30 sec version, wife got fat, my fault, we used to be skinny and I let myself go and she followed. I got myself on a diet and in the gym, wife joined. She's doing well with some cheating here and there on it. We're in Disney world, a girl skinny and cute is in line in front of us. Girls giving me IOIs wife obviously takes notice... a few moments later gets close and intimate and looks me in the eyes and asks if she looks better than her. I freeze thinking hmm I don't wanna be like no baby your fine and built comfort with her current state which isn't what it could be, she's prob 5-10% over ideal bf. I also don't wanna blow her out by saying no this girl looks better and demoralize her progress on dieting.
I say simply yes babe you look great and kiss her forehead. She smiles and a moment later puts her ads against me in line standing close and moving back and forth a little to get me turned on.
I'm thinking this was successful, but I'm curious for MRP perspectives.
Specifically how do you keep competition anxiety without demoralizing progress toward being the girl I want her to be? Did I accomplish this well or was there better ways to do it?
Edit: replaced Blew up with got fat because we used to be skinny and I let myself go and she followed