MRP heresy follows. My wife is a hardcore alpha female. She’s not a feminist, but she has strong values and speaks her mind. She’s also highly intelligent and responds to logic (eventually). But she still is a female and AWALT.

Anyway, I want to thank her. She may not be my wife two years from now (despite my impatience, BPP, I’m taking it slow) but she unknowingly pushed me to MRP. She’s been doing this subconsciously for many years. I didn’t listen. When she said “I need more help around the house” she meant “I need you to lead the household.” I didn’t listen.

Hit rock bottom last May. The previous September, I decided to give her exactly what I thought she said she wanted: A beta male bitch who took care of all the menial household chores. This in addition to 60-80 hours at work. Crazy thing happened: she lost all respect for and started to despise me. By May, I had destroyed all attraction and knew she despised me.

This was when I thought women were like men and could honestly say what they want. Not true. Shocker!!!

I discovered NMMNG first. Then read the rest of the sidebar before I knew there was a Reddit sidebar. Found you guys a few weeks ago. I was alone in the wilderness until I learned that there are many like me. Learned more practical information from your posts than from the books. Thank you.

So, here’s my askMRP question. My wife’s feminine imperative pushed me to Married Red Pill; doesn’t that mean that by pushing me to rediscover my own frame, that I am submitting to her? In other words, am I doing what she has wanted me to do for so many years—be a Man?