been to leave. No reason given, just leave. Meet up with some friends, go to a bar or club, enjoy yourself. You're not her father, it's not your job to put her to bed because she made bad decisions. She has now wasted your time without providing anything of an equivalent nature to replace doing what you wanted to do during the time you were playing nursemaid.

TL;DR She is not your child, you are not responsible for her decisions. If she's getting too drunk to have "consensual" sex (which would be the purpose of a plate), stop wasting your time and go do something of value to you.

uselessadvantage · 2014-08-20T08:17:13+00:00

Its a good reminder. Alcohol like everything else in moderation. especially if you plan to spend the night alone with a plate. you have to be responsible for both of your actions. You can believe that they will make the right decisions and trust in there better judgement, but personally i have found it very unreliable. never got myself in a situation quite like this though. so thanks for the "sobering" story. and good work protecting yourself. even minimal is better then nothing. Good luck with the rest of the night. Hopefully nothing will come of this but either way a good lesson.

Zanford · 2014-08-20T17:43:22+00:00

Thanks for this PSA. You played it very well, by recording and by not penetrating her. (Although I might have let her blow me, to get her to calm down. In my experience most chicks won't press for sex when they know you've just blown your load.)

That said, you should have been less worried in this situation:

Girls will smell your fear and mirror your emotions. If she senses you think something is wrong, she will decide something is wrong, and a FRA becomes more likely.
Guys hook up with drunk plates all the time. Yeah theoretically she could send you to prison but it's extremely unlikely if she's already a fuckbuddy. (And she could do this even if you didn't fuck her, since it's he said she said, and unless she gets a medical inspection the next morning, no one can prove which nights you fucked her and which you didn't.)

2014-08-20T19:40:21+00:00

Yeah....no shit. Letting a woman get shitfaced drunk opens yourself up to all sorts of nonsense and drama. As somebody already asked, how old are you, dude?

LasherDeviance · 2014-08-20T20:47:18+00:00

I think that this is something that depends on the woman. I've been with women who turn into violent assholes after 2 shots, I've known women who become crying, blathering fools, and I've known women who drink like I drink and can handle their liquor better than I can.

I think that if you are planning on/working towards LTR's with a woman, these are things that you have to test out.

If a woman says that she doesn't drink at all, she's either boring and has some insecurity, like an alcoholic dad, and will treat every beer you drink as if you are becoming a raging drunk. Or either, she becomes a slut when she's drunk, and she has become self aware of it and is trying to hide it from you.

Also, I think that it is a matter of age and maturity. We know that they are teenagers mentally, but some teens mature faster and more than others.

If you are 35, and she's 27, and she gets torn out of the frame drunk in public, that shows that even though she should be fairly mature, and have some sort of education, (since they handout Bachelor degrees to women like toilet paper), and she's close to the wall, you should dump that broad immediately.

Don't get me wrong, I like getting wasted with my main dish and fucking each others brains out, but I think that if drinking is a thing for you, you need to vet the women you drink with.

HeadingRed · 2014-08-21T02:42:30+00:00

Well played, well done. An example of "abundance mentality" saving your life. A guy whose doing awful in the dating game might not have done that- and ended up in a boatload of drama.

swampy666 · 2014-08-21T08:28:29+00:00

If you read my comment properly, it was my bf himself who said he thinks we were spiked. I'm not blaming anything but myself, as I have no memory of that night. I've only been able to go on what he told me had happened.

iopq · 2014-08-20T12:12:33+00:00

Happened to me once. Didn't get laid, had to stay up while she was passed out so she could tell me where her damn house was. Fucking waste of time, effort, and she wasn't even that hot. But I was thinking "red flags, red flags everywhere, don't make her your girlfriend, she has an alcohol problem"

so at least I dodged that bullet

H3lius · 2014-08-20T21:46:47+00:00

My girlfriend found out I don't drink. She started to stop but not entirely. She gets drunk one night and tells me about it. I tell her I find that extremely unattractive, and then changed the subject like it was and wasn't a big deal. She hasn't even had a glass of wine since. All of you dudes should be high value if you want to have this kind of influence without having to do any sort of over controlling crap. The girl will change for you simply because you're super high value and she doesn't want to lose you.

swampy666 · 2014-08-20T17:38:44+00:00

Not all women are like this. Most are, but a select few differ. There was one time when I was apparently drunk I attacked my bf, but he told me he thinks both of our drinks were spiked cuz we were both out of character. Every other time, I've been a lot more drunk than that, and all I ever want to do is go home, get to bed and go to sleep. I've never been proud of attacking him, and always feel guilty about it, and so I should. He stayed with me anyway, and things are amazing now. Never loved anyone as much as we love each other. Anyways, whenever either of us get drunk, we tell each other when we've had enough and want to go home. If only more women would say when they've had enough and just want to go home then they wouldn't have to he treated like children (for the most part anyway).

Title	PSA: don't let her get stupid drunk
Author	a_nus
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Date	August 20, 2014 6:54 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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