Update from yesterday's story. Wife went to bed angry last night because i told her I'm going to get a gym membership if the in laws don't move out in a month. Equipment is expensive and I'd rather put the money towards that rather than a year long membership contact. I have been putting together a home gym but have put it on pause since i don't trust my nephew with the equipment.

Anyway, fast forward to this morning and I start taking to my wife. She is getting upset saying that she doesn't feel like i care about her feelings. I tell her of course i care about your feelings. She says "you don't support me" and i stopped her right there, i calmy but firmly said "you do not decide if I'm supporting you, i am the only judge of myself and my actions" then she said that was ridiculous, everyone judges people everyday so i said "in order for them to be a judge they must be able to make an impact on my life, i don't  care what those people think. I care about you and your feelings and i support you, that's why I'm here having this conversation." "Well how long will this seriousness last?" "I don't know, until you do something funny?" Then she told me to get out of the bathroom. I stood there quietly, then simply said "okay" i tried to give her a hug goodbye (a mistake, i know. She just looked so miserable) she pushed me away so i said "alright" and then left. She slammed the door hard, and i could hear her crying, then she screamed. I mean she screeaamed. I had never seen her like this. There were no words, no direction, just a growl to a high scream. I didn't talk to her until i left. All i said was "I'm heading to work, enjoy breakfast with your family, I love you"

She hasn't texted and I'm in complete unknown territory. Did i go to far? Did I Rambo it? What did i do right? What did i do wrong? What should i have done and when?