Long time lurker here…Been reading the sidebar, lifting and doing other general manly shit, for at least a solid 4-6 weeks. Tying to not go Rambo here, so I am looking for some advice.
Tomorrow my wife and I celebrate our 13-year anniversary, and I am trying to figure out what we should do to celebrate.
I had been hoping that she would handle everything, but here we are Thursday afternoon and nothing has been communicated. So here is what I am thinking.
I am going to try and schedule some sex and maybe even a BJ for Saturday night around 9:00pm after the kids go to bed. I plan to avoid her completely during the day so when I finally cold approach her right before bed, she will more than likely be ready to go down. She should be fully rested, and since I have not touched her all day, be craving at the thought of my cold, strong hands finally touching her.
One question I have, is should we do dinner and a movie first – before the scheduled sex, or is that to beta bux? Should I get the sex/bj before I pay for dinner and a movie or what do the real Alphas around here think?
Should I try and go all out and get a baby sitter, so IF we do the dinner and movie date first, before the scheduled sex, that we are alone for a few hours – or is this TO alpha? I sure don’t want to scare her away with manliness.
I could really use some help here guys, this is way outside of my comfort zone. I just want my yearly duty sex and BJ.