http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1246041

Summary: A married woman does a guy's body paint at a bar. He seems flirty and she decides to give him her card. Flirty guy starts sending flirty texts. She tells her husband and he tells her to tell him that she's just not interested. She doesn't do this and gives a neutral reply instead, because he didn't "flat out proposition" her, she says. Flirty guy sends her another text that was "definitely more suggestive". She again tells her husband who then yells "why are you reading these to me? Just tell him you're not interested! I don't know what's so hard about that!" then storms out of the house.

So now I feel upset and nervous about work tonight and like I did something wrong... Ladies - did I do something wrong here? I don't know what to say to my husband so I've chosen just to be quiet. Also, I'm nervous about this guy showing up tonight - I am working alone at this place...

TRANSLATION: Comfort me and tell me my husband is an overreacting son of a bitch and should understand that men are just attracted to me all the time. I'm obviously the victim here.

I got really uncomfortable with the text and showed my husband, kind of nervous but kind of laughing it off to blow off the tension...my husband says "just say you're not interested" I felt like that didn't really apply since I was working again tonight and the guy, who paid to get painted, didn't flat out proposition me.

Alright gentlemen. Place your bets and tick the boxes that apply.

  • She's not very bright.
  • She's attracted to flirty guy.
  • She enjoys the attention and validation.
  • She wants to make her husband jealous.

I'm going to go ahead and tick all the boxes.

Interesting note: The people at TwoXChromosomes didn't give her what she wants and chewed her out instead. This is yet another thread at TwoXChromosomes where the comments have surprised me and have moved in the direction of TRP.

The top comment is the following:

He didn't flat out proposition me" LMFAO What does he have to do, whip it out? Unless you aren't happy in your marriage make it clear to the painting guy you aren't interested. Or get a divorce and bone away!