FHA-KING STUPID!!!!!! Yup thats the best way describe my actions at that moment. I do this on my phone and couldn't figure out how to post the link to my previous post or I would have. Long story short wife has history of texting/flirting with other guys. Called her on it before bla bla. I think she may be doing it again. I also figure where there's smoke there's fire so if she's flirting via text social media she is probably doing a bunch of other shit. Any way I've moved passed trying to catch her and just focusing on doing my own thing. waisted shit ton of time snooping in her phone really for nothing.

I gotta admit she has a few orbiters and ya it gets to me sometimes. But it motivates me to up my game and flirt way more. Which has also been fun.

I have now discovered the joys of not giving a fuck and the value of STFU. I've been staying focused on doing my own thing. I've hit the side bar pretty hard Added cardio to my work outs and continue to read. Really trying to wrap my head around frame and leading and applying dread game. This has led me being waaaay more comfortable, relaxed and happy. My blood pressure has literally fucking dropped. Now she is starting to change. But that's a whole other post. Lots of shit tests random up and down behaviors/moods. Definitely more sex. she's been kinda all over the place. But all in all I can feel shit changing with me her and our marriage. So the moral of the story is WORRY LESS ABOUT DUMB SHIT AND WORRY MORE ABOUT BEING THE BEST YOU CAN BE!

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