Attraction and mentally ill woman

Million-Suns · 2018-12-23T04:02:56+00:00

Simple. RP men are focused on slaying pussy at whatever cost. That goes with emancipation from usual constraints and conditioning. That translates into being ok with one night stands, casual sex, juggling plates, which mostly can be done with the participation of promiscuous women who themselves are likely to be affected by some mental pathology or behavorial issues or self esteem issues. Of course there are exceptions, but that's the trend of course.

insultin_crayon · 2018-12-23T02:18:51+00:00

Preferences for easily manipulated women, vulnerable women, women who will eagerly 'give you everything they have' (not a healthy partnered behavior), and women who may share 'atypical' interests or lifestyles means that RP men may gravitate towards the sort of women who exhibit these traits.

Many mentally ill women possess traits that RP men might be particularly predisposed to consider desirable in a partner in addition to those they might consider undesirable, and if they value, say, immediate submission enough, they may overlook the immediate, hook-sinking-in over-attachment that sometimes (but by no means always) comes with it.

Not all mentally ill women are the same, and not all women are the same, but it's hard to argue that RP philosophy doesn't, in some ways, push men towards women who behave in ways that are at odds with their interests, at least temporarily. Many women who behave in ways at odds with their interests have mental illnesses.

openoids · 2018-12-23T04:08:39+00:00

I have a 22 yr old niece with bpd. God she's a frustrating person to interact with. I used to think "Oh please...someday some guy will hitch up with her and then it's his problem." But now I think she ought to come with a warning label. I feel for any suitors.

Salty-Bastard · 2018-12-23T02:42:08+00:00

Cluster B women manufacture RP men.

poppy_blu · 2018-12-23T05:03:11+00:00

Yes, TRPs seem more likely to be co-dependent by nature. When they get so called RPed, they trade for a different kind of dysfunctional relationship with women based on manipulation, which insecure and emotionally unstable women are far more likely to fall for/put up with.

couldbemage · 2018-12-23T06:52:44+00:00

What counts? So many people are on antidepressants or anti anxiety meds. And if you also count any who just do crazy stuff...

goatismycopilot · 2018-12-23T14:06:12+00:00

I was thinking that it is not so much that TRP men attract crazy women but that people are just not very self aware about the patterns and relationships they repeat. And some people also enjoy a certain level of drama in their lives that mentally unstable provide so they end up with the crazies because of that. There is super virtue signaling with this one, so many men say oh I want a nice low maintenance woman who is nice to me not a psychotic bitch but that is not who they end up with. I have some male aquaintances who are like this they actually love the drama but they do not want to admit it and it makes their otherwise hum drum life feel special. It is not gendered though I have some female friends who have consistently picked lunatic guys or alcoholic guys because they never did any introspection. Most of the time there is a clear family history at the root of why these choices are made.

sadomasochrist · 2018-12-23T02:15:46+00:00

Women with fearful avoidant attachment mechanisms (which is at the root of BPD) can only feel "love" when they are with emotionally distant men.

They make perfect plates and explode their relationships when someone securely invests in them.

That being said, these women only amplify the issues and it doesn't change how women select men (dualistic strategy, AF\BB) and what men get out of the deal.

It is good strategy to use the "worst case" in terms of how to plan your system.

Eartherry · 2018-12-23T06:46:09+00:00

The kinds of women that are eager to put other's needs before their own are oftentimes suffering from some kind of disorder. To a man, she'll seem dedicated if not ideal. But he'll find that she'll take it too far, ignoring her health and wellbeing to the point where she's hurting herself.

But more importantly it's all to satisfy a need, to fill a void no one is capable of making feel better. She'll either blame her man for not doing enough or blame herself and start to create distance for his sake. Either way, a relationship is impossible with her until she decides to get help.

LoseMoneyAllWeek · 2018-12-23T06:58:28+00:00

Most women have some sort of head case, at least the kind of women who regular the bar scene

TheBookOfSeil · 2018-12-23T03:40:55+00:00

I think that a common “red pill thought” (not TRP) being held today is that a lot of women are, in some way, mentally ill.

Whether they are actually “mentally ill” or this being a matter of “male vs female” perspective is the question.

SAC-Lawn_Gnome · 2018-12-23T02:23:54+00:00

Aren't the majority of women today mentally ill to some degree? Like you'd have a hard time not attracting them if you're attracting women in any number.

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jintana · 2018-12-23T07:53:55+00:00

I’ve heard the saying “women are crazy because men are stupid” somewhere before. While sexist as fuck, I’d say it delineates the RP hypothesis about mental illness in women succinctly.

mydikishomofobik · 2018-12-23T13:40:32+00:00

What is bpd and why do people online keep talking about it? I just want to fuck hot women in the pussy. As far as relationships go, I'd want one who is nice to me and doesn't have too much baggage.

abicus4343 · 2018-12-25T18:50:08+00:00

This is simple. TRP philosophy and seduction techniques are geared toward damaged women. Only damaged women fall for this stuff, most high value women with an once of self esteem see though this shit and wont tolerate being treated poorly. They are looking for an equal partner, true intimacy and vulnerability. TRP advises men against all these things. That leaves only the damaged, mentally ill women with low self esteem that are easily manipulated by redpill games.

Like attracts like basically, redpill men are damaged in their own way, they hate women, they dont trust women, they see relationships as a competition and women as the enemy. A healthy stable woman sees a redpill man coming a mile away. Women are also very in tune with their intuition and can instantly sense when a man hates women, this energy repulses healthy women but attracts damaged women. We attract the people we resonate with.

[deleted] · 2019-01-11T14:04:32+00:00

Some BPDs tend to be promiscuous. That might already be enough.

Atlas_B_Shruggin · 2018-12-23T04:39:11+00:00

Attractive men cause women to act mentally ill

[deleted] · 2018-12-23T05:02:12+00:00

the reason men on TRP seem to see so many mentally ill woman.

Did I miss other posts? The only one I saw that was posted today, was from a blue pill. Asking the red pill. So... why would the red pill has anything to do with it? They are just being asked.

is that there is something about TRP that attracts these types of women.

Hum... maybe you are not seeing the entire picture. Men whose could not understand women's behavior at all are attracted to TRP. So it makes sense we have experience with crazy women. To us, in for most of our life, women make absolutely no sense. And even to this day many women's behavior make no sense to me. Although TRP helped to explain a lot of them.

Also. I am pretty sure all man have a experience with a crazy chick. Heck, in one video from college humor, of their list of 10 kinds of women you will meet, I find a quarter of them to be clinically insane (come on, dependant, avoidant and psychopathic are DSM-5 personality disorders. And they are far from having any relation to the red pill.

Also the feminist side of things seens pretty related to mental illnesses. Which would probably also apply to its pill offshoot. The blue pill. TRP may have experience with crazy women. But TBP is constituted by them.

. So what is it on men's Tinder profile that seem to attract woman with BPD? What is it that men are doing that attracts the crazies?

Again I am pretty sure it is the other way around. Imagine, if you use TRP you pass by a great number of women. And the law of great numbers would say some may be crazy. And would end up in bad places. Also. Those who had fallen to those crazy women tend to gravitate to the manosphere when they are fed up with their bullcrap. (Usually more to the MGTOW side tho)

Title	Attraction and mentally ill woman
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Date	December 23, 2018 2:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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