After that great thread that was posted the other day for the new people here, i read the Success Stories, and it was a real eye opener. I realised I've been pretty Rambo for a year now. I've been silent with my wife. Giving one word responses. Hardly listening to her. Giving orders. I've been a bit of a cunt tbh.
She's a pain in my ass but I'm now seeing it's because of me. How do i transition out of this. I don't feel like being all luvvy with her, but i do want a better marriage. I feel like i need to start this all over again.
In the success stories they all started out like this, except they all had women on pedestals, i never have. I haven't initiated sex with her in years. It's not more sex I want, it's a happier marriage and a happier environment.
I suppose this post is more of a vent to release what I've just learned. It's like I've taken the pill for a second time, i just don't know how to put it into action.
Self employed tiler
Lifting. Jiu-jitsu 4 nights a week