Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..

TheRedPike · 2019-04-27T03:43:14+00:00

Police. It's an actionable threat. Don't play games.

Meanwhile, I'm done with the race baiting and well some wierd shit in the thread, so it's getting shut down. I think you got enough feedback.

forsaken_in_the_dark · 2019-04-26T16:48:20+00:00

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effyouasshole · 2019-04-26T16:27:46+00:00

Since she explicitly told you over text that she will kill you, yes... report her to the police immediately. Request a restraining order.

I responded to all of this saying “ok”

No. Hard next. Ghost her completely.

If you run into her again, remove yourself from the situation immediately, and tell the police that she's violating her restraining order.

alsuqyadiq · 2019-04-26T17:53:48+00:00

“We was” x2

“Bruh”

M8 you played yourself before all this, got dam

johnnynix18 · 2019-04-26T19:58:42+00:00

Taking plates out to breakfast.......lol

Metalgear222 · 2019-04-26T16:40:50+00:00

Screenshot. Police. Now.

RedSkeller · 2019-04-26T16:35:27+00:00

Ignore it or report it to the police. Send them the screen shots if you're concerned for her safety so they can pink slip her and get her to a hospital for evaluation. Stop fucking her immediately and cut all contact.

Rage8150 · 2019-04-26T19:36:05+00:00

Bro I love crazy chicks. Can I get her #?

okuli · 2019-04-26T17:33:28+00:00

"people only wanna fuck me... I don't fucking get it"

Somebody should tell her that if nobody wants to upgrade her from plate, it means she's not LTR or GF material.

NightTripInsights · 2019-04-26T18:16:06+00:00

With shit like this you gotta call the bluff, either by complete ghosting and watching your back maybe with a restraining order or getting police/mental health services involved.

Trphello · 2019-04-26T17:05:05+00:00

Lol from the texts, she's black

FREECRACK6 · 2019-04-26T16:34:05+00:00

I would have sent an emoji, but “K.” Is legendary too

peaceful_strong_man · 2019-04-26T16:03:09+00:00

Report it. Even if it’s a bluff, it will teach her a lesson. No doubt her excuse will be muh emotions
This is why fornication doesn’t work

victimization · 2019-04-26T17:17:00+00:00

She is bluffing and she is not your responsibility. Give the numbers to the Suicide hotline and then hard next.

zxcvb7809 · 2019-04-26T17:18:22+00:00

1) Get in text or writing that you never beat, sexually assaulted or raped her.

2) Whether or not she knew where I lived I would file a police report.

3) I would ghost her and move out of the city/town/state as soon as I could.

4) Once police report was filed I would get a restraining order. (1 to show you felt unsafe, 2 because you are showing her mental instability and 3 to cover your back side.)

NeedRealityShock · 2019-04-26T18:11:19+00:00

Calm the fuck down, she won't kill you, just ignore her.

(Don't sleep with her. DON'T. FALL. ASLEEP.)

frootloopzs · 2019-04-26T19:27:54+00:00

Yes go to the police but this is also a learning experience. Always be 100% clear with your intentions.

NightwingTRP · 2019-04-26T18:05:44+00:00

What was that about not sticking your dick in crazy?

menial_optimist · 2019-04-26T16:06:24+00:00

It sounds like you didn't do your due diligence and make sure she indirectly understood she was a plate. This sounds like a nuclear shit test to garner your commitment. You're kind of coming off as a total dick, too, I feel like you could have responded in a better way. They say all plates break eventually.

I wouldn't worry too much about the kill part, she's probably just spewing from heightened emotions, though I don't know her. I mean if you're both south AMerican, I'd be getting a gun for defense asap, those bitches are fucked.

Your text responses just come off like you're a psychopathic robot. Could have just said "I understand. I enjoyed having fun with you, and I'm not really interested in a serious relationship at the moment. Best of luck to you" or something.

tacopower20 · 2019-04-26T20:34:56+00:00

Report her to the police. But dude she says “we was” is this really a surprise

Bone_Coat · 2019-04-26T20:36:56+00:00

Go to the police and run

blendedsplendid · 2019-04-26T17:50:04+00:00

Gonna go against the grain here and say don't report anything. She's already proven herself to be a complete fucking nutcase, and most of the #metoo false rape allegations seem to be coming from the crazies

Aptote · 2019-04-26T16:16:06+00:00

the results of doing it incorrectly

you have to be truthful, from the beginning and all the way through when you deal with people.

BurntYams · 2019-04-26T18:21:47+00:00

lmao, OP will never post again, F

BluntMFer · 2019-04-26T18:32:57+00:00

That’s why you don’t stick your dick in crazy.

ZR1987 · 2019-04-26T18:14:38+00:00

Lock your doors up at night.... Good luck with this one.

TheGoblinTurkey · 2019-04-26T18:40:05+00:00

Go on YouTube and listen to 'run to the hills' by iron maiden, great song.

communistcontrolact · 2019-04-26T19:15:13+00:00

Well technically she never made a threat. She told you her dream

nexther · 2019-04-26T19:16:26+00:00

She’s said she will kill you. You could take that to the police immediately. If you don’t want to do that because you feel she’s not serious, just don’t ever contact her again in any way. Up to you, you know her better than any of us...

Ivabighairy1 · 2019-04-26T20:14:05+00:00

Tell her to aim for her ego and she won’t miss

[deleted] · 2019-04-26T20:47:29+00:00

She's a real life yandere, anyways I had a similar Situation once where a girl asked me to do a suicide pact and I ignored her and removed her from my life I suggest you do the same. No amount of sex is worth dying over

[deleted] · 2019-04-26T21:53:23+00:00

Agree and Amplify jk RUNNNN !

Slut_Slayer9000 · 2019-04-26T21:58:59+00:00

She is crazy but hear me out. WE ARE MAKING THE WORLD A WORSE MORE FUCKED UP PLACE BY FUCKING WITH THESE BITCHES HEADS. If you just wanna fuck, let her know that in the beginning. Don't string them along as they are people too just like us regardless of what some of the incels try to tell you on here. I live by the policy to leave them better then I found them. How do you do this? Be a genuine cool guy who knows how to lay the pipe. And let her know this is what you are interested in being friends and thats it. This is how I keep a lot of my plates that eventually just turn into friends that hit me up to fuck once every few weeks - months. But if you fuck girls under the guise that you are going to be their boyfriend they will get mad crazy and it will fuck up their mental health and contribute to the shit hole society we have to deal with today. Anyone who is against what I'm saying clearly hasn't experienced abundance and fucked lots of girls.

Jussie_Mullet · 2019-04-26T21:59:02+00:00

Omg this is awesome

Hamster hamster hamster

Boy Drama Boy Drama Boy drama

Oooh. Call the police

Nxgga please

oron17 · 2019-04-26T22:04:52+00:00

Lol shes stupid af I'm surprised she didn't hit you with a good old pregnancy.

garrypig · 2019-04-26T22:11:03+00:00

Wife her if you wanna live, gotta do it.

Also she’s going to: - Claim rape - Tell you she’s pregnant - Try to kill you again

So be prepared

[deleted] · 2019-04-26T22:28:19+00:00

My gf used to text me stuff like this when I had her plated. Not extreme shit like killing me and herself but she’d be so pissed off that I ghosted her. Now she’s my gf and probably the best girl I could ask for.

Maybe give that girl a chance? Who knows 🤷🏽‍♂️

What I’m getting at is there a lot of 16 year old kids in this sub commenting telling you to ghost her. You might be miss out and a down chick.

mushroom_overlord · 2019-04-26T22:30:14+00:00

Uh yeah? Report to cops, obtain restraining order, stay safe at home, etc

mrrooftops · 2019-04-26T22:32:34+00:00

Unboundaries · 2019-04-26T23:15:38+00:00

Sounds to me like you misled and confused her. I wouldn't do anything drastic. If I were you I would slowly disconnect from her. Cold turkey might make her go crazy. DO NOT full ghost this woman. She is crazy. Slowly pull back from this girl. And be understanding of her feelings; it will make this go a lot smoother if you pretend you care about her feelings. She felt misled so play from that front. You played her, so I mean, yeah, she's going to be mad. I think most people would be. Imagine if you were in a relationship and she cheated on you; it's basically what you just did to her. She felt played. So, slowly disconnect from her and pull back just don't be drastic and ghost her or she may lose her mind. Definitely respond to her. Tell her to date someone else to get back at you. Play the "I'm so horrible, go find better" card. It will make this go smoother.

I do not advise reporting or anything. She's just mad. She's pissed the fuck off. She's just talking madness.

primusinterpares1 · 2019-04-26T23:22:55+00:00

See you broke rule 1 "Don't fuck 'crazy'. The only thing you can do is cut her ass loose, and hope she doesn't go full bunny boiler on you

WayneNolting · 2019-04-26T23:41:11+00:00

ThisIsWhyYouCHL

Yes, report it immediately. Get a restraining order. Set an alarm. Get a gun. Bitch is crazy, stay away.

Musicgoon · 2019-04-27T00:16:14+00:00

Go to the police. Cut all contact. She might not kill you or herself but she can fuck up your property or slander you. Stay away from this crazy hoe!

CavAv8tr · 2019-04-27T00:20:13+00:00

Broken plate...dispose

User-31f64a4e · 2019-04-27T00:36:18+00:00

Gun up.
Maybe something small which works well with a pocket holster (and thus is relatively insensitive to clothing) like the SIG-365.

Is that an overreaction? Hopefully.
Hopefully this is just attention-getting, histrionic behavior. The problem is that it is difficult to assess just how insane she is, so it is difficult to know how serious the threat is.

There's just one question you have to ask yourself. Do you feel lucky? Do you want to roll the dice on her (already demonstrably insane) behavior? Well, do you punk?

This is not a relationship you want to preserve.
So why would you give a fuck about keeping her out of trouble?
To report or not to report, the reason you waver is not wanting to get her in trouble.

Why not?

What do you loose reporting her? I suppose only you know if it will be likely to egg her on, or make her desist.

Finally, while restraining orders are great and all, when seconds count the police are only minutes away. Hence the gun up thing.

jenovajunkie · 2019-04-27T00:46:24+00:00

Go to the police.

Ten buxs say they don't do shit. Then do it back to her, let her report it. Twenty bux say you end up with restraining orders up your asshole.

gordoburrito415 · 2019-04-27T01:20:20+00:00

This makes me want to never have another plate again in my life... Time for bowls! Mole bowls

mysticplaces · 2019-04-27T01:24:04+00:00

...how would you rate her pussy?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-04-27T01:47:55+00:00

Obligatory warning about not sticking dick in crazy.

99/100 someone who actually gives a shit about going beserk and offing you, isn't bloody well going to call you and warn you about it first. That takes a pretty special breed of retard.

I would have laughed a bit and asked for details about her gun collection. If she sounds credible, call the cops.

In any case, zero contact and you should probably ask for a restraining order.

thedonuts352 · 2019-04-27T01:55:10+00:00

You have to kill her first!

robikin · 2019-04-27T02:09:35+00:00

Master Caution - Ecam Actions - LAND ASAP RED

light-----------dark · 2019-04-27T02:19:27+00:00

yikes.

good luck.

TheQuatum · 2019-04-27T03:27:06+00:00

Honestly these kind of women have signs. She's a certified nutbag, don't spend another second near. Honestly with these loons I'd involve the police if this goes any further

Haki_User · 2019-04-27T03:32:13+00:00

Well sony, you've got yourself a BPD plate.

Now while she is unlikely to pull through her hidden threat, you need to deal with it either way.

The options you have depending on where you live is:
If you live in a first world country where she can accuse you of rape and drag you in court even when there is no evidence, go file a police report as soon as you wake up.
If you are in a country where they don't take mad bitches accusations that seriously, you might follow my approach.

I once was in a club and this bitch was thirsty to get me, like she thought I'm gonna have him no matter what, I ignored her nevertheless so she pulls a desperate move, she goes to the where I have my drink and pours it down on the floor, gets in an argument with the manager, me, intoxicated and horny as I was talked to her and took her home nevertheless.

Big fucking mistake.

When we were in my apartment she literally started screaming and throwing tantrums, I am well respected in the building I live and can't afford the shame. So what I do is tell her that I have advanced psychosis, show her some paracetamol and tell her that's the medicine the psychiatrist gave me, if you don't leave now I Swear I'm gonna throw you off the window from the 4th fucking floor. She kept screaming. So I pick the bitch up and move to the window, open it with one hand and she's like Ok Ok I'm gonna fucking leave let me doooooooown, then I let her down and she fucked right off.

The idea is to let her know that you are x10 times crazier than her, so her shit doesn't tilt you.

SpinPlates · 2019-04-26T18:28:06+00:00

I had a plate take a handful of ambien and swim out into the gulf of Mexico because i went on a date with another girl. She ended up back on the beach and survied. Got the help she needed and moved cities.

Get out while you can.

backgroundmusic95 · 2019-04-26T17:49:28+00:00

You're going to have bomb sex right before being murdered 😈

Str8SavaJ · 2019-04-26T18:30:01+00:00

Jesus man where did you find this chick? Yeah i agree with what they said, report that shit. Gotta love those crazy hoes. I cant get enough of them..

ethreax · 2019-04-26T21:31:25+00:00

She is in love with you, madly crazy and is freaking out you use her only for sex. She won’t kill you but slso this threat is not acceptable and she is crazy.

JustMillenialProblem · 2019-04-26T22:44:42+00:00

Don't know mate. She's clearly unstable so you might want to change the way you behave around her. I know you're into red pill and shit, but you should probably let her go amicably and hope she doesn't try to kill you. I would call her before reporting to the police and attempt to gauge how serious she is about that threat. Good luck.

c4toyourdoornobeef · 2019-04-26T16:46:25+00:00

you’re a fool to leave both names in the text but🤷🏼‍♂️

ChemicalGiraffe · 2019-04-26T18:47:19+00:00

Username checks out

QuintonRammedMyPage · 2019-04-26T19:58:46+00:00

I’ve noticed a descent correlation with craziness and how good the sex is. With this one, the sex must’ve been bomb.

With that being said OP, hard next and ghost.

Psychological_Radish · 2019-04-26T18:07:18+00:00

You keep saying that you don't want to get police involved because that will make things worse...how will that make things worse, exactly?

By not calling the police, you send the message that she can say and do anything she wants with no consequences. She just threatened to kill you, and you respond with the weakly passive-aggressive "k."

I don't understand the aversion to getting law enforcement involved in serious situations. I called the cops on a family member who threatened suicide, despite being urged not to. They put her in the loony bin for a week and guess what? There hasn't been a problem since.

jzekyll3 · 2019-04-26T18:16:08+00:00

Miscegenation has its price

ChadTheWaiter100 · 2019-04-26T19:41:02+00:00

Slap her and tell her “don’t even think about it.”

GisforJumping · 2019-04-26T17:11:17+00:00

Poorly handled. I’ve been in similar situations where I couldn’t tell a shit test from a comfort test. Rate my approach.

Her: I love you more tHan anything You: you know... I feel the same way Her: really?! You: yea, I’ve been meaning to tell you Her: I don’t want anyone else You: me neither

She pays for the meal. Go back to your place and have the best sex of your relationship. Next day she wakes up, makes you breakfast, and leaves on cloud 9. Next day you hit up plate number 2 and do the same thing.

Now you have 2 girlfriends who are crazy about you. When you get bored, have a fake argument and break it off.

I don’t know what you people are doing letting the girl hang both of you with the unreciprocated “I love you”. It’s like you love bad emotionless sex

Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..

Comments

" This woman clearly wants to cause you harm, and while the kill you shit is almost certainly overblown"

ThisIsWhyYouCHL

Title	Plate just threatened to kill me and herself..
Author	victimization
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Date	April 26, 2019 4:00 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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